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lateralist1 -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/24/2007 3:59:19 PM)

It really is time that we could seperate out the profiles of people who are bottoms or tops ie like to play at BDSM and people who are subs and Dom/mes who live it.
It must be very very confusing for newbies.
It took me ages to work out that people played at it.
I still find that I am talking at cross purposes with some people.
Perhaps we need two different sections on the site.
If we had that then we wouldn't have to have these kinds of converstaions.



DivaDuchess -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/24/2007 5:20:47 PM)

Define who you are, what you are seeking and where the line is drawn.  Your profile would lead me to charge an arm and leg just because you scream ... take my cash!!

Diva



MistressSassy66 -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/24/2007 10:33:04 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lateralist1

It really is time that we could seperate out the profiles of people who are bottoms or tops ie like to play at BDSM and people who are subs and Dom/mes who live it.
It must be very very confusing for newbies.
It took me ages to work out that people played at it.
I still find that I am talking at cross purposes with some people.
Perhaps we need two different sections on the site.
If we had that then we wouldn't have to have these kinds of converstaions.



1st there is a section for Pro to advertise,2nd there will always be those who think the way they do.
Some people like Myself not only session with paying submissives but I also have what I call personal submissives.I live it and work it which to Me is really just an extension of living it.

I know that you can not please everyone so I opt for the
LOA=least objectional action OR I pick the one that pisses everyone off...lol



bludemonn -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/25/2007 12:34:53 PM)

My two pennies worth? Charging for a service is perfectly fine...encouraging and charging for a desire when you do not even understand the feelings involved when turning 'on' a sub is firstly dangerous and secondly improper...but then again thats just my view.... Sometimes the very idea of the 'bitch' element that some very attractive ladies will simply demand cash can be a turn on in itself. Subs at the point of deep weakness should stop before they hand over the money and try to evaluate then and there whether they are paying for an illusion or whether they do actually wish for a service, then again easier said than done![:(]  



mnottertail -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/25/2007 12:39:12 PM)

Uhhhhhhhhhhh, gonna disagree with you there somewhat, pal.   I run a TV all the time, turn the channels and lo and behold, there's Boris Badenov and Natasha, right the fuck where they should be, don't have any idea what goes on inside....

Nothing dangerous about it, unless the TV is unstable in the first place.


Ron(ne)



MuscleyandCute -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/25/2007 12:59:02 PM)

Just thought I would ad something.  When I was just getting started in the scene a few years ago I talked to a Domme who was in her 50's and had been active in the scene for many years so obviously considerably more experienced than me, she was just a Dominant woman who enjoyed dominating, not a Pro or anything else.  On the subject of Dommes she told me that most of  them are just after what they can get.  I thought that was interesting.




MistressDolly -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/25/2007 7:48:38 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MuscleyandCute

Just thought I would ad something.  When I was just getting started in the scene a few years ago I talked to a Domme who was in her 50's and had been active in the scene for many years so obviously considerably more experienced than me, she was just a Dominant woman who enjoyed dominating, not a Pro or anything else.  On the subject of Dommes she told me that most of  them are just after what they can get.  I thought that was interesting.




I'm sure this "experienced and active in the scene for years, non-pro, just a dominant woman" you describe above gave you a lot of other wise advice, too. 



Real0ne -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/25/2007 7:57:49 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66

quote:

ORIGINAL: lateralist1

It really is time that we could seperate out the profiles of people who are bottoms or tops ie like to play at BDSM and people who are subs and Dom/mes who live it.
It must be very very confusing for newbies.
It took me ages to work out that people played at it.
I still find that I am talking at cross purposes with some people.
Perhaps we need two different sections on the site.
If we had that then we wouldn't have to have these kinds of converstaions.



1st there is a section for Pro to advertise,



yeh its called a profile!  LMAO



stef -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/25/2007 8:06:56 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MistressDolly

I'm sure this "experienced and active in the scene for years, non-pro, just a dominant woman" you describe above gave you a lot of other wise advice, too. 

Not that he was likely to take it.  'MuscelyandCute' is the most recent incarnation of one of our long time pro haters, formerly known as 'McWhips' and can be safely ignored when the topic of femdoms and/or money come to light.

