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MasterNdorei -> RE: lying about yr age (10/15/2006 8:28:08 PM)
Age matters if someone says it matters. When preparing to meet someone we chose what to discuss so that we can make educated decisions. If someone is disqualified because another did not like the honest answer, it was never meant to be. Tricking the person asking the question does not help anyone involved. It breeds distrust in others and makes the liar look desperate. That is a picture i could not shake from one who joined U/us once. i can relate. Master's dorei

Lordandmaster -> RE: lying about yr age (10/15/2006 8:56:41 PM)
There's a gaping hole between "trustworthy" and "secret agent for a Colombian drug cartel," and I'm not interested in any woman who falls into that gaping hole. It's trustworthy or buh-bye for me. quote: ORIGINAL: WhipTheHip I swear to God, every time I have ever run into a female who has lied about her age, it always turns out she is a secret agent for some foreign enemy government, or she is the head of a Columbian drug cartel, or a psycho serial killer or one of bin Ladin's daughters. Females who lied about their age also have to the nerve to lie about how much money they have in the bank, and how much money they really pull down each year. Anyone who lies about their age is obviously a sociopath who can't be trusted.. And the converse is true, people who are honest about their age will never hurt you or betray your trust. Take my word for it.

BuxomGoddess714 -> RE: lying about yr age (10/15/2006 9:30:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sophia37 Soooo, we tell people what we think they want to hear. We tell ourselevs what we need to hear. Ever think of that? .. WE DO???? On what planet? THAT is called "Manipulation" and delusional. People with VERY low self esteem do that. People with lower self esteem tolerate it.

BuxomGoddess714 -> RE: lying about yr age (10/15/2006 9:44:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WhipTheHip people who are honest about their age will never hurt you or betray your trust. Take my word for it. Sorry WTH, You defend lying so much, I'd run to my gyno for verification if you told Me I was a woman. If you told Me hell was hot, I'd know it had suredly frozen over finally. You'd tell Me you just ate at McDonalds while you had a Burger King bag in your hand, then tell Me "everyone lies". Your word is doesn't mean much. Goddess

AngelfaceDallas -> RE: lying about yr age (10/16/2006 12:32:06 AM)
No matter, what those who lie have been liars all their life. If they lie about their age, then they lie about everything else and then some.

Iskander -> RE: lying about yr age (10/16/2006 1:27:14 AM)
(quick reply) I always lie! Iskander...

TheWord -> RE: lying about yr age (10/16/2006 1:52:30 AM)
Never tell the truth, when a lie will do! Never tell one if you can tell two! If you have to tell the truth, always make it seem like a lie, then no one will believe you anyway. Politicians do it, Diplomats do it, Used car salesmen very definitely do it, Teachers do it, Preachers do it, Ph.D. students do it, wives do it, Husbands do it, Octopusses do it, Hunters do it, Novelists do it, Playwrites do it, TV news do it, the New York Times do it, and when you tell me "Never, never ever would I ..." You are doing it too!

gypsylee -> RE: lying about yr age (10/16/2006 1:56:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Iskander (quick reply) I always lie! Iskander... liar.

TheWord -> RE: lying about yr age (10/16/2006 2:07:53 AM)
You'all got that right! Imitated southern drawl for the lady from the deep south.

rubyleu -> RE: lying about yr age (10/16/2006 5:28:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TemptingNviceSub quote: ORIGINAL: rubyleu yup.. i understand you all.. hell, who knows, i might take off a few yrs too when im 50.. as for my profile seeking NSA, its this site.. i have a few other profiles and that woman was met on another one. in fact, she contacted my Master at first and i took the time to write her back because He didnt have the time. in His profile (where she contacted Him), it stated He is seeking subs/slaves to join us. He then told her that if we were to keep meeting, she would become His sub. with that in mind, that would be my sister sub. So aint it kinda normal to feel a pissed off with someone not being honest with you, especially her knowing that she was asked for a commitment in the long run. sure i appreciate she confessed.. but what else is she gonna bullshit me about to get her way, (if she does come around again) then confess after she gets what she wants. yeah, maybe i got a problem trusting ppl.. i just dont get why she didnt say it before. maybe its hard for some folks to understand, kinda like you-had-to-be-there situation. shit... i never thought this post would grow this big. i think its great though, all these different kinds of opinions, no one taking it personally, some making jokes, some being sarcastic.. amazing. what an experience im having. i should do this more often.. THANKS EVERYONE!!! Grin...actually I was going to ask you how you think you will feel when you too are 50, but you beat me to the draw..I was pleased to note that you know that there is a possibility that at 50 + you may be tempted to lie as well..we are human we all make mistakes, I guess it simply comes down to how high you feel the transgression is and what you wish to do about it. As someone stated she was forthcoming with the info rather than being caught in the lie..but also it was also after the fact, desperation on her part...probably...desperation attractive to any one ..NO..which is what I think may be the crux of your actual distaste...Tempting no one is perfect, and we all lie at some point in our lives.. some not much, and some are chronic (those turn out to be losers).. my actual 'distaste', was that. it seemed like an act of desperation to me. i was disappointed to have been lied to after the scene, after my Master left, after we spoke many times on the phone and online. i felt it was an act of desperation because of the way she wanted to join us so fast, no questions asked, seriously, no questions.. however, my Master did interview her online regarding her limits, and fantasies. He didnt have much time to talk to her, but i did. and the times that we did, i was asking myself why this lady didnt ask too many questions about my limits, experiences, etc etc..we were talking about work, and i felt awkward throwing in the question about her past relationship and experiences. i was expecting questions back, and now that i think of it as im typing, i do remember asking her a few times, 'dont you have any questions for me'. but im an open person and believe everyone has a different approach. she trusted us right away. its what made me wonder too. but i didnt make a big deal of it. like i said over and over.. im not that upset, cos everyone lies.. just wanted to know how others would feel in a similar situation. i did lose some trust in this person though.. i think thats pretty important in a potential relationship. but i trust my Master in His judgement, and His decision is what matters in the end..

