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what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel the ... - 9/29/2006 10:34:10 AM

subsa

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what specifically puts you in your most submissive attitude? is it something you do or that your Dom/me does to (or for) you? i'm not talking true subspace, at least i don't think so. i'm not talking about that place i go during a scene. maybe i just need to tell you what it is for me and then hopefully you'll understand what i mean.

three nights a week i get home before Master. on those night's i dress, light candles, put on music, have a glass of wine or fresh squeezed lemonade poured for Him..stuff like that. after that it varies...sometimes i dance, do needlework, do yoga.... He likes to find me in a variety of settings when He gets home, but it must be some sort of 'waiting' for him. in those 10-15 minutes all my focus is on waiting and hearing His key in the lock. for some reason that does it for me. all of the rest of the world just drops away. it's often the most profound when i sit in extended child's pose (yoga move) with my forehead pressed to the ground. it's a simple little thing really so i'm not sure why it puts me in that frame of mind so easily. what is it for you?

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 9/29/2006 10:51:06 AM

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(I might suggest 'a look' is all it takes. But I'm cheating.)

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 9/29/2006 11:00:41 AM

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there is no one single thing that 'puts' this slave into a certain mindset. She is always thinking of Master and always paying attention to what would please him and what would not.
This slave does not turn her submission on and off at a whim; it is 24/7, whether she is in the presence of her owner or not.

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 9/29/2006 2:03:24 PM

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I become my most submissive when I feel he needs to dominate. Its really just whenever it is. I guiess Im lucky to be at that point to just "know". Im more of a swtich than permanent sub. But Im easy. And glad to do for others.

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 9/29/2006 7:56:31 PM

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When he places a collar on me. I am not officially "collared" as yet and I long for the day that my Master fully accepts me as his own. Until then, it is the times when I am kneeling waiting for him and he walks in and places one around my neck that I feel my most intense, euphoric desire to please him.

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 9/29/2006 8:01:24 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: subsa

what specifically puts you in your most submissive attitude? is it something you do or that your Dom/me does to (or for) you? i'm not talking true subspace, at least i don't think so. i'm not talking about that place i go during a scene. maybe i just need to tell you what it is for me and then hopefully you'll understand what i mean.

three nights a week i get home before Master. on those night's i dress, light candles, put on music, have a glass of wine or fresh squeezed lemonade poured for Him..stuff like that. after that it varies...sometimes i dance, do needlework, do yoga.... He likes to find me in a variety of settings when He gets home, but it must be some sort of 'waiting' for him. in those 10-15 minutes all my focus is on waiting and hearing His key in the lock. for some reason that does it for me. all of the rest of the world just drops away. it's often the most profound when i sit in extended child's pose (yoga move) with my forehead pressed to the ground. it's a simple little thing really so i'm not sure why it puts me in that frame of mind so easily. what is it for you?

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 9/29/2006 9:04:15 PM

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I have heard this question in various forms and the answers are always interesting. Tonight I am curious on what the OP means exactly by "most submissive attitude." Is it most-willing-to-surrender-authority or more that warm-and-fuzzy-adoration-feeling or a most-eager-to-please-and-serve or just a general connected-intimacy thing?

I guess I experience a submissive mindset in different ways at different times. As I thought about the question, I was having trouble finding my answer.

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 9/29/2006 9:19:32 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: subsa

what specifically puts you in your most submissive attitude? is it something you do or that your Dom/me does to (or for) you? i'm not talking true subspace, at least i don't think so. i'm not talking about that place i go during a scene. maybe i just need to tell you what it is for me and then hopefully you'll understand what i mean.

three nights a week i get home before Master. on those night's i dress, light candles, put on music, have a glass of wine or fresh squeezed lemonade poured for Him..stuff like that. after that it varies...sometimes i dance, do needlework, do yoga.... He likes to find me in a variety of settings when He gets home, but it must be some sort of 'waiting' for him. in those 10-15 minutes all my focus is on waiting and hearing His key in the lock. for some reason that does it for me. all of the rest of the world just drops away. it's often the most profound when i sit in extended child's pose (yoga move) with my forehead pressed to the ground. it's a simple little thing really so i'm not sure why it puts me in that frame of mind so easily. what is it for you?

