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RE: i surrender - 10/1/2006 4:06:35 AM

RazorJAK

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ORIGINAL: Iskander

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ORIGINAL: Frank01
It still doesn't explain the blood trail leading away.......

Thats not blood thats raspberry jam...

And here I thought the only one who would dare give us the rasberry would be .... *drops faceshield of helmet* LONE STAR!

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RE: i surrender - 10/1/2006 5:23:27 AM

julietsierra

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This thread is kind of interesting!

A) First rule in the relationship I'm in: We don't live our lives by concensus.

This means I don't ask for other people's opinions (they'll give them anyway, and usually on the basis of a lot less information than is usually even posted in these forums, so why ask.) It also means he doesn't send me out to get other people's viewpoints. They aren't living our lives, so their views, while interesting, have zero to do with what we are doing with each other.

Second rule: We may get over something, but other people never do.

This means that if he talks trash about me, it won't matter that it was just a bad day and that we've moved on. Whoever he speaks to about me will have that view of me from that day forward. Same with whatever I do.

So...we don't talk trash about each other - to anyone - even my mother (my greatest confidante, greatest fan and greatest "mentor" in life (not to be confused with "lifestyle mentor" - that she's not..

I do talk about him, but never in a negative light. There are some who don't agree with how we do things. There will always be those people around and that's their right, but I don't put him down -ever - even in jest. He is never the butt of any of my jokes and never will be.

Third rule: We have the right and obligation to walk away.

If things get too tough and we feel we can't abide by the first two rules, Each of us can always walk away - and we should.

Thank goodness we've never wanted to invoke rule #3.

juliet

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RE: i surrender - 10/1/2006 11:18:34 AM

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Haven't read the original thread but would be happy to excoriate and scourge him from this. He told you to post. Now he says you should have known that you shouldn't have responded to the posts you got on that thread. How, by mind reading?

He sounds petulant in the extreme and highly insecure because his initial fantasy was that you would be shown by everyone to be in the wrong. You weren't and he's throwing a tantrum in response. Very immature and I have no doubt he'll be upset because his response to the initial thread done at his instruction, still doesn't get his fantasy response.

Having just read the Sequel thread, I can't believe you are still talking to him yet alone believing that you owe him an apology. He could easily have killed you and others. How can you give control to someone who has no self control? If this were me, I would be totally without trust in him by this point. I do hope that you don't get into any situations you can't walk out of, because next time he's drugged up, he might refuse to listen to a safeword, or hit wrong and break your back.

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RE: i surrender - 10/1/2006 12:07:25 PM

joyinslavery

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Oh brother. Reminds me of high school.

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RE: i surrender - 10/1/2006 12:31:46 PM

wild1cfl

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this is just weird. it's like some kinda BDSM Jerry Springer Show or Judge Judy or something.

yup! And that is exactly why this place is sooooo entertaining!

LOL Hey I like to watch Springer every now and then. Just posting to get to 500

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My Falcon now is sharp, and passing empty; And, till she stoop, she shall not be full gorg'd, For then she never looks upon her lure. Another way i have to man my haggard, to make her come and know her keeper's call. Wm. Shakespeare

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