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SweetSarijane -> RE: How do I leave Master (10/18/2006 7:11:39 AM)

He's online, no r/t, it's not working, delete, block and move on. Step into local groups, go to events and munches rather than using the computer to find a Master. I took that step into real time and I enjoy going to events and I've made a number of friends and find it so much more fulfilling than online.



LaTigresse -> RE: How do I leave Master (10/18/2006 7:15:41 AM)

Turn off the computer and he will magically disappear.



JerseyKrissi72 -> RE: How do I leave Master (10/18/2006 7:26:55 AM)

Just use that iggy button and move on.[:)]



Mavis -> RE: How do I leave Master (10/18/2006 8:42:14 AM)

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ORIGINAL: happypervert

I suggest you try to find a real time dom who can slap some sense into you.


::; choke ::  lol.  Priceless.



Mavis -> RE: How do I leave Master (10/18/2006 8:49:07 AM)

if you really can't "leave" without the closure of release...  send him mail to notify him of the death of "slave sassifire"  then change your handles. 

Now, you have satisfied the terms of your slavery, til death, and if you kill that online personna, she's dead, right?   He forgot you had the power to kill her off when He accepted her submission.    Opps.  His bad.



Kinkypupper -> RE: How do I leave Master (10/18/2006 8:59:28 AM)

Its a online thing it appears. he may be playing more of a game then you know.
Just press delete and seek out a real person



SpoiledDomme4you -> RE: How do I leave Master (10/18/2006 9:09:37 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

If there is no r/t then leaving is very simple.  Change screennames.
There is no release necessary if he has not taken the time to physicaly collar you. The beauty of the digital world is that if things arent working, and the other party refuses to acknowledge it, then you can just disappear. It will not be easy, since you are mentally connected to him, but once you break the communication the mental connection will fade as well.

DV


I totally agree with DV. Unless he has your address just change your screen name. you can always let others who have had it know you have changed it if you want to...but to him you will be gone. There is no big problem here unless you let it be one. Good luck to you.



MasterFireMaam -> RE: How do I leave Master (10/18/2006 9:19:26 AM)

I feel that a slave, even when owned completely, always has one decision: to obey or not. Each choice has consequences. Weigh them and decide for yourself. Choosing to not obey doesn't make you a bad person...it usually means that you are standing up for yourself and your own well being.

Master Fire



MagiksSlave -> RE: How do I leave Master (10/18/2006 10:33:31 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Turn off the computer and he will magically disappear.


((giggles and giggles)) yeah what she said!!

Magik's slave



Sub03 -> RE: How do I leave Master (10/18/2006 10:51:52 AM)

Sign out of whatever messenger you are using, walk away from your computer and done.  Really your an adult, there is no real time play or collar so what is stopping you from getting him out of your life?? Even if it was rt, no collar or contract is going to make you stay with him. Just walk away.



kittensmailbox -> RE: How do I leave Master (10/18/2006 10:58:36 AM)

if it is only on line, He really does not have any real controil of you... come on now....



Kaledorus -> RE: How do I leave Master (10/18/2006 11:00:13 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SirDaniel

Bottom line is a slave serves from her heart, yours is not in it. You are no more collared and property of him than you are of me.


True but it takes all the drama out of their lives. [;)]



MisPandora -> RE: How do I leave Master (10/18/2006 11:05:55 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sassiefire

I've talked to him, tried to make him understand it's not working for me. He says I am slave and it doesn't matter what I want, He will not release me. He has been my online dom for 9 months with no r/t and He knew from the beginning I have to have r/t. I am tired of the arguing, I just want to be free. What can i do? Please help!!!

Delete your screen name.
Sign off the damned computer.
Go out and get involved in the RT community.



MstrssSatin -> RE: How do I leave Master (10/18/2006 11:19:53 AM)

Honey tell him to go f**k himself and then do all that others have suggested.  Ignore, change screen name,  block him, etc. 



TrueCalling -> RE: How do I leave Master (10/18/2006 11:45:25 AM)

'He' says you are slave and it doesnt matter what you want? Good grief, the only thing you are 'slave' to is a darn keyboard and monitor. If someone had been telling me for nine months that we'd meet- had we not done so long before that time, it surely never would have lasted that long! i would imagine there have been other signs here that things aren't what they appear. Back to the point, though. You've been offered great advice from the others who have posted messages here. Personally, i don't see a darn thing holding you back, there is nothing here that signifies any sort  of actual relations but for the ole cliche self-appointed role titles... GO!

colleen

"What you are does not make you what you think you are" (unknown and from a really bad Sean Penn film!)



sweetnurseBBW -> RE: How do I leave Master (10/18/2006 11:58:19 AM)

Seems this is more a form of entertainment for him than real. I personally don't get online. Like others have said, delete him and move on.



juliaoceania -> RE: How do I leave Master (10/18/2006 12:40:23 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sassiefire

I've talked to him, tried to make him understand it's not working for me. He says I am slave and it doesn't matter what I want, He will not release me. He has been my online dom for 9 months with no r/t and He knew from the beginning I have to have r/t. I am tired of the arguing, I just want to be free. What can i do? Please help!!!


I hear a great deal of anguish in this post. Perhaps I am wrong, but you feel as though it is his responsibility to set you free, and unless he does this keeps you emotionally tied to him...

I have been through similar circumstances, this is an issue of closure perhaps? You need closure and you are demanding he give that to you... well he isn't going to. You have to decide you are so miserable you will get your own closure.

I would write him an email telling him you release yourself and then do what others have suggested... move on as quickly and completely as you can by blocking him and stopping any further contact.. once you release yourself it is done...

But for some reason I got the impression there is still part of you that is reluctant to do this or you would have done it already...

Good luck and I am sorry for your pain, it will resolve itself though.. I promise, just got to take it a day at a time.



sassiefire -> RE: How do I leave Master (10/18/2006 1:28:09 PM)

thanks to all who replied. I do have an emotional attachment to him. Why I don't know. All here gave same advice, block him, tell him to F*&< off and get on with it. Yes my profile was changed to say I was owned, but I have already changed it back, because I know this is not being owned. I think he just brainwashed me in my sleep. DELETE!!!!!




SleeplessGypsy -> RE: How do I leave Master (10/18/2006 1:37:05 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sassiefire

I think he just brainwashed me in my sleep. DELETE!!!!!




There ya go! It'll be like he never exsisted....



amaidiamond -> RE: How do I leave Master (10/18/2006 2:04:29 PM)

You go girl - press the OFF switch, go to a local munch it will soon take your mind of what is online and online only...



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