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Are there any good slaves left? - 10/4/2006 2:35:46 AM   
pyrobabe


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Status: offline 		I am slave Carol a.k.a pyrobabe owned by sirrand. My Master has asked me to go find a bi-female or bi-male house slave all the ones who have tried out have all been disrespectful, not nice or really shy or won't tell us anything. We ask them to be creative and open and we are willing to do cyber and webcam for awhile until they feel comfortable with us. It took me 6 months before I hopped on a plane from a little town in Pennslyvannia to come to Houston, Texas to be with my Master, so we assume that it will take at least 6 months for a relatively sane person to come here to be our slave. Our criteria is not beyond the average wanna be... were not asking them to be toilet slaves we don't exclude pain sluts but would prefer ones that weren't. Our object of getting a slave is to help us and give us more time to be creative. What is your opinion of why most slaves want to be slaves? Anyone that has been successful with using this site want to share their techniques?

These are my latest journal enteries:
Well the male sub that we did have under consideration didn't last any longer then being placed under consideration.... Does the perfect female/male slave exist out there? If so we're still looking for you. Where ever your hiding you can stop now and come out to play. hee hee :D lol.

Master would like me to have a female as my first slave because he says that I will know a females tricks better then a males... I'm not sure about that because I've been talking to both male and female sub/slaves and I've come to find more fake females then there are holes in swiss cheese :p lol. Don't ask where that came from it just popped into my head so I said it.

As I search this website I come across profiles from females that say that they are owned and I feel like the M&M/Santa commercial... you know the one where the red and yellow M&M meet Santa and they pass out... Well when I see a females profile that says that they are happily owned I'm shocked. "THEY DO EXIST!!!" lol.

So the question remains... Where is my REAL little slave hiding?
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RE: Are there any good slaves left? - 10/4/2006 2:55:35 AM   
sweetnurseBBW


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Status: offline 		There are lots of wannabes and fakes online. Have to be very patient and weed through the fakes. We have had to. Online is only one medium to find others. local groups are others. Good luck to you.

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RE: Are there any good slaves left? - 10/4/2006 2:58:28 AM   
sweetnurseBBW


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< Message edited by sweetnurseBBW -- 10/4/2006 2:59:25 AM >

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RE: Are there any good slaves left? - 10/4/2006 3:02:10 AM   
bandit25


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Status: offline 		Yanno...not every female (or male) slave is bi sexal.  Not every female or male slave wants to serve a couple.  Not saying that some don't, but the ones who don't can still be "real".

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RE: Are there any good slaves left? - 10/4/2006 5:12:07 AM   
Tikkiee


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Status: offline 		Wish I could help you with this one here. Unfortunatly,all I can offer is to be patient. Sooner or later she/he will come along.
Good luck to the both of you.

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RE: Are there any good slaves left? - 10/4/2006 5:48:44 AM   
Celeste43


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From: NYS
Status: offline 		Most people want to be of primary importance to their partner, not to be last in line. I'm talking emotional needs here. Think about how this works, your slave does the work and you two get the play time. How then does the slave get his/her play needs met? You go off to sleep with your partner, the slave gets to sleep alone. When do they get to cuddle with someone?

It seems as though you are looking solely for someone to fulfill your wishes without thinking about how you will fill their needs. And a bisexual female willing to play/serve with a maledom/femsub couple is the most sought after and rare person around. Expect the search to take years, not months. Try meeting people for real at munches and stuff and not online.

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RE: Are there any good slaves left? - 10/4/2006 6:25:36 AM   
pyrobabe


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DivaDuchess said
Hmmm ... as a Mistress, I'm actually looking to post my own question. It seems to follow along with your Master's and yours.

I will note someone (on here). During the time of initial 'get to know you' phase ... I'm nice. I'm always nice, unless you need disicpline, then well all bets are off. We're not looking for a painslut or sexwhore or anything like that. We're just looking for a domestic and physical slave. I have trained slaves before, many times. I also understand that only a freak would just jump on a plane and leave everything for a stranger. My problem is ... the slaves on this site.

I had one that was supposed to get on a chat with Me. It's the same time each evening. Instead she was on a webcam with someone who she chatted with once before ... but because he was all up her her face about online webcam sex and giving her one order after another ... to her that was real.

are all slaves on this site just looking for some online 'show me your twat on webcam' orders given by master/mistress wannabes?

I can very definitely sympathize with the difficulty of your search ... *sighs* ... Perhaps if we just started being jerks that would help? *lol* ... In the beginning, I simply try to get to know the slave as a person. Likes, dislikes, hard limits, health conditions ... things like that. I also like to know they have an IQ above that of the average carrot. I don't care if they've had training, I'm a trainer, been doing it for years. I don't care about their cup size or receiving naked pics.

