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can i get an honest opinion? - 9/26/2006 9:07:03 AM   
ladysian


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Status: offline 		As part of my previous post "can someone explain this to me?" I told that I was personally insulted by a subbie
So please can I ask you all to look at my pictures on my profile and give me an honest opinion of my appearance?
The exact line of the insult went "you have more chins than than a chinese telephone book" can you tell me if this is true?

Many thanks

Ladysian
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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 9/26/2006 9:12:44 AM   
MsKatHouston


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Status: offline 		I don't think so.  I also would not worry too much about what someone says who is obviously rude and uncaring.  You will be attractive to some, not to others as will everyone in the world.  Don't sweat it. 

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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 9/26/2006 9:14:09 AM   
LadyMorgynn


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Status: offline 		Don't worry about it.  It's not worth your time.  There are people out there who have nothing better to do than to take advantage fo the anonymity offered to make rude comments about someone's appearance.  You should care for the opinion of someone like that anyway.  Both men and women, Dom, sub and switch, are capable of doing this.  Just block them, and delete the email, and even doing that is more time than they are worth!

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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 9/26/2006 9:14:30 AM   
sweetnurseBBW


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Status: offline 		I personally think you are a beautiful woman. Why care what a nobody thinks. For every insult comes 100 compliments. You have to be confident in yourself if you want subs/slaves to be confident in you.  Toughen up and disregard negative comments. Good luck.

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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 9/26/2006 9:15:04 AM   
MstrssPassion


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Status: offline 		honestly... one can't see your chin/neck area from the picture you provide

honestly... why the flip do you care what some idiot online says about you

honestly... if you have such an issue with how strangers online perceive your appearance then pull your photo off the net

honestly... why are you letting something as juvenille as this consume so much of your time & energy

honestly... if you focus on positive things that happen in life each day you will have a much more positive feeling about yourself & your life

honestly... I am not answering to be a shit... I honestly hope that you can find comfort in my words as well as a good laugh

Hun... if your going to be the leader in your relationships you gotta stop giving so many fools power in your life

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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 9/26/2006 9:15:39 AM   
MasterC46910


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Status: offline 		I agree with the others, just blow it off.  Delete the email and move on.

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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 9/26/2006 9:15:45 AM   
NINASHARP


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Status: offline 		I wouldn't worry about petty insults that people make. Some do try to put people down to make themselves feel big.  As to your pics, I just glanced over them, and noticed that they are blurry and not clear. I think maybe you used a graphics program to tone them up, and it back fired with streaks on your neck.


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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 9/26/2006 9:18:01 AM   
ladysian


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Status: offline 		no i didnt use a graphics programme they've just been resized by the site and have gone all pixelly

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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 9/26/2006 9:22:37 AM   
LadyEllen


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Status: offline 		You look fine.

Tell the little shit he has the smallest cock in the farmyard and be done with it. And if he has a problem with that, send him to me and I'll tell him a few other home truths he can ponder. Inside knowledge is a wonderful thing at times.
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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 9/26/2006 9:23:56 AM   
NINASHARP


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Status: offline 		Maybe try to resize them yourself and then resubmit them.  Though, like everyone else said, you really are a beautiful woman and I wouldn't worry so much about those who take the time out their day, just to send you a negative comment.

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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 9/26/2006 9:25:10 AM   
NINASHARP


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

You look fine.

Tell the little shit he has the smallest cock in the farmyard and be done with it. And if he has a problem with that, send him to me and I'll tell him a few other home truths he can ponder. Inside knowledge is a wonderful thing at times.
E


LOL!!!

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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 9/26/2006 9:28:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MstrssPassion

honestly... one can't see your chin/neck area from the picture you provide

honestly... why the flip do you care what some idiot online says about you

honestly... if you have such an issue with how strangers online perceive your appearance then pull your photo off the net

honestly... why are you letting something as juvenille as this consume so much of your time & energy

honestly... if you focus on positive things that happen in life each day you will have a much more positive feeling about yourself & your life

honestly... I am not answering to be a shit... I honestly hope that you can find comfort in my words as well as a good laugh

Hun... if your going to be the leader in your relationships you gotta stop giving so many fools power in your life


Nicely said, Passion, especially the last line.
 


