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LeeMN -> RE: How do I leave Master (10/22/2006 7:50:47 AM)
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Sweetnsasse
In the event that he is "watching" you and hacking your computer after you have told him that you do not want further contact with him, start documenting the dates and times that he contacts you, and what he says. Contact the police, and an attorney. Delete online accounts and open new ones, change phone numbers to unlisted, and move, if possible, if he knows where you live.
There are Federal and state laws against stalking, which is what this amounts to. He is committing a crime, and you need to report it. Press charges. If things escalate, get an order for protection/restraining order, and contact the police EVERY TIME he violates it. Contact the local domestic abuse shelters. Avail yourself of the protection those agencies can provide you.
Much as folks would like to say they are "slaves" and give up their rights (or have none), that is the fantasy your mind built. The fact of the matter is YOU are the only one who can make you forfeit your rights. YOU are the only person who can allow yourself to be victimized.
And next time you are contemplating getting involved with someone, don't be so desparate that you wind up settling for someone who is not going to treat you well and respectfully, or settling for someone who has no grasp of the concept that there really IS a difference between fantasy and reality.
Good luck.
Lee
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