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Aine -> RE: The right thing (10/7/2006 11:08:17 PM)

I never said one thing about being adept at it.   I sure as hell never considered myself to be good at it at all.  I'm still not "adept" at it.  Better, yes.  It's called growing up.  It's called learning how to take care of myself and being more aware of things.  But the biggest part of being able to get myself out of those situations was the people that helped me and were there for me when I felt like the weakest person on earth.  But did they do it for me?  Nope.  No one can short of kidnapping me.

It's (IMHO) I'm not pushing this on anyone, so don't put words in my mouth please, that people do best when they do things for themselves.  It's what I've experienced, it's what I've seen.

Different things work for different people.  We don't know any better than this dude what is going on in her relationship.  We don't know shit about what is going on there.  The only key thing I've gleaned from this entire hullaballoo has been that SHE did NOT know that HE was going to try cutting her off from other people.  To me, that's shady fucking business.

If she had been part of the descision, then hey, I'd assume it's somewhere along the lines of how things were worded by either you or me.  It could go either way, sure.  But she did NOT know.

That's the mojo killer for me.



Rumtiger -> RE: The right thing (10/7/2006 11:10:48 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MasterC46910

We also need to understand we are only hearing one side of the story.

Rumtiger..You have made the statement this guy is out of shape and not trained in fighting.  Why, as a trained martial artist, are you even considering fighting someone that has not physically threatened you?  Was you not trained control of your emotions as well as your skills?  The ability to do damage to others comes with certain responsibilities of restrain.


Which is why I never acted on them, I very well could have closed this guy's windpipe in the market that day, or during these past couple days went out and found him and made sure he went into a coma, but just because I have the capability to do these things dosent mean I would do them unless I really needed to.

After all, everyone, what was the worst I ever did to this guy? gave him a few words, a single line of profanity, not that bad when you look at the full picture. Everyone gets angry, everyone has a trigger that will set them off, this guy pulled one of em when he confronted me. Even the Dali Llama or Shaolin Monks get mad sometimes...its human.

It's okay to think about messing him up cause hes a dick...but that dosent mean I will....unless somehow it ever gets to that next level, then we'll just see, that or unless I am protecting her from him in some way...something else I was taught as a martial artist.



MistressTexas -> RE: The right thing (10/7/2006 11:20:17 PM)

To be fair, I hang out with people who randomly do drugs, and they arent a bad influence on me in the slightest. It's all about what you're comfortable with, and I see nothing wrong with Rumtiger being uncomfortable with someone executing that kind of unwarrented control over a close friend of his. and By the by, my conspiracy theory was backed up by the tiger himself when he (Rumtiger) said, and I quote: 
"Her: "He did? well shit I dunno why he would go and say that"
Me: "hes an asshole"

So therefore I'm not so much full of conspiracy theories as a spontaneous desire to defend Rumtiger and his (what I believe to be anyway) perfectly natural reaction.





Rumtiger -> RE: The right thing (10/7/2006 11:31:45 PM)

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ORIGINAL: RiotGirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterC46910

We also need to understand we are only hearing one side of the story.



very true, he needs to get back on here and elaborate more.  i wanna hear the rest!!  Hey Rumtiger, any chance you have a "thing" for this girl.  i've a male friend of 10 years now that i know loves me to death (and a major thing for me) HATES hearing about my men and infact refuses to remember thier names.. LOLOLOL  You sound like you have a thing for her toooo.  Course i could be wrong, im verra tired



If I wanted to fuck her she and I know very well  that I could have anytime in the past few years, granted I think shes attractive and all, but shes more like my big sister now, hell if it werent for her influence on me I likely wouldent be into the lifestyle right now.

As for not wanting to hear about him, I personally dont wnat to hear about a guy's dick unless theres something really funny [haha funny] coming out from the story. Thats called being a straight male who dosent want to hear about dicks of dicks.



RiotGirl -> RE: The right thing (10/7/2006 11:41:49 PM)

LOL - i twas just checking tiger boy, dun get so excited!!  Its WAY to late for anything but bouncy exshausted fun!  And if yer not having fun, well that sucks for you.  hehehehehe

Mz Texas - oh i dun think there's anything "bad" about ppl who do drugs.  Hell i used to be about as hardcore as one can get.  BUT as an ex herion addict who has relapsed about twice in her life.. its prolly just wise not to have any of that influence in my life.  Ya know?  LOL on the conspiracy theories.. ya know i was just giving ya a hard time.. teasing..

AND - Just cos a Master tells a slave not to speak to xxx, it is not the Master that has to go about stopping it.  Its the slave, which infact is "them" doing it.  So nanner!  i win!

R. Tiger.. got any more pieces to the puzzle... you talk to her again yet?  You should call her up right now and tell her, there are LOADS of people who want the rest of her story.  <wicked grin>






Aine -> RE: The right thing (10/7/2006 11:51:18 PM)

I'm still confused as to why "Master" and "slave" are being referenced at all still.

Those terms have nothing at all to do with the base topic at hand since the girl is not a slave and the dude ain't a Master....of anything so it's been said by a few others lol



RiotGirl -> RE: The right thing (10/8/2006 12:00:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Aine

I'm still confused as to why "Master" and "slave" are being referenced at all still.



because they are pretty words and we all love to use them as often as possible in any way shape or form.. so long as we can find a sentence and throw in Master and slave into it - all is well.  Sounds like a reasonable explanation.



Rumtiger -> RE: The right thing (10/8/2006 1:31:47 AM)

Wow...and I thought I had the power to kill threads in a second...



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