Argentopal
Posts: 379
Joined: 12/12/2005 From: Central Texas / Hill Country Status: offline
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I admit that while I am not new to bdsm, I am new to "switching - topping, Domme" stuff. I thought I found a nice sweet, interesting male sub and we were going it a try. Not live in, but he has spent some weekends at our home, he has agreed to do what I told him ... in more details, but at any rate he "talks a good game" and since I do know he was going thru some job related crap and getting a divorce from his vanilla wife I gave him lots of room, I did not press too hard, I tried to be considerate and move slowly. What did I get? Often my emails or ims were ignored for as long as 2-3 days, then yesterday we were supposed to meet for lunch or an afternoon coffee, depending on his work schedule. I have to drive about an hour and half to see him on a work day (its OK i combine shoppng and errands) But he was suposed to call my cell at 9 am and let me kbnow his schedule for the day so we could make plans. Did I ever get the call? no! I have written him and given him one last chance to meet with me and see if anything can be salvaged, but this is not behavior I will tolerate. Maybe I am missing something, but I just can't see playing into the sub/slave's spoiled behavior. MsOpal
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