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RE: Age - 9/28/2006 12:23:02 PM   
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RE: Age - 9/28/2006 1:09:55 PM   
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RE: Age - 9/28/2006 1:15:11 PM   
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Disagree if you want but I think age is just a number too, im 21 and my Master is 55. Some may think that is totally wrong but it works for us. There are things that are more important then how long you have been alive.


I never said anything about anyone's age difference being right or wrong.. I am simply saying that age is NOT just a number...please dont read more into my posts than are there and then ascribe their assumed meanings to me.. LOL

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RE: Age - 9/28/2006 1:16:59 PM   
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My god girl, don't you know the main cause of baldness is excess tosterone?  Yup
 
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RE: Age - 9/28/2006 1:18:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RedSavageSlave

quote:

ORIGINAL: Sub03

Disagree if you want but I think age is just a number too, im 21 and my Master is 55. Some may think that is totally wrong but it works for us. There are things that are more important then how long you have been alive.


I never said anything about anyone's age difference being right or wrong.. I am simply saying that age is NOT just a number...please dont read more into my posts than are there and then ascribe their assumed meanings to me.. LOL


You mean much like you did with your original post?

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RE: Age - 9/28/2006 1:23:30 PM   
RedSavageSlave


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ORIGINAL: amayos

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ORIGINAL: RedSavageSlave

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ORIGINAL: amayos

For many, I feel the term "Master" or "Mistress" ultimately takes a secondary role to "boyfriend" or "girlfriend."



I am not exactly sure how this comment fits in with the age discussion.


From my experience, those who predicate their search upon more traditional mate-based criteria often do make age compatibility a factor, among other things. The growing trend of age preference, or "dating" within one's age group may be indicative of a subset of mainstream influence, which tends to see BDSM as a singles in latex depot.



I tend to look more towards traditional gender roles and where age becomes an issue with me is when I get these 20 somethings who think that I should consider them as a Master to me because "age is just a number and I am being prejudicial" if I dont consider them as well.  I am sorry.. I am prejudicial.. I like men who are older, more mature than I am ... not to date me.. but to control me.... I have spent too many years raising my children to adulthood and would see someone of that age to be no more than a child in my eyes. Why they cannot accept when I tell them no I am not interested is also a show to me of "lack of maturity".. I have posted on my profile I am NOT looking for a boyfriend or a lover. Romance is not my goal. I want someone to control and own me. And I will not hand over that responsibility to someone who has as few life experiences as someone in their 20's.

Excuse the rant if that is how you do see this post.. but to be told that because I have an age preference in the man I seek is akin to no more than wanting a boyfriend is a bit presumptious.



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RE: Age - 9/28/2006 1:23:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RedSavageSlave
I never said anything about anyone's age difference being right or wrong.. I am simply saying that age is NOT just a number...please dont read more into my posts than are there and then ascribe their assumed meanings to me.. LOL
I agree that I've met boys much younger whom I've considered dating, but for myself, if he is clearly young enough to be my son (like 20years younger), I feel awkward being with him.   Indeed to me, age is not just a number and I know that as much as I know my body is no longer what it was at 18...  My mind is better, but my body, nah.    M

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RE: Age - 9/28/2006 1:27:27 PM   
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RE: Age - 9/28/2006 1:32:27 PM   
Bearlee


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Huh?  I've never heard anything dumber

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RE: Age - 9/28/2006 1:40:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Bearlee
Huh?  I've never heard anything dumber
LOL, what you missed the comercial?   M 

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RE: Age - 9/28/2006 1:43:19 PM   
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< Message edited by RedSavageSlave -- 9/28/2006 1:46:41 PM >

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RE: Age - 9/28/2006 1:43:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		The pill I refer to is Finasteride, commonly known as Propecia. I think everyone has heard of hair transplant surgery.

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RE: Age - 9/28/2006 1:44:40 PM   
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LOL  yeah well, there's a commercial for some new cleaning pad that'll clean the bathroom floors, bathroom walls, AND the bathroom countertops.  Ewwwwwwwwwwwww...
 
Common, commercials (and political endorsements) are not to be believed...
 
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RE: Age - 9/28/2006 1:46:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

The pill I refer to is Finasteride, commonly known as Propecia. I think everyone has heard of hair transplant surgery.

Gonna have to tell my brother about this, he has been balding since he was 19, he takes after our father's side of the family. I on the other hand have a full head of wonderful silver gray hair. My wife says I should dye it but I like it the way it is

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RE: Age - 9/28/2006 1:48:35 PM   
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RE: Age - 9/28/2006 1:49:18 PM   
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Uh huh...and if the guy did his homework: (http://www.mesomorphosis.com/steroid-profiles/proscar.htm)  I'm REALLY SURE he'd like the idea of reducing his testosterone for some marginal hair growth!  ugg...   What's wrong with bald men?  About the same thing as women with dark hair.

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RE: Age - 9/28/2006 1:49:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		I am one of those people that had a 10 year range that I was looking to be involved with. I wanted someone around my age or a little older that had reared teenagers, had a couple of careers, a few brokenhearts... etc etc etc

It may seem unfair, but I feel this understanding of where I am in my life with men my own age. Younger men just do not appeal to me on any level sexually. I do not know why, but there it is.

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RE: Age - 9/28/2006 1:57:13 PM   
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A nice haed body slave is nice to look at; but if the mouth still talks like, 'like, like, OMG, like,...' then I will take a real woman anyday of the week (including Sundays....) 'smirks'
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RE: Age...again - 9/28/2006 1:57:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RedSavageSlave

I tend to look more towards traditional gender roles and where age becomes an issue with me is when I get these 20 somethings who think that I should consider them as a Master to me because "age is just a number and I am being prejudicial" if I dont consider them as well. I am sorry.. I am prejudicial.. I like men who are older, more mature than I am ... not to date me.. but to control me.... I have spent too many years raising my children to adulthood and would see someone of that age to be no more than a child in my eyes. Why they cannot accept when I tell them no I am not interested is also a show to me of "lack of maturity".. I have posted on my profile I am NOT looking for a boyfriend or a lover. Romance is not my goal. I want someone to control and own me. And I will not hand over that responsibility to someone who has as few life experiences as someone in their 20's.

Excuse the rant if that is how you do see this post.. but to be told that because I have an age preference in the man I seek is akin to no more than wanting a boyfriend is a bit presumptious.



I believe I was explaining a point of view that was misinterpreted and called into question. The presumption of my presumption, ironically, is on your part. My given reasons as I see them were not meant as complete absolutes, but rather observations of a trend.

Your above motives for age preference, while I feel are biased and (irony again) presumptuous, make sense, according to your point of view. Personally, I do not underestimate the young. Empires have fallen over men doing something so brash.

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RE: Age...again - 9/28/2006 2:09:58 PM   
gooddogbenji


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ORIGINAL: amayos

Empires have fallen over men doing something so brash.



Which ones?

Yours,


benji

PS:  I don't really care, and usually admire your viewpoint, so this is not an attack, just morbid curiousity (It killed the cat, after all, and that was a damn good dinner that day)

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