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RE: How long did it take you to find your Dom/me? - 10/24/2006 2:56:15 AM

asiandoll27

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2 years - and still looking. One must have patience - as others have said - it is just a must - because you tend to experience alot looking for the right one.

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RE: How long did it take you to find your Dom/me? - 10/24/2006 9:30:14 AM

Ladyofthemanor

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Master and i took 10 years to find each other! W/we are best friends, great lovers, and extremely kinky! W/we were both looking at the right time to find our mate, as my Master puts it. i am his mate, his life partner, not only his slave....and i know that i will be with him until the day W/we die

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RE: How long did it take you to find your Dom/me? - 10/24/2006 12:03:35 PM

akisha

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ORIGINAL: masochistboy

i guess this also applies to Dominants, but how long did it take you to find your Master/Mistress?
What did you have to go through and how did you meet? How old were you too?

i'm asking so that i could get an idea of how long i will have to wait or what i have to go through...
thanx =)

Well darn i didn't realize He was lost

I've been looking for over 15 years. But that doesn't mean i sat quietly by and waited., I got out there and met people and got involved with people. Looking for the best relationship is like looking for the best car. You need to test drive a few

I'm seeing One now that i really like and we'll see how and where that goes. Everthing takes time and patience and hard work.

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RE: How long did it take you to find your Dom/me? - 10/24/2006 1:50:13 PM

Mikal

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ORIGINAL: heartfeltman
I would suggest to everyone seeking a Dominant in their lives, to take the time to draw up a list. Starting from 1), begin to describe her (him). That ideal person ... Intelligence, location, sense of humor, physical characteristics, proclivities, children/no children....ect, ect. Get as specific as you possibly can...

As nice as it sounds, finding someone who conforms exactly to such a list will, imo, be more difficult than winning the lottery. You will wind up very disappointed, because what you are making a list of is the Perfect Person, who doesn't exist. Now, I'm not saying roll over and accept whomever... just don't have a written-in-stone list. People/circumstances change, and just because a person is x now, doesn't mean they'll be x later (years later if you're looling for a ltr). Also, qualities that you think you want, you may wind up hating. I had a girlfriend who dated a fellow because she liked his outgoingness & generosity. But she wound up hating him after they had kids, because he was still outgoing & generous... she thought he should "settle down". But that wasn't who he was... As for physical characteristics... beauty fades, and looks can be changed easily enough.

My point to all this is have standards, but BE FLEXIBLE. Be patient... no one likes desparation except people you really don't want to be with anyways. Try looking for friends first... if you like bowling, join a mixed bowling league. Stuff like that...

Good luck & happy searching!

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