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RE: Some advice needed. - 10/8/2006 10:20:23 PM

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No ones fault but my own I assure you, in all advice there is good things to be found.
I would if the relationship went that way.. I look more for a long term close relationships then casual play.

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RE: Some advice needed. - 10/8/2006 10:23:13 PM

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I look for relationships as well. I always have to elaborate when I say friends first that doesn't mean friends with benefits.

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RE: Some advice needed. - 10/8/2006 11:01:33 PM

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I am very confused as to what bothers you about her personality as well as what you think is wrong with her wanting to be involved in it what is it you think her motives are... you are only giveing us part of the story here and Im sorry but no advise is gunna be worth anything with only part of the story given!!

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RE: Some advice needed. - 10/9/2006 8:28:57 PM

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My suggestion would be to find some reading material, something you know of and works with your Kink and direct her to do some homework.

The first I would suggest is to make her understand the dynamics of a power exchange and what it is she is agreeing to. It seems to me she has no idea but likes the idea of kink. You may find yourself with one who just wants to play but nothing else. If that is good for you then its all good.

You are the Dominant it is up to you to direct the relationship. Control her on all levels, if that gets her going then you know you have one who is a sub/slave at heart.

Good luck in your journey

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