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toservez -> RE: Young Dominants (10/3/2006 8:12:15 AM)
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ORIGINAL: shaen
I have been having a problem with age descrimination in this life. It makes me ask what is wrong with being young. Getting rejected isn't a problem but I don't see why age is the issue. A sub. or slave saying no simply because of age is a bit dumb, I know we may not know as much or be as goood as older Dominants BUT, what most seem to lean toward is that we have to be lonely, miserable until we're 30+. Now, if we do this we're in the same place as we are now since we don't learn anything because we have noone to learn with because they want older Dom(me)s. They base this on nothing more than the young generation of assholes that are coming up now instead of those few that were raised right. I know many of my generation deserve nothing less then to be shot, but there are a few good ones out here. I personally have experience in training and know what I want and am doing. I'll admit I don't know everything, I'm not that arrgoant but I know what I want and what I am and there is no reason for this bull shit to happen.
I certainly do feel sorry for young males in this life as it is quite hard to find people. I do have a slight problem with the word discrimination as I think that is too strong of a word although I am at a loss of what I would call it so I guess that is as good as any.
Personally I am not interested in men in their early to mid 20's and it has zero to do with their experience/lack of or implied lack of experience. It simply is maturity level and since that word is loaded to most, I like to call it life stage.
People go through life stages and while everyone goes thru them at different times, for the most part there is a normal range and quite simply most people in their 20's have a life stage that is very much different then they really know from the rest of us. I am only thirty-one and still obviously can remember five plus years ago and I am very much a different person. Maybe not in personality or what I enjoy but very much in how I see the world, what I want and need from people from friends to a Master. I am very much way more comfortable in being around someone who is ten to twenty years older then me then someone five to ten years younger.
My advice for all young men is to be patient, join a local community and to look for women that are in your own life stage. Yes, many young women are not looking for anything too serious and therefore they might look for the more experienced as they want to see everything but there are women looking for the right fit and will not be so hung up on who has the longer resume.
I am sorry for you that the pool is so shallow for you. Many people come to this life later and that does not help you now either. In the end though is it fair discrimitory or just the way life is?
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