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RE: What am I really - 10/16/2006 11:27:03 AM   
ToGiveDivine


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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

TGD - are you looking for a spanking? Youre getting right on my tits!

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I guess I did forget to ask permission first - please forgive my poor manners ;-)

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RE: What am I really - 10/16/2006 8:48:18 PM   
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i apologize for wasting space here, but would someone be so kind as to send me a message explaining how this person may be trolling? i do not entirely understand the concept, but am trying, and to see an example is a good thing, i think. i would be truly grateful for such an explanation.

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RE: What am I really - 10/16/2006 8:57:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen


Not a problem - I try!

This bit interests me though too, I have to say; "I love dressing in lingerie and being sexy like a woman." Time for amateur psycho-analysis!

I tend to see here, a sort of projection going on, where your feelings of desire for women are being transformed into a desire to feel what they feel. This isnt a fault in your personality, but rather indicates to me a sort of exaggeration of the more "normal" (if there is such a thing) male desire to become one with woman in all possible ways.

Your desire is so strong, that it is functioning to extinguish your own identity in the will to merge with her sexually, emotionally and so on, to the extent that you perceive you do feel like her because your merging is so deep. Where it is going wrong though, is in producing an association in your mind - your desire for woman becomes associated with wanting to be like a woman so you can perceive what she is feeling as evidence of the fulfilment of that desire to become one with her.

That this is a start point for developing a fetishistic form of crossdressing is then obvious, in that, even in the absence of woman, if you can imagine you feel like her (the culmination of the exaggerated desire to become one with her) by way of being like her through her clothing, then your desires are still fulfilled.

Of course, I may be totally wrong, but it all makes sense to me.
E


Now you've done it Ellen!  I just felt my brain flip and turn inside out!  (and I feel like I'm getting a nose bleed to boot!)

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RE: What am I really - 10/16/2006 9:29:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Jewel85

i apologize for wasting space here, but would someone be so kind as to send me a message explaining how this person may be trolling? i do not entirely understand the concept, but am trying, and to see an example is a good thing, i think. i would be truly grateful for such an explanation.

Sincere thanks,
jewel @}-;---

It being posted here might serve some benefit to others reading....

When someone posts a message, either as a whine "I can't find anyone", "I need help with my profile" or flows into a discussion about all of their kinks and needs, it forces the reader to take in their advertisement, to view their profile and to give them more consideration than what they'd have previously received.  In certain instances, they take to hijacking a conversation in progress to air their "ad" or manipulate the conversation to make them the focus.

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RE: What am I really - 10/17/2006 1:49:25 AM   
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LS - how was it for you? Long time since I did that to a woman LOL!

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RE: What am I really - 10/19/2006 2:50:42 AM   
mons


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greetings

your gay

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RE: What am I really - 10/19/2006 3:08:17 AM   
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Well, ok from a more um.. spiritual perspective.. why define yourself by your sexuality? If you were to look into the bedroom of a 'normal' couple of many years and a few kids and tried to define them in a word it would most likey be -LAME.  Its simply the case that you have certain needs, and are man (Dom?) enough to go about getting them meet but your more then that. I've always seen people as spiritua/sexual/emotional/intellectual/physical/egotistical and who knows what else. Generalising and catagorising yourself sucks. If you wanna know who you are look within.


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RE: What am I really - 10/21/2006 9:14:36 AM   
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i soooooooo know what you mean!!!
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RE: What am I really - 10/21/2006 10:52:00 AM   
MisPandora


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ORIGINAL: mons

greetings

your gay

Well what the hell kind of answer is that Mons?

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RE: What am I really - 10/22/2006 10:32:42 PM   
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Personally, I think you need to define it yourself.  Having been in a pansexual community for a long time, I can say there are as many definitions for how people are, who people are, what people are and what they do as there are people in communities.  I know lesbians who suck bio boy dick.  I know trannies who consider themselves gay males.  I know gay men who have lesbian slaves.  I know straight women who like fucking women in cars parked in alleys....none of the definitions they have for themselves came from outside themselves....its been from within.

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RE: What am I really - 10/24/2006 11:17:17 AM   
sublace


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I'm sorry, but if I were gay wouldn't I be attracted to men and want nothing to do with women?  Thats the just not how I feel.  There is only one part of a guy I'm interested in and thats it.  Maybe I'm wrong, hard to say anymore.

sublace

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