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About Collarme...? - 9/29/2006 8:29:32 AM   
strob


Posts: 100
Joined: 9/6/2005
Status: offline 		When I first joined this community, it felt like a place on the net where real time lifestyle Dommes and subs can post their profiles, express what they are looking for, talk to each other and possibly meet.
Now, I get the feeling that two thirds of the people here are either professional Dommes or fake subs...and the last third belongs to the same people you can see everyday.
Is it really like that or is it just me?
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RE: About Collarme...? - 9/29/2006 8:36:23 AM   
Zinja2007


Posts: 30
Joined: 9/20/2006
Status: offline 		I'm lifestyle.
I'm pro as well.

I do real time sessions with my husband and friends.  And once in a while, I will do a professional session with someone I corresponded with on this site.

I've had hundreds of emails from wankers who know nothing about this power exchange lifestyle.  But out of those hundreds, there are some who are real and
make it all worth the while.

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RE: About Collarme...? - 9/29/2006 8:42:12 AM   
MsKatHouston


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From: Houston, TX
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quote:

When I first joined this community, it felt like a place on the net where real time lifestyle Dommes and subs can post their profiles, express what they are looking for, talk to each other and possibly meet.


It was.  It still is.

quote:

Now, I get the feeling that two thirds of the people here are either professional Dommes or fake subs...and the last third belongs to the same people you can see everyday.


There always was a mix.  Maybe you're just getting jaded.  Skip those who do not fit for you and deal with the rest. 

quote:

Is it really like that or is it just me?


I have no clue about the validity of your statistics.  Does it really matter?  If you found, on collarme, the partner of your dreams today would you care as much about all the ones who do not fit that ideal?  It's a process, whether in real life or on a site such as this.  It's just something one must deal with.  Your idea of what is right for you will not fit another's.  It happens.

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RE: About Collarme...? - 9/29/2006 8:44:28 AM   
LadyEllen


Posts: 10931
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From: Stourport-England
Status: offline 		Damn and blast! Outted again! Bah!

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RE: About Collarme...? - 9/29/2006 8:59:45 AM   
gooddogbenji


Posts: 5094
Joined: 11/15/2005
From: Toronto
Status: offline 		So I have the choice between being a fake sub or a pro Domme.  I think I'll be the Domme today.

strobby, I'll give a free session:

Sit down, shut up, and a quit bitching.

Happy?

Yours,


benji

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RE: About Collarme...? - 9/29/2006 9:06:21 AM   
MsKatHouston


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From: Houston, TX
Status: offline 		How much do you charge, Ma'am?  Could I convince you to have some sex with that session?

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RE: About Collarme...? - 9/29/2006 9:10:30 AM   
gooddogbenji


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsKatHouston

How much do you charge, Ma'am?  Could I convince you to have some sex with that session?



Hell yeah!  You could convince me to fuck a roadkilled badger!

Yours,


benji

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RE: About Collarme...? - 9/29/2006 9:37:55 AM   
stef


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Status: offline 		It's just you.

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RE: About Collarme...? - 9/29/2006 1:11:39 PM   
sophia37


Posts: 1433
Joined: 2/7/2006
Status: offline 		Im not a professional Dom or a fake sub. Does that  throw off your stats?

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RE: About Collarme...? - 9/29/2006 1:14:59 PM   
gooddogbenji


Posts: 5094
Joined: 11/15/2005
From: Toronto
Status: offline 		Nope, you're a liar anyway.  EVERYONE falls into those categories.  So either you're one of those, or you're not on this site.  Either way, you lied at some point.

Yours,


benji

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RE: About Collarme...? - 9/29/2006 5:54:30 PM   
MisPandora


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From: Philadelphia, PA
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quote:

ORIGINAL: strob

When I first joined this community, it felt like a place on the net where real time lifestyle Dommes and subs can post their profiles, express what they are looking for, talk to each other and possibly meet.
Now, I get the feeling that two thirds of the people here are either professional Dommes or fake subs...and the last third belongs to the same people you can see everyday.
Is it really like that or is it just me?

Would you like some cheese with that whine?
How about ALL OF US that you're posting to, expecting to get a reply from?  All of the folks who have replied to your posts in the past?  Are we pros or fake subs?

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Ms World Leather 2004
Ms Philadelphia Leather 2004

"Simply put, if you want a real femdom to love you, give her reasons to love you." Gloria Brame

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RE: About Collarme...? - 9/29/2006 5:55:38 PM   
MisPandora


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quote:

ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsKatHouston

How much do you charge, Ma'am?  Could I convince you to have some sex with that session?



Hell yeah!  You could convince me to fuck a roadkilled badger!

Yours,


benji

I thought the Canuckian fetish object was BEAVER?

