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RE: Men: what is it about the dominant woman that you l... - 10/9/2006 8:27:10 AM

HarryVanWinkle

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ORIGINAL: Jasmyn
Male submissives what is it about the dominant woman that you love?

Capriciousness, selfishness and a wide Sadistic streak.

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RE: Men: what is it about the dominant woman that you l... - 10/9/2006 8:28:55 AM

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If there was one piece of advice you would give to a woman wanting to be the dominant in a relationship with a red blooded male, what would it be?

Put him in chastity and make sure he understands that pleasing you is the only way out of it.

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RE: Men: what is it about the dominant woman that you l... - 10/9/2006 11:01:07 AM

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ORIGINAL: Jasmyn

If there was one piece of advice you would give to a woman wanting to be the dominant in a relationship with a red blooded male, what would it be?

Don't give up so fast! get to know the guy more than one email before you give up. Reduce the number of reasons why you would immediently end the conversation at the first email point. Stop being so intolerant RELAX this is an adult D&S/BDSM site.

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RE: Men: what is it about the dominant woman that you l... - 10/9/2006 12:27:16 PM

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... But having read a number of different Domme profiles and different Domme responses here on Collarchat, I'm well aware that Dommes are like prescription medicine...

Apt simile! Your English teacher would be proud.

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RE: Men: what is it about the dominant woman that you l... - 10/9/2006 12:38:00 PM

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because when she takes, she gives. and only a dominant lady understands this and enjoys this way of giving

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RE: Men: what is it about the dominant woman that you l... - 10/9/2006 2:19:02 PM

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"Never fight a stubborn bull", meaning if someone is stubborn enough to not let You ride them in the first place, it's better not to keep trying. So if a Woman wants to Dominate, She can start slowly and increase the intensity. If he constantly fights it..... well maybe it's the wrong bull

I like this anology... Makes a lot of sense. M

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RE: Men: what is it about the dominant woman that you l... - 10/9/2006 2:20:32 PM

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Women subs do love Dominant women too.

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RE: Men: what is it about the dominant woman that you l... - 10/9/2006 2:24:37 PM

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Women subs do love Dominant women too.

oh they do indeed. This girl takes pride in loving a dominant woman as she could never submit to a man.

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RE: Men: what is it about the dominant woman that you l... - 10/9/2006 2:29:54 PM

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Women subs do love Dominant women too.

Good grief I hope so!!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: Men: what is it about the dominant woman that you l... - 10/9/2006 7:26:29 PM

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To me, a dominant woman is someone I can admire, look up to and respect for her ability to show the strength, wisdom, nurturing qualities I have always wanted in a woman. It's Her beauty, her femininity and Her whole demeanor.
I am not saying that women in general are superior to men. But many traits of a woman are definitely better then the way us males are wired from birth. Needless to say, men and women are different; each with their own qualities. I just happen to admire and respect, adore and love the mind of a woman more. Therefore, a Dominant woman to me is much more appealing then the image of the dutiful little housewife of the fifties. I do not agree that woman are second class citizens as they were treated for way to many years in most societies. And still treated that way today in many third world backward countries. women have come along way, but have a long road ahead to be at least equal to men in the eyes of men in our society. Sad but true. I for one believe if all world leaders were woman, we would be better off. The way many men treat and think of woman makes me almost ashamed to be male! Woman are much more then just sex objects to be used for sexual gratification and making babies. I hold all women in a higher esteem. Maybe that is why I am a cross dresser, to emulate what I admire and love so much. Or maybe being a cross dresser is why I became a submissive late in life. I don't know. But I feel I can at least understand and respect woman more then non cross dressing males. True or not, it's the way I feel.
For me, being submissive to one Woman is a way of life for me. It is the natural order of things in my heart and soul.

All I want to do is dedicate my life, my heart and soul to one Dominant Woman and serve Her the very best I can; Along with mutual love and respect. I found Her right here on Collarme. For now, She has released me. I can only hope our issues can be corrected so that the love we share can make us both happy for the rest of our lives. Wish me luck and pray for me, if that is part of your beliefs. I want my one very much loved, respected, adored, admired, Dominant Woman back. She is my everything and more. So what is it I love about my Dominant Woman?.....in a word, EVERYTHING.

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RE: Men: what is it about the dominant woman that you l... - 10/9/2006 10:44:50 PM

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Give me a dominant woman knowing what she wants and demanding it from me anyday over a vanilla woman using her "feminine wiles" and trying to coax it out of me.

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RE: Men: what is it about the dominant woman that you l... - 10/10/2006 12:25:57 AM

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greetings

all of the males have so much to give so where are you hiding lol so many ask if there are true males on here i know they are here it is good to hear from the first page wonderful males i enjoy you words

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RE: Men: what is it about the dominant woman that you l... - 10/10/2006 2:37:44 PM

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What I love about a dominant woman is she knows who she is. She is not afraid to speak her mind. They have confidence about themselves. They know what they want out of life. They are not afraid to tell a male that they like him.
My advice is for the woman to be honest with the male. She needs to tell him that she wants to be dominant in the relationship from the start. I feel communication is the most important thing in the relationship.

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RE: Men: what is it about the dominant woman that you l... - 10/10/2006 2:46:55 PM

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ORIGINAL: QuinnDexter

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ORIGINAL: Jasmyn

If there was one piece of advice you would give to a woman wanting to be the dominant in a relationship with a red blooded male, what would it be?

Don't give up so fast! get to know the guy more than one email before you give up. Reduce the number of reasons why you would immediently end the conversation at the first email point. Stop being so intolerant RELAX this is an adult D&S/BDSM site.

Quinn Dexter

Help me understand this a little more. Because this is a BDSM site, we should have to tolerate blatant disrespect, go beyond our limits, accomodate those who don't have similar interests or compromise our personal expectations so you can continue an email conversation?

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RE: Men: what is it about the dominant woman that you l... - 10/10/2006 2:48:29 PM

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ORIGINAL: subfever

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ORIGINAL: Jasmyn

Male submissives what is it about the dominant woman that you love?

Assuming you are referring to a lifestyle dominant woman that I could love:

I love that she has figured out how to achieve the balance of deriving maximum pleasure and benefit from her relationship with a man willing to submit to her, while still being able to love and respect him.

Of anything said in this thread, I relate to this the most. Thanks for sharing.

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RE: Men: what is it about the dominant woman that you l... - 10/10/2006 3:02:23 PM

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<snipped> it's true ..the opposite of dominance is indecision and the opposite of submission is stubborness...

Oh, so perfecty stated, Jasmyn!

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RE: Men: what is it about the dominant woman that you l... - 10/10/2006 3:22:50 PM

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*gets very distracted by one of the posts in this thread*

mmm

Okay, that helped with some of my burnout, ty.

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RE: Men: what is it about the dominant woman that you l... - 10/10/2006 4:07:49 PM

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The expression she has while putting me in restraints.

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RE: Men: what is it about the dominant woman that you l... - 10/10/2006 5:27:14 PM

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Male submissives what is it about the dominant woman that you love?

Everything.

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RE: Men: what is it about the dominant woman that you l... - 10/10/2006 8:21:03 PM

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The Domme females I have had the good fortune to talk to possess a self confidence and understanding of who they are that I think most people are looking for in the person they want to be with. They seemed really comfortable in their own shoes so there wasnt so much of that kind of pulling at the other person to get at the real them.

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