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RE: online domiation - 10/17/2006 7:58:43 PM

akisha

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OMG that just makes the basement people harder to remove from their computers now.

I just had a seriously icky mental picture. Thanks Sinergy i think I'm scarred for life

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RE: online domiation - 10/17/2006 8:29:10 PM

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See now me and Master have it a bit different. we are real life but we dont live together so at night we talk online and we somethimes do some playfull stuff never any actuall sceneing but some silly fun things that let us maintian our dynamic even if we arent in the same room.... Now if it where only online Id get bored unfofilled and unhappy and it wouldnt last long.

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RE: online domiation - 10/18/2006 4:30:05 AM

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Online? Are you kidding me? If I cannot feel the paddle connect with the slave's ass, I'm not interested. If my dishes and laundry is still in the sink and on the floor when I come home, the slave is worthless. I've never done 'online' for more than introductory and that's how I weed out and interview (okay more like an interrogation) prospective slaves. But that lasts only a couple of months and there's no cyber.

After the initial interview process ... if they are not prepared to meet IRL, I tell them goodbye, delete them from my messanger and block them here. I didn't do all that ... twice and let me tell you ... holy crap, the begging. That's actually when I found the 'block' button *lol*.

Most of those that I've found in a cyber type of relationship do so because they fear the real thing. If that is you, search for a novice Dom, you can change your add to reflect you are looking for a novice Dom to learn WITH and then both of you can learn ... but do so IRL.

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RE: online domiation - 10/19/2006 4:10:39 PM

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online domination i believe is a safe way of getting to know a Dombefore commiting to a real life experience...in many ways its like a vibrator...good but not like the real thing

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RE: online domiation - 10/19/2006 5:03:31 PM

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I started my trek into the D/s world through an online relationship. It was rather interesting when I found myself submitting to someone (whom I thought I had real feelings for) and doing things on cam that I would have not done, previously, in person. I found great satisfaction in the release and began searching for what this was that I was feeling... not the "emotion" part, but the release.

Since then, however, my relationships have all be in r/t and are much more fulfilling. Though I found them all online - Alt, etc - they were eager to meet and start a r/t relationship rather than lingering online for long periods of time. That was what I wanted as well. Though, now that I have found Sir... I have no desire to seek and use the Internet as a mere source of entertainment... probably as it should be.

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RE: online domiation - 10/19/2006 5:05:38 PM

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Sir and I did the same before I moved in with him. It was fun to be able to interact whenever we wanted without the hassle of phones and such. I played with him via cam, and he would call me and talk to me (I love his voice). It was interesting, titillating and it helped me get to know him better before I fully submitted to him.

But... to each their own. It works for some, and not for others.

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RE: online domiation - 10/19/2006 10:46:40 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave

See now me and Master have it a bit different. we are real life but we dont live together so at night we talk online and we somethimes do some playfull stuff never any actuall sceneing but some silly fun things that let us maintian our dynamic even if we arent in the same room.... Now if it where only online Id get bored unfofilled and unhappy and it wouldnt last long.

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MagiksSlave, I think this is a different scenario than simply online domination. I think the cyber world can be a great adjunct to the in da flesh world. For those who do not live 24/7 or perhaps even travel for work etc online is a wonderful communication tool.

However if one is speaking to only online BDSM or even D/s it has its limits.

Many begin their journeys online, it is a safe place to explore and experience the start of power exchange. The feelings at the time can be real, however the limits are huge.

I think if a relationship begins online then moves to in da flesh there can be sucess. However to keep the dynamic online only it can only be a set up for failure, hurt feelings and dissatisfaction

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RE: online domiation - 10/29/2006 9:56:00 AM

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I am an online only Dom.

In answer to the original question yes I would much rather play in real life but my circumstances prevent it (no i'm not married).

But online can have it's place contrary to what many have said here.

I have 5 women online I am dominating, 1 is very light orgasm and clothing control stuff she enjoys just to spice up her day to day life.

One is being trained for/with their very inexperienced BF/master, another is with me for a few months wanting to be pushed deeper into the submissive mindset before she is ready to find a real life owner, one is being completely controlled by me and loves it but with the understanding that it will be over as soon as she finds someone local to Dom her. There is only one that has given herself to me completely and I am aware that if my situation doesn't look like changing within a couple of years I will have to let her go

Online can work, and you can have as complete control as if there in person, but it is certainly the 2nd best option, and I for one would feel wrong to keep a slave forever with only an online relationship, but I get annoyed at those who declare so confidently that it is a complete waste of time.

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RE: online domiation - 10/30/2006 1:55:25 AM

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Personally, I don't understand the point of online Domination or cybering, et al. I like my D/s and BDSM to be up close, personal, and hands on.

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RE: online domiation - 10/30/2006 5:05:25 AM

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Online is great for communication and advice and such but as for 'Online D/s' .. I think thats a bit like swimming on dry land

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RE: online domiation - 10/31/2006 11:19:26 AM

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Nothing finer than a one on one... or one on two...

The online environment is great because it provides you with an area to meet a large number of like minded people and share your views.... but you cant spank the skunk guts online and what fun is that?

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