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RE: fear, pleasure and pain - 10/13/2006 8:45:55 PM   
diamonddreamlove


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Status: offline 		I have resisted admitting being a masochist for whatever reason.  Last night my Dom reminded me that the pain is actually a huge sexual turn on for me and that without it i would not have the joy i have because of it. I hate the pain until i manage to get to my happy safe place.  And i have to say get quite annoyed when i am not allowed to go there because He wants to talk during the session.  Of course i would never say that to Him i just have to keep refocusing and the pain is more intense then.   Hmmmm wonder if He knows that and is doing it for that reason.  Oh well no point asking Him, lol He would just smile at me and not give an answer.  Yep i am admitting to being a masochist, such hard words for me to say but is just another step on this journey.

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RE: fear, pleasure and pain - 10/14/2006 1:57:50 AM   
becca333


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ORIGINAL: liljoy

maybe He enjoys watching you hate it too?  If that's the case would you really want to try to convince Him that warm ups would be a good thing if it would take pleasure away from Him?
lil_joy


Damn. 

But then maybe his pleasure comes from watching me trying to convince him that warmups are a good thing?

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RE: fear, pleasure and pain - 10/14/2006 3:53:42 AM   
liljoy


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Status: offline 		lol that could be true. i've found they derive pleasure out of some things that seem very strange to me
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ORIGINAL: becca333 

Damn. 

But then maybe his pleasure comes from watching me trying to convince him that warmups are a good thing?

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