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ExKat -> RE: How do You call Him out on cheating? (10/27/2008 9:17:41 PM)

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Well, since it happened two years ago, let's hope she figured out how to call him out on it by now.



Hell, they're probably married now.

On a different note....what'd up with all the zombie threads tonight? It's getting too close to Halloween!




DesFIP -> RE: How do You call Him out on cheating? (10/28/2008 7:39:00 PM)

You really think he is suddenly going to tell you the truth. "Yes, I lied before and I'm going to lie again".

What good will come from you accusing him and him defending himself and telling you it's all in your head. You don't trust him, you fear for your health if you are intimate with him, so why would you want to continue?

Joe calls you up and says "Hey Honey, what time are you free Friday?". You could start in with him but wouldn't it be better to say that you have decided this relationship isn't working for you, goodbye and good luck? Take the high road, don't engage in acrimonious arguments. Just say goodbye and move on.

And it may be worthwhile for you to engage in some introspection and see what red flags you deliberately ignored to pick this person instead of someone truly trustworthy. Otherwise the situation is likely to occur again.




MasterTslave -> RE: How do You call Him out on cheating? (10/30/2008 11:49:32 AM)

i'd say i wasn't interested if he couldn't tell the truth.  trust in this world is what it is all about.  if you can't trust someone not to cheat, how can you let them do other things to/with you?




slavewithonour -> RE: How do You call Him out on cheating? (11/1/2008 2:54:27 AM)

may i ask why if a Master as a girl  in a locked collar, does he bring out a another name and trawl the subs/slaves profiles




WiseCracknSadist -> RE: How do You call Him out on cheating? (11/1/2008 6:30:25 PM)

I think you do both. Call him out and walk away. I mean he must have thought you ill prepared to catch him in his schemes so you need to make him understand that you were not as naive as he thought you were. Then you must walk away or you risk turning into the proverbial door mat I hear so much about.




masterforRT -> RE: How do You call Him out on cheating? (11/2/2008 10:27:32 PM)

Give Joey Greco at Cheaters.com a call...




candystripper -> RE: How do You call Him out on cheating? (11/3/2008 5:14:41 AM)

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ORIGINAL: naughtygeisha

i had the unfortunate experience of playing with someone who stated that He did not have others and requested the same from me as We/we were looking at a 24/7 relationship, so to show my committment to the possibility i agreed, Needless to say i found out it was all lies., So herein lies the question , do i call Him out on it or do i just walk away and take it as a lesson in trust and honesty and most importantly to i let others know?Any  advice would be appreciated, Thank You .


I think you should do whatever suits you, and the hell with him.  If you want to bitch him out at the top of your lungs, go for it.
 
Personally I don't have any use whatsoever for a man after he lies or cheats.  I tell him to go the f**k out of my house, if that's where he happens to be when I find out, and I quit taking his calls.  I never bother to explain why.  If he so damned dumb he can't connect the dots, it's not my cross to bear. I have *zero* need to process with him; I just need him *gone*.
 
I am really sorry this happened to you...I think I'd be very hurt if I grown attached to the point where I was willing to explore being in his collar before I found out.
candystripper   [sm=pole.gif]




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