What is WRONG with slaves on this site? Is every slave a phoney? Where are the real ones who honestly wish to serve?

Bandit25 ... there are MANY who are bisexual and are looking for a couple, granted not as many as are looking for a sugardaddy, but quite a few. The problem We personally have run into is they are such newbies they actually seem to expect to be ordered around from word 'go' ... Or, they send naked pics in the first note. I don't care what you look like as long as you have a heart that wishes to serve.

DivaDuchess,

Master has been apart of this site for 2 years and for myself I’ve been on this website for about 9 months and my Master has observed these patterns.

In the beginning there were quite a few experienced slaves and Masters who maintained a presents on the site which added a certain continuity and community to the site. That has changed whether life interrupted or a change in cm’s policy Master doesn’t know. There where more Europeans and Asians and less Nigerians and less scam artists that want to lead you to a pay site. The bi and lesbian slaves have become more prolific, most slave wannabes are bi-curious and anyway a slave has no rights to say otherwise if a Master wants her to be bi. That brings up another point.

In the early days most of the slave wannabes had a pretty good idea on what they were getting into and had already talked themselves into that mindset. The new slave wannabes seem to think that they can voice their opinion, show their disrespect and whine about their punishment and still think of themselves as slave material. Master says he doesn’t know about you but that is far from slave material as possible even for pain sluts.

My thoughts on this are… we do everything the same way you do. We get to know the slave by interviewing them getting to know their likes, dislikes, limits, and we’re nice until they do something they aren’t suppose to (I mean you are talking to me to become my slave are you not? When you do something wrong you have to be punished not ignored so that you keep doing it… am I right to assume this or am I wrong. lol no need to answer that. Your being interviewed to be my slave which means you are being trained to be of use to me not someone that hangs around to be a pain in my ass.) . Its usually once the punishments start the slave that was so interested in becoming ours and supposedly willing to do ANYTHING we tell them to do… vanish. Most slaves on this website all of em SWEAR that they will do everything and anything that you tell them to do, but in reality they will only do what THEY want to do. We are looking for slaves that have a kind heart that want to serve. I’ve had no problems with finding enough bi slaves or people that want to be a part of a poly in fact they seem to be in mass numbers… the problem lies in the fact of finding the one slave with the REAL heart to serve.



Bandit25

It was not our intention to discount those that are not slave material we only call a spade a spade if you are a sub, dom, or switch you need not apply. We’re being honest. Why can’t they? Or at least be honest with themselves. We aren’t trying to make anyone feel bad we are just trying to find what we want. No good Master wants to hurt its property permanently.

CrappyDom

So do the Doms/Dommes.

P.S. how did you get your name?

Celeste43

We’ve had fun and have met a lot or people and you may be right that we have to search a lot but that is the fun part. We’ve had looking and we’ve enjoyed the people we’ve met, but most of the wannabes on the site at the moment have little or no concept of what being a slave means.

Maybe we can somehow hold training classes in the forum. Would you be interested in training in this venue DivaDuchess? Want to help maybe we should all get together and start teaching classes.

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RE: Are there any good slaves left? - 10/4/2006 6:25:42 AM   
RedSavageSlave


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Status: offline 		I read your profile and then went to your Sir's profile..

This would be the one "killer" for me which is posted at the bottom of his profile

quote:

UPDATE: Have slaves in training but still looking for more.


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RE: Are there any good slaves left? - 10/4/2006 7:18:45 AM   
pyrobabe


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Status: offline 		why do you say that is a killer?

we are always interviewing/training someone... its the truth.

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RE: Are there any good slaves left? - 10/4/2006 7:25:27 AM   
Tikkiee


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quote:

ORIGINAL: pyrobabe

why do you say that is a killer?

we are always interviewing/training someone... its the truth.

Its a killer because of the fact that it comes across sounding as if you and your master care only about the AMOUNT of slaves you own, and not the quality.

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RE: Are there any good slaves left? - 10/4/2006 8:25:40 AM   
MasterFireMaam


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From: Charleston, WV
Status: offline 		You are looking for something VERY specific. that means, it will take time. The household into which you came is NOT the same household into which someone else is coming...simply because YOU are there.

I echo the statements about getting out into your real-time community. Letting people get to know you as people first is often the best policy.

Master Fire


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RE: Are there any good slaves left? - 10/4/2006 8:26:18 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Your expectations are highly unreasonable.  Do you have any idea of the competition for the "stable bi poly babe willing and happy to come into a situation that's very new with NO prior poly experience" and the number available?

It just gets ten times worse for finding males too.

Ask yourself if YOU would take that relationship if you had another option- a poly family that's got lots of experience, or a single dom you could come into and then add someone onto?  All those people you are seeking HAVE those options as well.

Not to mention, you want a slave just to add a nice side of fries to your relationship.  Why would someone like me be enticed into that? 

