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RE: How do I leave Master - 10/22/2006 7:08:07 AM

KnightofMists

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you got to be kidding!

who about shutting down your computer...

Geezzzzzzz

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RE: How do I leave Master - 10/22/2006 7:14:49 AM

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ORIGINAL: sweetnsasse

i have tried changing my account, he is very good with computers he always knows when i am online. he has all my phone nos and calls me at odd hours just to let me know he is watching

Change your phone numbers

get your name unlisted on the phone list

reintialize and install your computer.

and finally and most importantly... how did you allow yourself to get caught up with such a person.

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RE: How do I leave Master - 10/22/2006 7:50:47 AM

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Sweetnsasse

In the event that he is "watching" you and hacking your computer after you have told him that you do not want further contact with him, start documenting the dates and times that he contacts you, and what he says. Contact the police, and an attorney. Delete online accounts and open new ones, change phone numbers to unlisted, and move, if possible, if he knows where you live.

There are Federal and state laws against stalking, which is what this amounts to. He is committing a crime, and you need to report it. Press charges. If things escalate, get an order for protection/restraining order, and contact the police EVERY TIME he violates it. Contact the local domestic abuse shelters. Avail yourself of the protection those agencies can provide you.

Much as folks would like to say they are "slaves" and give up their rights (or have none), that is the fantasy your mind built. The fact of the matter is YOU are the only one who can make you forfeit your rights. YOU are the only person who can allow yourself to be victimized.

And next time you are contemplating getting involved with someone, don't be so desparate that you wind up settling for someone who is not going to treat you well and respectfully, or settling for someone who has no grasp of the concept that there really IS a difference between fantasy and reality.

Good luck.

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RE: How do I leave Master - 10/22/2006 6:16:45 PM

makwa

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well glad to hear you have deleted him and blocked him. the reason he is control is you ended it and he wants what he can't have. becareful. now i have a question for you. please tell me you didn't give him your home phone number, address, real and full name. And you didn't tell him about your family or anything like that did you? if so you may want to concider a PO Order or move down the road. People online you honestly don't know sometimes. He could be dangerous. it happens a lot

take more care next time please
its your life

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RE: How do I leave Master - 10/22/2006 6:25:35 PM

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Look, if the guy bothers you, tell him you are going to tell your husband and his wife.

??????,

Wow,
I just am lost here.

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RE: How do I leave Master - 10/22/2006 6:43:28 PM

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yeah well i'm lost as to how this went on for 4 pages??

i hate to say it....

but imagine how much fun it would be to screw with some ones head? :: sigh :: i wanna go around refusing to release slaves. Then!! I'm going to imagine them following all my orders like glueing their penis to a wall and making them sit on a giant dildo realy really fast (anally) Gee! imagine all the imagined torture i could prescribe.......

if its not real.. ::scratches head :: is that fun or is it imagined fun? i think i'm confused now

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