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LadyEllen -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/21/2007 2:33:27 PM)
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ORIGINAL: womenrule
I really enjoy being dominated by a women but honestly is something I cant afford. Looks to me that its a fetish just for rich old guys, some mistresses ask for 300 an hour some even 500, come on !! thats a week salary and we dont even have sex.
Hmmm.
1) Not all women are what shall we call it? How about "psychosexually dominant"? ((PD for the purposes of this post) Of those that are, a high proportion are in stable long term relationships, or want such, and refrain from exercising or exhibiting their PD openly. Of those remaining who do exercise and exhibit their PD openly, many are also in stable long term relationships or seeking such and so are not particularly interested in casual scenes. I am assuming from your post, that you are seeking casual encounters, which leaves you at a disadvantage from the start, given the veracity of the above which suggest that LTRs are the way to go to increase your chances - though of course, these require time and commitment to develop. This leaves available, a small proportion who are open about their PD natures and willing to indulge this on a casual basis.
So, if we'd started with a 100 women, we might say that 20 had a PD nature, of which 2 say, were into casual scenes.
2) So, we have perhaps 2% of the female population who might just indulge submissive males on a casual basis. Say on some bizarre grounds that half of those would indulge you on casual basis for free because they enjoy it and arent too picky. That leaves 1% of the general female population, or 5% of all women who have a PD nature who might find their way into offering domination on a casual basis for free. Good luck with finding them. Meanwhile, there is another 1% who offer what youre looking for, in return for reimbursement of some kind - usually money, but not always. They are much easier to locate, since they advertise.
3) Now, you want something and someone else has it available. Welcome to marketing 101. If you want it, then the other person may make a charge for it and in general in life, the more demand there is, either by reason of many clients but more often because of shortage of supply, the person who has it available can charge a price which is comparatively high. If you can pull a woman off the street and get her to tie you up and spank you, good for you, but in general this isnt possible.
4) The charging policy is set by the person offering the sale in this particular market; it is a "seller's market". Like anything you'd like but cant afford easily, you might have to save up and buy it as a treat.
5) If you want sexual intercourse with a domina, then you are going to be disappointed I feel. Alternatively, why not go and find a prostitute, hand her a whip or something and get what you want that way? Also much cheaper.
6) The provision of a venue, equipment et al, not to mention the effort that is required to provide to someone you have little connection with, a satisfactory experience, is costly. The first items in terms of their purchase and acquisition, the latter in terms of personal drain. Its not money for nothing, dear boy - its demanding on the lady concerned. Feeling that all of this should be for free, or cheap is simply being unreasonable.
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