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RE: discipline - 10/18/2006 6:09:29 PM

SlaveAkasha

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I did pick my form of discipline one time, but Master said it was the only time it would be done. I don't think I should get to pick it, though in my mind, it might be worse on me. It would be more picking the lesser of the two evils in my opinion. I know I would probably pick anything over that clothespin zipper thingy.. makes me hurt just thinking about it.

If I do something wrong though, I do deserve to have it corrected. I think though the worst thing for me, would be being ignored or not touched. I have been cut of emotionally before, and that was the worst thing that could happen to me. I think my Master knows this though, and would never do it to me.

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RE: discipline - 10/19/2006 2:18:10 PM

LokisBrat

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I like to ask my Brat what it is that should be done to make sure this lesson was learned. Will I take her idea into consideration? Absolutely not. I do enjoy hearing her little whimpered suggestions, but make my own mind up at what is to be delt down within our negotiated guidelines. My discipline is not to be confused with punishment. One is to make sure manners, respect, and behavior is appropriate, the other is to correct a failure on the previously mentioned.

I like to use the same hand that strokes her beautiful face as if wrapped in silk, to make her ass cheeks on fire with a solid smack, followed by several more. This has a dual meaning. The same hand that can caress you, can also start a burning fire on a bare bottom. The choice is hers. I enjoy either one.

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RE: discipline - 10/19/2006 3:18:18 PM

WickedlyDevine

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I agree, as a parent, I find some of my methods futile, yet some quite consistant. However when they chose their own punishment honestly, they remember and often do not repeat the behavior.

I remember once, as you describe of being so pissed not wanting to deal with it, as a child I came in late from a party. My mother told me to go to my room, she would deal with me tomorrow, later the following day she told me to demise my own punishment. So I waited and waited and waited for her to arrive for my decision, I think that was the worst part, the beating was a relief.

Subs should have some input and definite respectable limits.

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RE: discipline - 10/19/2006 7:43:45 PM

Padriag

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ORIGINAL: sweetnurseBBW

Do you think a sub/slave chooses their discipline and why?

No, because they aren't in charge.

Though I suppose you could argue in a sort of existential way that they choose the consequence that befall them through their actions. For example, she disobeyed. She had a choice, she could have obeyed but didn't, she made a choice. That choice had predictable consequences. So in effect, she chose her fate.

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RE: discipline - 10/20/2006 6:29:20 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHugs
General Patton's comments were, in summary; ..."If they don't look like soldiers, act like soldiers; how can they be expected to fight like soldiers."

Wonderful comment. Mindset is everything - without it, it's just kinky acts.

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RE: discipline - 10/20/2006 7:46:33 AM

Mavis

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i always choose my own punishments. hell, i'm being punished right now. i had a snit, made O/our discussion "unpleasant" and so i've lost the opportunity to converse until i can do it properly. That's a fairly obvious natural consequence. i opted that making my point was more important than anything else in my life at that moment, a pretty damn short-sighted choice, i admit.

What i don't ever do is set the terms of consequences. i once asked about "how long?" and railed that it was unfair for me to not know how long.. well, that's another post entirely. lol. i just know i'll spend way too many hours here filling the void and time that is usually spent either talking to Him or tending my slave stuff. Could be several more days. <shudders> Y/you all might get sick of seeing so much of me.

i do see a big difference this time though.. in the past, i've always gotten daily contact, minus all warm -n-fuzzies, just enough to know i haven't been abandoned or forgotten. But not this time! i'm all grown up now, i can see why He doesn't believe i need that anymore, and my wanting it is no more than expecting Him to jump my hoops over my misbehavior. If i said "You can only leave me without contact for 1 day at a time" i would be dictating terms, and i really didn't sign up to be dictator.

(Please note, new relationships are generally NOt matured to the point of accepting even implied abandonment as a discipline, i'm not suggesting this is a common or generally acceptable way for a new couple to handle things. While i may still be as disobedient as a babe in some ways, O/our trust and security is clearly established. Y/your milage may vary.)

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RE: discipline - 10/20/2006 7:49:12 AM

Mavis

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ORIGINAL: Padriag

Though I suppose you could argue in a sort of existential way that they choose the consequence that befall them through their actions. For example, she disobeyed. She had a choice, she could have obeyed but didn't, she made a choice. That choice had predictable consequences. So in effect, she chose her fate.

erm... Padriag... Sounds awfully familiar...is that You Sir?

(no reply needed, i know it's not, was joke)

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