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MaitresseEden -> RE: Whipping (1/28/2005 11:02:01 AM)
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In response to the original question.
Marks are dependent on 3 things:
1. What your being whipped with,
2. The skill and expertise of the person doing the whipping.
3. Your own skin, bruiseing tendencies.. etc.
To address #1. There are soft whipping implements and hard, Stingy and thuddy floggers as well. Start with soft thuding folggers. They are less likely to leave a mark.
To address #2. A skilled Domme can whip you to a frenzy without leaving marks. Granted it is more work for them, but if they care about you they won't object to much. It is important that the skin be warmed up.. to a light pinking gradually, and that blows be delivered to specific areas. I have found that some some people can take beating on their upper back, and others better on their bottom. It truly is an individual thing.
To Address #3 . Some people find their skin is more responsive to healing if beating occurs earlier in the day and are followed by a cardio workout. Ice afterwards can help, and well as just taking vitamins.. etc..
To address the recent pettiness: It never ceases to amaze me how soon people in the scene forget that we all started someplace, and we all asked dumb questions, or had to hide our interests at some point to someone. To ask a intelligent question about why someone believes or does what they do, is fine, but to trash them for not sharing your views only serves to show your own bias.
Ms. Eden
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