Think about what you're doing and get your expectations more in line with reality. 

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RE: Are there any good slaves left? - 10/4/2006 8:45:29 AM   
EducatedDomina


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Status: offline 		There are TONS of great slaves on this site.  We got so many legitimate replies in our first 5 days (male and female) we're thinking of founding a stable.

However, there's one trend that seems universal.  The "OMG" Syndrome.  In fact, I may post about this independantly.  Briefly, we've seen that after interview (long or short, it doesn't matter), if a collar is seriously offered, the slave either panics or simply disappears.  That's why we retain so many as "back ups".  It seems maybe 1 in 20 will actually accept the position.  Strange but true.  I don't think most of them are players.  I think it never crossed their mind that they'd be chosen.

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RE: Are there any good slaves left? - 10/4/2006 9:29:58 AM   
RedSavageSlave


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Status: offline 		Thank you to Tikkieee and LA.. that was the point I was trying to make..

When you post something like what I previously mentioned..it looks like all you are looking to do is add add and then add some more..and there is no quality to what is going on.

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RE: Are there any good slaves left? - 10/4/2006 9:33:21 AM   
zebrastripes


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Status: offline 		After reading your profile these are the things that stick out to me.

Master and I need a slave/sub that will do the housework basically acting as a maid/butler. If you have no problem with doing these jobs we would like to hear from you.

Sounds as though you are looking for someone to keep up the housework, free maid service! It does not sound as though you are looking for someone to submit..Carol, would you care to serve in this capacity? Would it be something that made you want to write an email?
 
As a domme anyone that contacts me is my first victim. :p lol. Master has 30 years of experience as a dom and anyone that submits to me will have to submit to him also. We want to have a poly family so if this interests you please contact us.

Ahh now a victim. Yes, I know you meant that in fun but isn't that exactly what that person would be? A victim?
 
When I went to your Master's profile, I find nothing that states he is looking for a slave FOR HIS SLAVE, but more that he is looking for a slave for himself.
 
All of it somewhat confusing.  Mind you, I am not a slave.  I have no desire to be a slave, but if I were I would hope to mean something in a relationship.  WOW, let me be the maid, housekeeper, the chef,....NOPE those things would be the last thing that drew me there. Of course that is just me.
 
Good luck though, I am sure there is someone out there willing to be just that.
 
 

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RE: Are there any good slaves left? - 10/4/2006 9:35:04 AM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		Yes, there are some good slaves left; I saw some in a discount bin at WalMart.

Yours,


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RE: Are there any good slaves left? - 10/4/2006 10:01:17 AM   
gypsylee


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quote:

ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

Yes, there are some good slaves left; I saw some in a discount bin at WalMart.

Yours,


benji


yeah and you knocked the bin over and went through the scraps didn't you benji?

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RE: Are there any good slaves left? - 10/4/2006 10:13:30 AM   
Voltare


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Status: offline 		LA is absolutely dead on here.  Your frustrations are a bit like a gold miner wondering why they're only finding dirt in a gravel pit.  There are plenty of great slaves who are single.  Still many who are bisexual.  Some who might even prefer a poly situation.  Almost none who are single, bisexual, poly, beautiful, and desperate to be a live-in maid.

A quick glance at the poly section here (or on any lifestyle site) will quickly show that your frustration is as common as a cold.  If this is something you and your Dom truely want, you're going to need patience, and completely change the way you go about looking (writing other slaves in a committed relationship - such as mine - really is a waste of effort.)  Becoming active in your local BDSM community (virtual or real time) will yield much more likely responses.  Essentially, you'll have to let them come to you.

Good luck.




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RE: Are there any good slaves left? - 10/4/2006 11:49:30 AM   
DivaDuchess


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Status: offline 		I don't think the profile of our estemed hostess is unreasonable at all.  It follows very much like our own.  Though we do make it clear that any slave joining the family in that capacity ... is just that, a slave.  Not a Poly anything.  My SO is handling the search for a Poly addition.  That person would be equal to the Primary (me) in affection, care, love and attention.

The two are not always seperate.  We've also made clear to those alledged 'slaves' that there is a Poly position as well.  The process for that is a bit different.  For instance, the Poly sister doesn't have to be bi ... the slave would be.  So my rather interesting needs are taken care of.  Our last Poly sister (may she rest in peace until she returns to us) was Hetero., she and I were best friends and confidants.  We shared jokes and such and shopped till we were dead on our feet.  She was very loved by me regardless of sex or not, that was never the point.  my only criteria for a Poly is that they treat our husband with respect, honor and love.  If they manage that, they have my undying devotion.

I know the situation is confusing ... but with patience it is doable.



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RE: Are there any good slaves left? - 10/4/2006 12:17:18 PM   
sirrand


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pyrobabe

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