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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 9/26/2006 9:30:09 AM   
michaelGA2


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ladysian

As part of my previous post "can someone explain this to me?" I told that I was personally insulted by a subbie
So please can I ask you all to look at my pictures on my profile and give me an honest opinion of my appearance?
The exact line of the insult went "you have more chins than than a chinese telephone book" can you tell me if this is true?

Many thanks

Ladysian


i think this little subbie wannabe is both jealous and blind. he needs to have not only his eyes examined...but his head also (the one on his shoulders...not in his pants...then again. that might take a bit of scrutiny...not to mention a microscope)


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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 9/26/2006 9:40:33 AM   
MstrssPassion


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Status: offline 		To Level, thanks... I just hope the person how it was intended for find value in my words.

To Lady Ellen... that crack about small cock... eh, some guys actually get off on stuff like that. I can't tell you the number of times I have had guys tell me that they want to told they have little cocks.


< Message edited by MstrssPassion -- 9/26/2006 9:41:11 AM >

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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 9/26/2006 9:42:16 AM   
SirDaniel


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ladysian

As part of my previous post "can someone explain this to me?" I told that I was personally insulted by a subbie
So please can I ask you all to look at my pictures on my profile and give me an honest opinion of my appearance?
The exact line of the insult went "you have more chins than than a chinese telephone book" can you tell me if this is true?

Many thanks

Ladysian


The subbie could not have been seeing the same photos I did. IF they were they are one of two things or both actual.
Stupid and blind.

My only comment. Why can't you be submissive, then you would be perfect in my book.. LOL



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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 9/26/2006 9:43:57 AM   
michaelGA2


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Status: offline 		must have been wearing bifocals

LOL


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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 9/26/2006 9:44:41 AM   
juliaoceania


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ladysian

As part of my previous post "can someone explain this to me?" I told that I was personally insulted by a subbie
So please can I ask you all to look at my pictures on my profile and give me an honest opinion of my appearance?
The exact line of the insult went "you have more chins than than a chinese telephone book" can you tell me if this is true?

Many thanks

Ladysian



I remember recently being in a political chatroom and having the pic of me on profile talking on my cellphone outside... it shows my midriff. I am 38 years old, I have 16 yr old. I am not a spring chicken. He made fun of my belly, he was like 19 years old.. I asked him on mic "What does your mother's belly look like these days?"... he shut up...lol.

This person is either emotionally regressed or very young (maybe lying about his age to post here). I find only teenage boys make comments like these and they tend to exagerate every female flaw because they think that women should look like sports illustrated swmsuit models, nevermind the fact that those models do not really look like those models...

Meanspiritedness is a way to reduce people down to that person's level... I would refuse to let that happen... my signature line states my opinion about that

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent

It is up to you whether you will allow that, and BTW, I think you are a very attractive lady, and even if you weren't it would not affect your worth as a human being... just my opinion

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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 9/26/2006 10:34:49 AM   
MCandNuri


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Status: offline 		The angles in your pics aren't the greatest, but...uhm..to echo everyone else, "Who cares?"
Don't let em have that much sway on your self worth.
As for me...having looked at your profile..you SCARE me.
..in a good way. ;-)


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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 9/26/2006 11:27:05 AM   
MASTERRocker


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Status: offline 		Hon re;ax   I looked at the telephone book and there are not THAT many......
No;  being serious now..... why would you care what a 'subbie' thought?  Is she a lover? - no; a friend? - no;     so... who cares    you look fine Hon
Hugs
MASTER Rocker

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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 9/26/2006 1:03:27 PM   
Jasmyn


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Status: offline 		Sian is one of those wonderful internet phenomenons ... the "you're going to reject me so I'll do or say something to illicit a rejection and I can blame my bad manners rather than my sad pathetic inability to get a woman to look at me let alone reject me"
 
Responding to them can melt the wee poppet's heart.



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