NYMaster101 -> RE: lying about yr age (10/16/2006 12:45:29 PM)
There is no excuse for lying about your age.

diamonddreamlove -> RE: lying about yr age (10/16/2006 5:52:33 PM)
I think lying about ones age is stupid just my opinion! But even more so dishonest. Now i have noticed that many folks don't update ages on their profiles so that could be part of the problem. But damn it i have earned every bit of experience those years have given me and will take credit for them. Have been seeing my Dom for several months now and just found out His age for sure. For me age is not important it is the person that is important. If i caught someone lying about their age tho i would ask why they felt the need. Depending on the answer i would probably not play with them again cause of the dishonesty.

WhipTheHip -> RE: lying about yr age (10/16/2006 10:57:19 PM)
> There's a gaping hole between "trustworthy" and "secret agent for a > Colombian drug cartel," Certainly! And anyone who lies about their age isn't trustworthy, and those who are honest about their age are trustworthy. Yep, Lord and Master, you certainly have a deep understanding of human kind. > and I'm not interested in any woman who falls into that gaping hole. > It's trustworthy or buh-bye for me. Yep, if something is not white, perfect, and without blemish, it must be black, worthless, and falsehood..

WhipTheHip -> RE: lying about yr age (10/16/2006 11:05:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BuxomGoddess714 quote: ORIGINAL: WhipTheHip people who are honest about their age will never hurt you or betray your trust. Take my word for it. Sorry WTH, You defend lying so much, I'd run to my gyno for verification if you told Me I was a woman. If you told Me hell was hot, I'd know it had suredly frozen over finally. You'd tell Me you just ate at McDonalds while you had a Burger King bag in your hand, then tell Me "everyone lies". Your word is doesn't mean much. Goddess You got me pegged. It is absolutely amazing how perceptive you are. But then again you are a Goddess which makes you omnipotent, omniscient, infallible, perfect, a paragon of virtue, and always truthful.

WhipTheHip -> RE: lying about yr age (10/16/2006 11:13:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AngelfaceDallas No matter, what those who lie have been liars all their life. Yep, anyone who tells a single lie is liar, and anyone who is a liar has lied all their life.] quote: If they lie about their age, then they lie about everything else and then some. Why certainly, this is a logical deduction, an undisputable tautology, and beyond question. To doubt or question this is like doubting the existence of God.

Lordandmaster -> RE: lying about yr age (10/16/2006 11:46:30 PM)
You know, I didn't say either one of the asinine things you're pretending I said. You're more interested in arguing than anything else, and if the other person doesn't say something that you can easily shred, you go and pretend he said something else. Have fun witchaseff. quote: ORIGINAL: WhipTheHip > There's a gaping hole between "trustworthy" and "secret agent for a > Colombian drug cartel," Certainly! And anyone who lies about their age isn't trustworthy, and those who are honest about their age are trustworthy. Yep, Lord and Master, you certainly have a deep understanding of human kind. > and I'm not interested in any woman who falls into that gaping hole. > It's trustworthy or buh-bye for me. Yep, if something is not white, perfect, and without blemish, it must be black, worthless, and falsehood..

jamesthehumanrug -> RE: lying about yr age (10/21/2006 4:59:16 PM)
ya rite you too young or stupid to lie about your age? "theres no virtue in the truth" ;if someone was gonna' burn you in the natzi death camps ,and was a german and, you were jewish ,and the soldier asked you ;ok :are you a jew?;what you say? can't tell a lie;kill me; my public loves me, to death ,for telling the truth, or if a" top" is with a director(casting is what they do, with slaves) and, the top asks you: how old are you? ;we want something fresh......is the next thing they say, if you're a fat 27; get me?;pure boy? quote: ORIGINAL: WhipTheHip quote: ORIGINAL: missturbation On one hand age is just a number so does it realy matter. On the other hand thiugh if they are lying about their age what else ar they lying about. If they lie about their age, they could be a serial killer or an ax murderer. You never know. And if they tell the truth about their age, you can believe everything else they say. You just got to love all these people who never tell a lie, and are absolutely always honest about everything no matter what the circumstances.

Sinergy -> RE: lying about yr age (10/21/2006 7:08:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WhipTheHip I swear to God, every time I have ever run into a female who has lied about her a I dont know. When I run into women we generally exchange drivers license and insurance information at the scene of the accident. You might want to try the approach of verifying the Date Of Birth on the drivers license if this is such an issue. Just me, could be wrong, but there you go. Sinergy

WickedlyDevine -> RE: lying about yr age (10/21/2006 8:59:17 PM)
It would make me wonder what else she lied about.... I know on my profile we are a couple, he is 32 and I am 36, so I picked 34 to represent both of us. But I would never lie about my age to anyone when asked.

mnottertail -> RE: lying about yr age (10/22/2006 3:54:32 AM)
I would consider this specific case to be data point smoothing, and as such clearly not a lie, but as you say, there are two of you so since there is no multiple choice answer to this test you have soundly answered to the best of your ability, and shown some ability to compromise in the process. However; the notion that data point smoothing could be effected on one data point might lead one to conclude that a rasp has been used on other data points in ones life, and that is hardly to be blamed. Ron

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