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pixiecat67 -> RE: calling all masochists (10/19/2006 6:53:18 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SweetSarijane

I am a masochist and a fairly heavy one, but that doesn't mean I always love all pain and can take all pain. There are times when I can't take very much, when all it does is hurt with no pleasure. Doesn't mean you're a "sometimes masochist". I think every masochist has those times. Smacking into something, stubbing my toe, etc is not pleasurable but doesn't make me a parttime masochist just because it doesn't feel good.


Thank you. I've been unclear about whether or not i am a masochist for years. I never knew what to say when someone asked me if i was a masochist without going into a long explanation. 

pixiecat




SweetSarijane -> RE: calling all masochists (10/19/2006 6:29:11 PM)

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ORIGINAL: pixiecat67


Thank you. I've been unclear about whether or not i am a masochist for years. I never knew what to say when someone asked me if i was a masochist without going into a long explanation. 

pixiecat


You are very welcome. I'm glad what I said helped you.




Slipstreme -> RE: calling all masochists (10/20/2006 4:17:57 PM)

I have scars, and lately I have found my best sessions are the ones that cause me to crack emotionally. For that end I have a flogger I made out of weather stripping, that I didn't take the time to smooth the ends out, and it seems to get me there faster. Those are the most liberating. I've taken scenes from little to no warm up, and scenes with a nice long warm up. It really doesn't make a difference for me. I'm in it for the pain, and the days I feel the need for a warm up, I request one, especially if I am trying out a new toy I made (because I tend to be a bit skittish about what they can do).

I would have to say the most severe was actually an accident. I suffered a one inch stab wound due to idiocy in the fleshy area of my wrist (I was lucky it didn't hit bones and tendons), which I noticed myself enjoying. It is an event that I feel I should not have enjoyed because of the fact it was an accidental wound, but I can't deny the fact I did.




briannastorm -> RE: calling all masochists (10/20/2006 8:33:22 PM)

within the past few months i have found out i was a masochist.. .. my breasts were bruised for 2 weeks after, and in the same session, a curling iron was used, and from what i was told, it was used on me for half hour - turned on of course.  from what i have found though, i can take the face slapping, but i really dont like it.. it brings back bad memories, and i dont like anything around my throat, once again, brings back bad memories. 
i enjoy the subspace.. realizing how much pain i am taking, and pleasing the Person that is giving me the pain by taking all that they are giving me. 




EbonyFtshGoddess -> RE: calling all masochists (10/20/2006 9:46:11 PM)

fast reply.

http://i53.photobucket.com/albums/g61/ebonygoddess_photos/ass121.jpg

that pic was after a deep tissue and body punching demo i volunteered for at a workshop that no one else would volunteer for. believe it or not.. that was  LONG plane ride back home.  those little round tiny bruises hurt like a MOTHERFUCKER and took forever to heal. if there is one thing about brusies or deep tissue bruises. you definitely think about who gave you those brusies each time you sit down... WAY longer than nearly anything else or any spanking. maybe only a caning can last longer because it can draw blood and also cause deep tissue bruising.

i can take MUCH more than that if i felt like it.. if a sub can't handle at least that much...at least someone coming to me proclaiming to be a masochist. then they don't need to contact me. i don't care if they need a warmup or not.

now touch my nipples..LOL..

game over. UNCLE.

so i can respect limits that are laid out before me because i know i have my own limits. i think people that haven't ever felt it themselves are more likely to cross limits because they haven't experienced it.

i think a good *sadist* is someone that has experienced what they're dishing out.

they know it from experience and they know how far to go




EbonyFtshGoddess -> RE: calling all masochists (10/20/2006 9:51:28 PM)

ps

i appreciate the people responding that said they don't necessarily view their masochism as submission (UNLESS) they are in a total D/s relationship..

but if you want a little pain, you want a little pain.

or a lotta pain depending..lol

sadly, not a lot of Dominants admit to liking pain, as if that makes them less dominant.

eh.. who knows?




subjected2006 -> RE: calling all masochists (10/20/2006 10:36:39 PM)

physicaly?
pins on my clit was pretty tough
most recently..and longest lasting pain..
clothespins on my pierced nipples
with bars instead of rings in
left for almost two hours
that was two weeks ago
and my nipples just stopped itching and pounding
they are still uber sensitive ,but normal coloured
and mentally?
Master is ignoring me since,,
now THATS gonna leave a mark..LOL




Siona -> RE: calling all masochists (10/21/2006 1:12:24 AM)

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ORIGINAL: catize

Fast reply
Reposted:

The kiss of the leather strap extends much deeper than my skin.  It surpasses superficiality, the slap and sting settles and soothes my very core.  I absorb each blow with joyous heart.
 
Pain relished rather than endured becomes an opiate, a time warp, an explosion that illuminates the darkness of space.  It is like Christmas and the 4th of July all in one; shiny paper wrapped around bursting lights/colors/sounds.
  
My limbs stretched outward, I am buoyed upon the warm waves of sensorial bliss. I am surrounded by his cruel attentions, I absorb the pain he bestows.  He allows me to feel it all within the safety of his presence.  He is my lifeguard.
   
Every searing blow ignites and quenches the same fire.  My body and mind pulse with his rhythms, the heat intensifies to a small hot coal within my center and flares outward.  I am the volcano, splashing hot liquid throughout the universe.  We burn together but are not destroyed.
 
I am his canvas; he paints vivid red and purple blooms, a violent still life.  He rains chaos upon my body until we are both appeased.  He conducts the opera; I hit the high notes with perfect pitch; an aria of tears. 
 
I hear the pleasure and pride in his voice and I feel submissively feminine, completed, and valued. 
 
And then his arms around me, he is the comforter and pillow, ‘Let me be the Man,’ He says, ‘and you the woman.’  Yes, Sir, gratefully, yes.
 
I drive home still cuffed, my nipples clamped, tender ass wiggling on the car seat. The miles between his house and mine are not far enough to feel less than owned.




That's beautiful catize!




EbonyFtshGoddess -> RE: calling all masochists (10/21/2006 9:46:32 AM)

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ORIGINAL: subjected2006
and mentally?
Master is ignoring me since,,
now THATS gonna leave a mark..LOL



that always hurts more than nearly any physical pain




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