AltKey
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I guess this is my obigatory introductory post.
I've been lurking for a little while, but afraid to introduce myself. Blame a little alcohol on my introduction.
I've been a little afraid of public reaction to my post. I don't want to be just another lame guy trying to cheat on his wife. I love my wife dearly, and wouldn't cheat on her to save my life. Besides, she has a hard and fast rule that I can't bring anyone home unless she can be involved :)
In all seriousness, that's an impession I'd like to avoid... so if my post is a little too wide-ranged, please forgive me.
So, introductions... I am a 30 year old man, and married. I have confessed some of my interests to my wife, but perhaps not their extent. She is very understanding and accepting, but society being what it is, it's somewhat threatening to me to admit to some of my interests, even with her. We have experimented a little, but I'm still working on admitting just the full extent of what I suppose I would term "my kink." I guess that doesn't really make sense from a purely cognitive point of view, given that she has plenty of kinks of her own, but meh... we aren't purely intellectual beings, are we?
I would probably term myself a submissive, though in practice I would likely land firmly in switch territory. My wife is also submissive, so I frequently find myself playing the dominant role. She is less willing to explore the dominant role, so that is where I frequently find myself. I guess that's the more traditional role, but I do find myself somewhat wishing to explore the other half of my personality...
I suppose I joined the community looking to meet people and make friends who have the same interests as my own. It seems like meeting people who have the same interests and needs that I have might give me the strength to investigate and pursue them myself... which is probably silly, given wifezilla's open mind and dedication to tolerance, but since when has rational thought had anything to do with human behavior?
Since I'm really looking to reach out and make friends -- not just hook up -- I suppose I should mention things outside my prurient interests... so here goes: I am a bit of a nerd. I read entirely too much (though that seems to be the norm in this subculture, from what I've seen). I am a programmer by trade. I am a musician by passion. I play guitar in every spare moment. I have a family to which I am fanatically devoted. And I have no idea what else to say... those things are my entire world.
I guess that even in print, I come across as the quiet type who reads rather than going out partying.... can't even put a good foot forward in print. Oh well... hopefully some of you actually like interacting on some kind of interesting level...
So, yeah... I guess the short version is: "Hi."
Some introduction, huh?
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