amayos -> RE: Age...again (9/28/2006 1:57:58 PM)
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ORIGINAL: RedSavageSlave I tend to look more towards traditional gender roles and where age becomes an issue with me is when I get these 20 somethings who think that I should consider them as a Master to me because "age is just a number and I am being prejudicial" if I dont consider them as well. I am sorry.. I am prejudicial.. I like men who are older, more mature than I am ... not to date me.. but to control me.... I have spent too many years raising my children to adulthood and would see someone of that age to be no more than a child in my eyes. Why they cannot accept when I tell them no I am not interested is also a show to me of "lack of maturity".. I have posted on my profile I am NOT looking for a boyfriend or a lover. Romance is not my goal. I want someone to control and own me. And I will not hand over that responsibility to someone who has as few life experiences as someone in their 20's. Excuse the rant if that is how you do see this post.. but to be told that because I have an age preference in the man I seek is akin to no more than wanting a boyfriend is a bit presumptious. I believe I was explaining a point of view that was misinterpreted and called into question. The presumption of my presumption, ironically, is on your part. My given reasons as I see them were not meant as complete absolutes, but rather observations of a trend. Your above motives for age preference, while I feel are biased and (irony again) presumptuous, make sense, according to your point of view. Personally, I do not underestimate the young. Empires have fallen over men doing something so brash.
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