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strob -> About Collarme...? (9/29/2006 8:29:32 AM)
When I first joined this community, it felt like a place on the net where real time lifestyle Dommes and subs can post their profiles, express what they are looking for, talk to each other and possibly meet. Now, I get the feeling that two thirds of the people here are either professional Dommes or fake subs...and the last third belongs to the same people you can see everyday. Is it really like that or is it just me?

Zinja2007 -> RE: About Collarme...? (9/29/2006 8:36:23 AM)
I'm lifestyle. I'm pro as well. I do real time sessions with my husband and friends. And once in a while, I will do a professional session with someone I corresponded with on this site. I've had hundreds of emails from wankers who know nothing about this power exchange lifestyle. But out of those hundreds, there are some who are real and make it all worth the while.

MsKatHouston -> RE: About Collarme...? (9/29/2006 8:42:12 AM)
quote: When I first joined this community, it felt like a place on the net where real time lifestyle Dommes and subs can post their profiles, express what they are looking for, talk to each other and possibly meet. It was. It still is. quote: Now, I get the feeling that two thirds of the people here are either professional Dommes or fake subs...and the last third belongs to the same people you can see everyday. There always was a mix. Maybe you're just getting jaded. Skip those who do not fit for you and deal with the rest. quote: Is it really like that or is it just me? I have no clue about the validity of your statistics. Does it really matter? If you found, on collarme, the partner of your dreams today would you care as much about all the ones who do not fit that ideal? It's a process, whether in real life or on a site such as this. It's just something one must deal with. Your idea of what is right for you will not fit another's. It happens.

LadyEllen -> RE: About Collarme...? (9/29/2006 8:44:28 AM)
Damn and blast! Outted again! Bah! E

gooddogbenji -> RE: About Collarme...? (9/29/2006 8:59:45 AM)
So I have the choice between being a fake sub or a pro Domme. I think I'll be the Domme today. strobby, I'll give a free session: Sit down, shut up, and a quit bitching. Happy? Yours, benji

MsKatHouston -> RE: About Collarme...? (9/29/2006 9:06:21 AM)
How much do you charge, Ma'am? Could I convince you to have some sex with that session?

gooddogbenji -> RE: About Collarme...? (9/29/2006 9:10:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsKatHouston How much do you charge, Ma'am? Could I convince you to have some sex with that session? Hell yeah! You could convince me to fuck a roadkilled badger! Yours, benji

stef -> RE: About Collarme...? (9/29/2006 9:37:55 AM)
It's just you. ~stef

sophia37 -> RE: About Collarme...? (9/29/2006 1:11:39 PM)
Im not a professional Dom or a fake sub. Does that throw off your stats?

gooddogbenji -> RE: About Collarme...? (9/29/2006 1:14:59 PM)
Nope, you're a liar anyway. EVERYONE falls into those categories. So either you're one of those, or you're not on this site. Either way, you lied at some point. Yours, benji

MisPandora -> RE: About Collarme...? (9/29/2006 5:54:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: strob When I first joined this community, it felt like a place on the net where real time lifestyle Dommes and subs can post their profiles, express what they are looking for, talk to each other and possibly meet. Now, I get the feeling that two thirds of the people here are either professional Dommes or fake subs...and the last third belongs to the same people you can see everyday. Is it really like that or is it just me? Would you like some cheese with that whine? How about ALL OF US that you're posting to, expecting to get a reply from? All of the folks who have replied to your posts in the past? Are we pros or fake subs?

MisPandora -> RE: About Collarme...? (9/29/2006 5:55:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji quote: ORIGINAL: MsKatHouston How much do you charge, Ma'am? Could I convince you to have some sex with that session? Hell yeah! You could convince me to fuck a roadkilled badger! Yours, benji I thought the Canuckian fetish object was BEAVER?

MisPandora -> RE: About Collarme...? (9/29/2006 5:58:56 PM)
Yanno, I must be in a really pissy mood today because your whining really has my panties in a knot. Stop bitching about this site. If you don't like it, step out from behind the computer and get involved with the local BDSM community. You've got nerve to bitch about how messed up things are here.......let's see how much nerve you have to meet the folks who are actually doing BDSM in your neck of the woods. Black Rose is only up the road.....and there are plenty of folks there to show you the realities of the BDSM and fetish world -- www.br.org

justheather -> RE: About Collarme...? (9/29/2006 6:01:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: strob Is it really like that or is it just me? It's really like that and it's just you.

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: About Collarme...? (9/29/2006 6:11:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MisPandora How about ALL OF US that you're posting to, expecting to get a reply from? All of the folks who have replied to your posts in the past? Are we pros or fake subs? I don't think he's being a whiny ungrateful sub is working in his favor with the non pro ladies. M

Owned1 -> RE: About Collarme...? (9/29/2006 6:24:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: strob When I first joined this community, it felt like a place on the net where real time lifestyle Dommes and subs can post their profiles, express what they are looking for, talk to each other and possibly meet. Now, I get the feeling that two thirds of the people here are either professional Dommes or fake subs...and the last third belongs to the same people you can see everyday. Is it really like that or is it just me? What exactly do you mean by the last bit~~~the last third belongs to the same people you can see everyday. Who do you think is online and on cm, some mysterious, hidden away BDSMers?? Who are those who live this lifestyle 24/7? hmmmm let me think, when I look in the mirror I see a person who is a sister, daughter, mother, employee, customer, consumer, etc etc, however I also am a lifestyle slave who lives 24/7 with her Master, who controls her 24/7. What do you know that same person has an IQ in well into triple digits, makes a rather comfortable income, has a career a degree and a mind of her own, however she knows who her true self is and where her place is. So sorry to dissapoint you and be one of those people you see everyday, If you send me a pic of yourself I will hide when I see you walking down the street so you dont have to see me. Owned

sissifytoserve -> RE: About Collarme...? (9/29/2006 6:25:32 PM)
I have had a hard time here connecting to a potential dominant and I thought of giving up but actually.....if you stick around here you might get a second...or third...or fourth...opinion about issues in/around "the lifestyle" (generic term). I think the odds are stacked WAYYYYYYYYY in favor of the females here at collar me...but ultimately there must be other reasons why people come here than just to try and find someone who they think they may click with in a BDSM dynamic.

degradess -> RE: About Collarme...? (9/29/2006 7:03:00 PM)
I find if more interesting to be a sub to just one dom..my dom..and a domme to others. I am definately not a fake sub with him.

justheather -> RE: About Collarme...? (9/29/2006 7:07:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Owned1 What exactly do you mean by the last bit~~~the last third belongs to the same people you can see everyday. I think he meant we aren't, you know....hot.

LTRsubNW -> RE: About Collarme...? (9/29/2006 7:51:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsKatHouston quote: When I first joined this community, it felt like a place on the net where real time lifestyle Dommes and subs can post their profiles, express what they are looking for, talk to each other and possibly meet. It was. It still is. quote: Now, I get the feeling that two thirds of the people here are either professional Dommes or fake subs...and the last third belongs to the same people you can see everyday. There always was a mix. Maybe you're just getting jaded. Skip those who do not fit for you and deal with the rest. quote: Is it really like that or is it just me? I have no clue about the validity of your statistics. Does it really matter? If you found, on collarme, the partner of your dreams today would you care as much about all the ones who do not fit that ideal? It's a process, whether in real life or on a site such as this. It's just something one must deal with. Your idea of what is right for you will not fit another's. It happens. You're far too nice. Yes it is. Yes it will be. (Deal with it).

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