~stef



amayos -> Money (1/25/2007 8:33:49 PM)

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ORIGINAL: womenrule

I really enjoy being dominated by a women but honestly is something I cant afford. Looks to me that its a fetish just for rich old guys, some mistresses ask for 300 an hour some even 500, come on !! thats a week salary and we dont even have sex.



Fortune is a woman; she does not take kindly to the cheap.





mnottertail -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/25/2007 8:41:31 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MuscleyandCute

Just thought I would ad something.  When I was just getting started in the scene a few years ago I talked to a Domme who was in her 50's and had been active in the scene for many years so obviously considerably more experienced than me, she was just a Dominant woman who enjoyed dominating, not a Pro or anything else.  On the subject of Dommes she told me that most of  them are just after what they can get.  I thought that was interesting.



you certainly have advertised something---you talked to one Domme some years ago, and you have now a complete  picture  and  can now write a compendium of the life of a ProDomme--for better or worse, however you see it; and  make a buck yourself.

With your insight, and I hope I am not being to forward here;  how much  do they charge for farting services, ballpark?  And, if  I may be so bold,   how do they do that on  demand, I am sure the non-Pros out here would appreciate the tips  you could provide and may look you  up on your  signing tour.

Otherwise as my good friend (who knows who she is) says... Give it a rest.


LMFCAO,
Ron(ne)



kc692 -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/25/2007 9:26:21 PM)

He even has the same pics on his profile.....lol, gotta love it, he thinks everyone else is stooooooopid!!



BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Money (1/25/2007 11:56:32 PM)

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ORIGINAL: amayos
Fortune is a woman; she does not take kindly to the cheap.
May I borrow this for one of my signature lines?   I love it!    M



amayos -> RE: Money (1/26/2007 7:37:23 AM)

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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

quote:

ORIGINAL: amayos
Fortune is a woman; she does not take kindly to the cheap.

May I borrow this for one of my signature lines? I love it! M


Yes, by all means, I would be honored. If you cited the source, that would be even more the honor.



LadyOunce -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/26/2007 12:19:25 PM)

If all you're looking for is sex, then I'm sure you can pay a hooker to be rough.



readyrider53 -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (2/1/2007 1:25:15 PM)

I find this a little hard to fathom. You want to have a woman for sex and because she has to be a little kinky it should be for free. If I wanted a Pro Domme you should expect to pay and as long as I got what I came for (no pun intended) I would pay and leave happy (or not). There are some casual ones out there who don't charge but might not give the sex you want. It is not always about sex but having her treat me the way I need. My advice find a hooker for 20 dollars and have her beat your ass while she fucks you. Because finding one who is a pro and not paying  is fucking her.



MistressSassy66 -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (2/1/2007 2:17:12 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Real0ne

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66

quote:

ORIGINAL: lateralist1

It really is time that we could seperate out the profiles of people who are bottoms or tops ie like to play at BDSM and people who are subs and Dom/mes who live it.
It must be very very confusing for newbies.
It took me ages to work out that people played at it.
I still find that I am talking at cross purposes with some people.
Perhaps we need two different sections on the site.
If we had that then we wouldn't have to have these kinds of converstaions.



1st there is a section for Pro to advertise,



yeh its called a profile!  LMAO



Okay well there is a profile,Thats a start but also a Forum space...way down at the bottom, you know under Professional Services which you post about Your service/dungeon.That forum isnt limited to Pros,its for people who make items and offer other services.



MichMasochist -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (2/9/2007 10:51:04 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: womenrule

I really enjoy being dominated by a women but honestly is something I cant afford. Looks to me that its a fetish just for rich old guys, some mistresses ask for 300 an hour some even 500, come on !! thats a week salary and we dont even have sex.


Wow! Were I live that is low end escort pricing. Pro generally ask 200 per hour. Some will even get naked after you're in bondage.



BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (2/9/2007 10:57:25 PM)

Thanks for at least staying with the old thread on bitching rather than start a new one.    M



SCDommie -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (2/10/2007 6:00:38 AM)

It is your choice basically.  I am not in to the money aspect; however, for those women who are, I say ok by me, and they have a right to charge what they wish because toys and dungeons are very expensive to maintain.

SCD



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