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Newbie seeking advice :) - 10/14/2006 2:25:52 PM   
devotion4u


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Status: offline 		Hello all.  Joined this site to hopefully find my Dom.  Very new to D/s and welcomes any advice or discussions regarding the subject, or anything for that matter.  Seriously seeking.  How come I am listed as vanilla?  It should be at least a "twist"....lol. How do I change my avatar? :(

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RE: Newbie seeking advice :) - 10/14/2006 4:07:25 PM   
CelticPrince


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Status: offline 		devotion,

Welcome to CM and all that it has to offer. Do not be in a hurry, be selective and choose a D that is very experienced / not just one that want to get in your pants ASAP.

An experienced D will indeed be cautious of taking on a sub as well.

Good Fortune to you.

CP

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RE: Newbie seeking advice :) - 10/14/2006 4:08:30 PM   
bardtothebone


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From: Central CA.
Status: offline 		Welcome to the wondrous world of CollarMe, Devotion :-)
May you find the meaning of life, and the Dom of your dreams.


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RE: Newbie seeking advice :) - 10/14/2006 6:12:21 PM   
deltadawn


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ORIGINAL: devotion4u

Hello all.  Joined this site to hopefully find my Dom.  Very new to D/s and welcomes any advice or discussions regarding the subject, or anything for that matter.  Seriously seeking.  How come I am listed as vanilla?  It should be at least a "twist"....lol. How do I change my avatar? :(


Welcome to the forums.

The icecream cone will change with the number of posts you make.  Avators are found in the profile section on top. 

Please take your time in finding your 'Dom'.

dawn

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RE: Newbie seeking advice :) - 10/15/2006 11:04:53 AM   
devotion4u


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Joined: 10/14/2006
Status: offline 		Thank You CP...
If I was in a hurry, I would not be here. I have been searching for awhile.  It takes alot to get into my pants, but I hope once there it was worth the effort. LOL
This is a serious search for me.  Sex is one thing........ finding my true Dom is another. It goes beyond the physical realm, and that I understand. I want to give myself to Him completely, and He WILL know of my devotion.  :)

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RE: Newbie seeking advice :) - 10/15/2006 11:18:20 AM   
devotion4u


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Joined: 10/14/2006
Status: offline 		Thank you bardtothebone and delta dawn......  such a nice place....  :)

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RE: Newbie seeking advice :) - 10/15/2006 12:18:28 PM   
maryelena


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Status: offline 		Can someone  please explain, with some detail if you've time, what topping from the bottom means, or to top from the bottom? If there is a link to a good article (not book) on the subject that would be appreciated . Thank You  

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RE: Newbie seeking advice :) - 10/15/2006 12:31:40 PM   
adommeforu


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Status: offline 		en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Topping_from_the_bottom -
Happy reading.

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RE: Newbie seeking advice :) - 10/15/2006 4:07:15 PM   
DarkSideisXTC


Posts: 13
Status: offline 		First off a real Dom will want to get to know you first as a person, almost in a vanilla kinda way. The first sign of a wannabe vanilla is he will discuss sex right off the bat. Secondly, as has been suggested take your time. If you feel comfortable you can post a picture but keep in mind that will generate as much Email from the fools as the real Dom's probably more so but you want to get noticed. The more visable you are the more likely at some point you will come across someone that fits for you.

Welcome, good luck in your seach, stay safe and be naughty.

Master JR

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RE: Newbie seeking advice :) - 10/15/2006 7:12:37 PM   
popeye1250


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From: New Hampshire
Status: offline 		Welcome aboard.

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RE: Newbie seeking advice :) - 10/15/2006 8:45:42 PM   
ToyMaster96


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Status: offline 		welcome to the wonderful realm known as CollarMe ... enjoy yourself here...enjoy the forums

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RE: Newbie seeking advice :) - 10/15/2006 10:22:31 PM   
maryelena


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Status: offline 		Very helpful link. Thanks

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RE: Newbie seeking advice :) - 10/15/2006 10:33:34 PM   
devotion4u


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Joined: 10/14/2006
Status: offline 		:) Darkside

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RE: Newbie seeking advice :) - 10/15/2006 10:36:05 PM   
devotion4u


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Status: offline 		What a terrific bunch of people............
I am curious...... of different ideas of D/s relationships? How they are viewed? expectations? desires?
I think each Dom is as individual as a snowflake, and I would assume subs are too. 

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RE: Newbie seeking advice :) - 10/16/2006 12:55:53 PM   
daiseytheone


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Joined: 4/24/2005
Status: offline 		...don't sweat the small stuff...

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