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RE: what to do - 10/6/2006 9:26:03 PM

FangsNfeet

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ORIGINAL: Angeleyes1993

i see all of your points and have been thinking of a reply, too much shit has been thrown at me that i feel like killing myself.

Well don't kill yourself. Two wrongs don't make a right. Do you really want to be known for killing youself over a shelfish bastard? Come on Angel. It appears that you have woken up and smelt the coffee. Otherwise, you wouldn't have made this post in the first place. Getting your mind fucked by this jerk may be something that you'll never fully get over, but I know you can move on and keep living. Change your phone number, e-mail, and if possible, even your address. Get away from this creep and bury him in your past.

I would consider suicide apart of playing his game. After all, he only wishes to drive you insane. Do you really want to give him that satisfaction? I know you want to live, I know you want to move on. Find a realitive, a friend, or a 1-800 line for help and a place to stay this weekend. The weather is nice and gas is a little lower so go for a long drive. Do whatever it takes. Walking away from the table and never returning is how you are going to win and move on from this situation.

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RE: what to do - 10/6/2006 9:46:03 PM

Iskander

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Angeleyes1993

i see all of your points and have been thinking of a reply, too much shit has been thrown at me that i feel like killing myself.

You either asked for impartial advice as to how other see this 'relationship' you're in, or you came here to hear what you want to hear (aww you poor thing, it'll be ok you're doing the right thing by sticking with it) despite knowing that what you want to hear isn't working for you...

If the former then be an adult and don't play guilt trips with talk of killing yourself...
If the latter, go buy a parrot...

Iskander...

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RE: what to do - 10/6/2006 9:53:19 PM

gypsylee

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Angeleyes1993

...too much shit has been thrown at me that i feel like killing myself.

Angel, yeah well i learnt the hard way that it's not a great idea to put your personal 'shit' out there when you first start posting here (or anywhere for that matter). and my situation is a lot less 'controversial'.

don't take it to heart too much. everyone likes to put their 2c worth in (nothing wrong with that, it's a forum) and some people thrive on other people's personal dilemmas. that's not aimed at anyone who has responded here, just an observation.

i'm not gonna even attempt to tackle your problem. a bit too messy for me. but killing yourself isn't a good idea.

edited to include http://forum.depressionet.com.au/index.php?act=idx gotta give you this link cos any mention of suicide (no matter how casual you might be) triggers my wannabe-psychiatrist self...

the issue seems to be pretty complex and distressing so please don't think i'm saying, 'oh you're a psycho', i really think it might help.

< Message edited by gypsylee -- 10/6/2006 10:15:50 PM >

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RE: what to do - 10/7/2006 3:54:29 AM

Angeleyes1993

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well for all my fans I am still here, have calmed down a bit since last night and sent the asshole a little note telling that I do not trust him on certin things that If he wanted me not to cheat on him and his wife he needed to quit as well with any new females on this site and I put him to the test and he failed. so as it sits right now I am not talking to him

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RE: what to do - 10/7/2006 4:42:58 AM

SirLordTrainer

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SirMoi

This man does not fit the description of 'Master' in any way and, if he sees himself as one, you'd be well off to RUN in the opposite direction. Your present course will only lead to disappointment and heartbreak for you.

Ditto!

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RE: what to do - 10/7/2006 4:49:47 AM

LadyHugs

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Dear Angeleyes1993, Ladies and Gentlemen;

Based on just the information offered from your first post, in my mind's eye it is time to move on. Being just a convenient sex toy on their terms leaves you dangling. Not paying attention to you, as to force you to 'pull teeth' should have been the flag of beware.

If a dominant wants the second slave/submissive, they should envelope that second slave as an equal to their first slave. No favorites. Equal attention and affection. No second or third slaves coming into my personal family should never feel abandoned or in want of hugs, affection, respect and praises.

As a dominant, I can understand that dominants want to keep as many delightful and pleasing slaves around them, as you seem lass to be a delightful and loyal lass. But, at what price? Only based on your first post on the topic; you were an easy lay-- Perhaps denying you access to other men who identify as dominant might and or might not feed the needs of you lass. Might be others will treat you much better and not see you for sex, but the lovely lady you truely are.

I've never known second and more slaves that were wanted for the entire slave/submissive self to have to work so hard at getting attention. So, in my mind's eye--I would see it is time to move on and find some chap who will indeed cherish you.

Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs

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RE: what to do - 10/7/2006 5:56:52 AM

ayasha

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Angeleyes1993

well for all my fans I am still here, have calmed down a bit since last night and sent the asshole a little note telling that I do not trust him on certin things that If he wanted me not to cheat on him and his wife he needed to quit as well with any new females on this site and I put him to the test and he failed. so as it sits right now I am not talking to him

Maybe you don't need any more information, just time to process the fact that you need to remove yourself from this situation, take some time for your self without him; and then move forward. one wouldn't suggest wasting any more time or effort on this. If you do, don't you think that in a year you will still be in the same place that you are now? Good luck!

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RE: what to do - 10/7/2006 8:01:25 AM

swtnsparkling

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He doesnt want you to cheat on him and his wife- but he had no problem being the one you cheated on your husband with. Your marrige ends due to this and he marries some one else. umm what did you see in this guy again?

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RE: what to do - 10/7/2006 12:23:35 PM

amlonging

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Angeleyes1993

I have been seeing this man for about two years now and he recentally got married, his wife is bisexual and I have slept with her a couple of times, but really all I want is this man, which claims to be a master, I feel in love with him hard, which in turn broke up my marriage of 12 years, he wants me to give up any other men besides him and his wife plus now I have to pull teeth just for him to pay attention to me, what do you think I should do, just keep going with the flow, or just let him go

I am not going to read all the posts...but just add my opinion and 2 cents worth...my initial gut response.

The relationship with this man has broken up your marriage, left you wondering if you should let him go or go with the flow.....
............ I believe you already know what to do.

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RE: what to do - 10/10/2006 1:04:47 PM

Angeleyes1993

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well as it sits now we are not much on speaking terms so I guess I will wait and see what my heart and head tell me to do during this time, have been talking to a few other doms on this site and they have put some prospective to the situation that I could not see. thanks for all the advice and I will keep you all posted on what is going on.

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RE: what to do - 11/10/2006 5:03:36 PM

Angeleyes1993

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Well It is official my master and I are no longer an item we broke ir off today. I am a little sad, but life goes on.

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RE: what to do - 11/10/2006 5:48:34 PM

MagiksSlave

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((HUGGSSSSSS Angeleyes))

Good for you, Im proud!!! (LOL not that you care)
That took straingth and guts and Im happy you did what is right for you!!!!

Magik's slave

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RE: what to do - 11/10/2006 6:39:06 PM

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i am sorry. i imagine you are hurting, as you said you were in love with him. It takes a lot of courage to leave a bad relationship, especially when your heart is so involved It's the right thing i think...he was using you and abusing you by keeping you hanging and on the side. Good luck in your healing and in your search. If i were you i'd take some time for yourself before putting yourself out on the market.

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RE: what to do - 11/12/2006 12:56:00 AM

wandersalone

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I am sorry that you are sad right now however I have a feeling that the hurt would have continued a lot longer if you remained in that relationship. It sounds like you went from your marriage into this other relationship so may I suggest that you take some time out to be single (it can be fun...honest) and to focus on what is best for yourself as an individual before starting a new relationship.

all the best

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RE: what to do - 11/12/2006 1:47:13 PM

Siona

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Good for you!
Chin up girl..hopefully it'll only get better.

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RE: what to do - 11/12/2006 1:50:25 PM

mnottertail

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If you get really sad and need a hell of a beating, do stop by the house, and we will get it handled for you.

You are now on the right track and will find the love of your life,

Ron

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RE: what to do - 11/12/2006 1:52:58 PM

Lordandmaster

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Please, I know he's not a nice man, but calling him a mollusk seems to be going just a little too far.

quote:

ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

Do you really want to be known for killing youself over a shelfish bastard?

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RE: what to do - 11/12/2006 2:03:44 PM

Siona

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LMAO

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RE: what to do - 11/12/2006 2:07:45 PM

Caitriona

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Angel - I hope that severing this tie will help you discover that you're worth more than how your "Master" was treating you. Give yourself time to heal, rediscover all that you have to offer someone, and good luck when you decide to start looking again.

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RE: what to do - 11/12/2006 7:40:31 PM

theresa300

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hi master i will like to be ur slave
iw ill serve u sexually and any other thuingf u will ask me to do
send em a massage or let chat at yahoo now
[email protected]

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