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 9/29/2006 9:41:03 PM

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i would have to say the time i feel most submissive is when Daddy tells me to crawl to Him on my hands and knees, and then He uses my mouth for an ashtray. He only does that when i am bad, other times i will just crawl to Him and then he will stroke my hair or hold me in His arms. It is the most comforting thing ever i just melt

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 9/29/2006 9:43:55 PM

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Answering by proxy as always:
He is in his most submissive mode when I have him in panties and hose. AFter that, pretty much everything else just flows together. Even the collar doesnt put him as deep as the femme clothes do.

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 9/30/2006 12:18:39 AM

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When He pulls my hair hard and kisses me equally hard. Melting just thinking about Him!!!!

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 9/30/2006 5:46:41 AM

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Sensualips: i was thinking along the lines of 'most eager to please'. sorry if i was vague...

thank you all for your responses so far. but what about the other types of feelings that Sensualips described?

for me, the warm fuzzy adoration thing most often occurs after a scene.
the intimacy thing is all the time. we have an incredibly close intimate relationship (together 25 years). we spend almost all of our non-work time together. people describe us as joined at the hip.

the rest i'm going to have to think about...i'll get back to you on that.

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 9/30/2006 9:12:09 AM

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When my thoughts, needs and desires are realized and he not only validates them, he shows me an even bigger picture that i was not aware of.

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 9/30/2006 9:14:57 AM

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i guess just being with Mistress makes me feel really submissive, & i do whake makes Her happy, if that makes me Her plaything, im more than happy

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 10/1/2006 1:52:52 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mstrjx

(I might suggest 'a look' is all it takes. But I'm cheating.)

Jeff

it's true in my case. and it could be anywhere, at any time.

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 10/1/2006 2:01:26 PM

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When he bites my neck. I go weak in my knees, stop whatever I was doing, thinking or saying and I have to lean against him to stay upright. At that time I'd do anything for him

Aww, you beat me to it. Sometimes, when i'm distracted, or sometimes just because, my Miss will bite me so hard that i have bruises for days. i get all whimpery, and struggle not to run away (like i could!). i actually make myself turn to the side, to expose the place She is biting even more...yup, very whimpery and weak and in love. That's like, a very characteristic thing that She does to me to interject a great deal of submissive focus (and hotness too) into me.

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 10/1/2006 3:34:41 PM

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Depends on how I interpret "most submissive."

The deep trance state can be induced by any number of acts when the chemistry is right.

Simple pleasure in humility: her touching the back of my neck and saying "good boy."

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 10/1/2006 4:40:48 PM

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Allows me to cuddle with them.

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 10/1/2006 6:13:23 PM

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Hmmm.

I am most warm and fuzzy-submissive at the stereotypical times. His hands in my hair with my head in his lap or vice vera. Sleeping next to him with his body wrapped around me and pinning me with his weight. Physically intimate moments, from mild (yanking my hair back to kiss me) to intense (fuzzy disorientation from breath play but his touch centers me.) We have multiple outside sex partners (swing), and sometimes I will look up and see him watching me with a particular look that is a mixture of lust/pride/approval that always makes me feel very submissive. I do it for myself and my own enjoyment, but sometimes his presence and pleasure really does something for me on a whole other level.

I am most eager-to-please/serve/support when he has demonstrated vulnerability.

I am most willing to surrender authority in times of open, direct communication.

I feel most intimate or connected in everyday interactions. A wink from across the room. A shared joke that others present may not "get." The tone of voice when he says "thank you" for something like a drink but the thank you is clearly for more. Hallmark card type crap.

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 10/2/2006 5:12:38 PM

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waking up in the morning and greeting him by text that very second, spending most of my day wondering how i can please him the next time i see him,constantly thinking before i do something to insure it would be approved by him wethar he was here or not... i dont think there is any one thing in perticular
but if you mean in a more physical sense, when he looks in my eyes and strokes my face and reminds me that im all his then pulls my hair and pulls my face to his mmm *shudders* i just freeze unable to move !

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