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Pandora
Ms World Leather 2004
Ms Philadelphia Leather 2004

"Simply put, if you want a real femdom to love you, give her reasons to love you." Gloria Brame

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RE: About Collarme...? - 9/29/2006 5:58:56 PM   
MisPandora


Posts: 2911
Joined: 4/7/2004
From: Philadelphia, PA
Status: offline 		Yanno, I must be in a really pissy mood today because your whining really has my panties in a knot.

Stop bitching about this site.  If you don't like it, step out from behind the computer and get involved with the local BDSM community.  You've got nerve to bitch about how messed up things are here.......let's see how much nerve you have to meet the folks who are actually doing BDSM in your neck of the woods.

Black Rose is only up the road.....and there are plenty of folks there to show you the realities of the BDSM and fetish world -- www.br.org

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Ms World Leather 2004
Ms Philadelphia Leather 2004

"Simply put, if you want a real femdom to love you, give her reasons to love you." Gloria Brame

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RE: About Collarme...? - 9/29/2006 6:01:42 PM   
justheather


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quote:

ORIGINAL: strob
Is it really like that or is it just me?


It's really like that and it's just you.

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And the table perfectly level
When you cut me out of my life
And paste me in that book you always carry.
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RE: About Collarme...? - 9/29/2006 6:11:23 PM   
BlkTallFullfig


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MisPandora
How about ALL OF US that you're posting to, expecting to get a reply from?  All of the folks who have replied to your posts in the past?  Are we pros or fake subs?
I don't think he's being a whiny ungrateful sub is working in his favor with the non pro ladies.   M 

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RE: About Collarme...? - 9/29/2006 6:24:09 PM   
Owned1


Posts: 847
Joined: 7/6/2005
From: Toronto, Ontario
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: strob

When I first joined this community, it felt like a place on the net where real time lifestyle Dommes and subs can post their profiles, express what they are looking for, talk to each other and possibly meet.
Now, I get the feeling that two thirds of the people here are either professional Dommes or fake subs...and the last third belongs to the same people you can see everyday.
Is it really like that or is it just me?


What exactly do you mean by the last bit~~~the last third belongs to the same people you can see everyday.

Who do you think is online and on cm, some mysterious, hidden away BDSMers??

Who are those who live this lifestyle 24/7?   hmmmm let me think,  when I look in the mirror I see a person who is a sister, daughter, mother, employee, customer, consumer, etc etc,  however I also am a lifestyle slave who lives 24/7 with her Master, who controls her 24/7.  What do you know that same person has an IQ in well into triple digits, makes a rather comfortable income, has a career a degree and a mind of her own, however she knows who her true self is and where her place is.

So sorry to dissapoint you and be one of those people you see everyday,  If you send me a pic of yourself I will hide when I see you walking down the street so you dont have to see me.

Owned

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RE: About Collarme...? - 9/29/2006 6:25:32 PM   
sissifytoserve


Posts: 1016
Joined: 8/30/2006
Status: offline 		I have had a hard time here connecting to a potential dominant and I thought of giving up but actually.....if you stick around here you might get a second...or third...or fourth...opinion about issues in/around "the lifestyle" (generic term).

I think the odds are stacked WAYYYYYYYYY in favor of the females here at collar me...but ultimately there must be other reasons why people
come here than just to try and find someone who they think they may click with in a BDSM dynamic.



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The uniting of the feminine and the masculine is the highest form of human development Carl Jung

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RE: About Collarme...? - 9/29/2006 7:03:00 PM   
degradess


Posts: 68
Joined: 7/15/2005
Status: offline 		I find if more interesting to be a sub to just one dom..my dom..and a domme to others.  I am definately not a fake sub with him.

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RE: About Collarme...? - 9/29/2006 7:07:21 PM   
justheather


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Joined: 10/4/2005
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Owned1
What exactly do you mean by the last bit~~~the last third belongs to the same people you can see everyday.


I think he meant we aren't, you know....hot.

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I want the scissors to be sharp
And the table perfectly level
When you cut me out of my life
And paste me in that book you always carry.
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RE: About Collarme...? - 9/29/2006 7:51:01 PM   
LTRsubNW


Posts: 1604
Joined: 5/6/2006
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsKatHouston

quote:

When I first joined this community, it felt like a place on the net where real time lifestyle Dommes and subs can post their profiles, express what they are looking for, talk to each other and possibly meet.


It was.  It still is.

quote:

Now, I get the feeling that two thirds of the people here are either professional Dommes or fake subs...and the last third belongs to the same people you can see everyday.


There always was a mix.  Maybe you're just getting jaded.  Skip those who do not fit for you and deal with the rest. 

quote:

Is it really like that or is it just me?


I have no clue about the validity of your statistics.  Does it really matter?  If you found, on collarme, the partner of your dreams today would you care as much about all the ones who do not fit that ideal?  It's a process, whether in real life or on a site such as this.  It's just something one must deal with.  Your idea of what is right for you will not fit another's.  It happens.


You're far too nice.

Yes it is.  Yes it will be.

(Deal with it).

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