BitaTruble -> RE: It's true NOT "twue"!!!! (10/14/2006 11:27:08 AM)
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If I say that I am "true" and "real" because of this, this and this....or I believe this is "true" and "real" because of this, this and this....that is stating what I feel is "true" and "real" in my reality. So long as I don't tell someone else that they have to adopt my lines of thought or live their lives in the same way I do in order to qualify to be able to use the words "true" and "real"....then I don't see a problem. I don't often see people on here telling others that they think that everyone should or has to live their lives in a manner identical to their own....but I often see people getting mocked over the "true" and "real" that apparently is the judgement that the "mocker" comes to and not necessarily from something that the "mockee" actually states. Well, I am going to disagree with this because I think there 'is' a difference between someone such as yourself, a regular poster who speaks to their own unique situation and someone new coming on the forums for the express purpose of whining and complaining about the fact that they are the only 'true' submissive or dominant on Collarme and that every single other person who graces the site is a fake, loser, poser (insert deriding nomenclature here) and proceeds to vent to a board full of strangers in a most childish manner. The flavor of the other side is distinctly different from the flavor of this side but someone coming in here for the first time isn't going to know that, so they bring their preconceived notions with them and then proceed to get lambasted for lumping everyone 'here' in with those over 'there.' People just don't like getting forcefully shoved into boxes, especially ones with the label of 'fake' and 'loser' on them. When that happens, it doesn't surprise me that other children (or inner children) come out to see what the commotion is all about and start to play as well. The word 'twue' is used to mock particular OP's.. and I think it's because people don't want to come out and say.. "Hey, you're a fucking idiot who is clueless and how dare you come in HERE just because you're a flake who doesn't have the wit to get yourself a partner on the other side! When you say that everyone is a fake, you are including ME in that description, fuckwad, and I'm NOT A FAKE!" That shit gets ya TOS'd into the cooler by the Mods. So, instead some use the word 'twue' to get that point across. It is the same point, however, just couched on the level of most of the original OP's who start threads regarding 'true' and 'real' life dominance and submission. The sad thing is, most of those folks aren't going to get it and would be much better served to be blasted with the 'true' reaction of coming into a place and calling the whole kit n caboodle of collective posters fakes, liars and wannabes instead of posting it to their own journal on the other side. Then again, how often do those folks come back and post again after putting not just their foot, but their whole leg into their mouth. Imagine going into a biker bar wearing a letterman's sweater and dockers and calling all the Hell's Angels a bunch of sissy's. ::chuckles:: It's sort of the same thing, only here the blood left on the floor is virtual in nature. ::chuckles:: The clueless - come here seeking empathy or sympathy to their plight, but the first thing which happens is they discard the entire group to whom they have addressed their vent because the first words from them are YOU ARE NOT REAL! ONLY I AM REAL! Then blah, blah, blah, whine, whine, whine .. and the pokes and prods start, one thing leads to another and pretty soon you have 10 pages of back and forth over the words real and true between a lot of regs and the OP has already deleted their profile and started a new one. It's an amazing process to witness actually and no doubt we'll continue to witness it again and again. How often have we had an OP who opened up blasting everyone come back and say.. "Hey, maybe I made a mistake. Maybe I was wrong." In every single thread, there are going to be people who give serious feedback no matter how obtuse the OP seems .. and those are almost always ignored because the OP has an agenda and being given constructive criticisms isn't part of that agenda. Most come in to be coddled and when you're dealing with the whips and chains gang it's not the smartest move to make. Best to learn that early on, develop a thick skin.. that way when you go to play with a 'real' and 'true' sadist, you can take the beating from it. [:D] Celeste
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