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RosaB -> RE: Doormat or Not? (2/1/2005 9:11:43 AM)

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what else is there?
uponmyknees


You're chitting me right?

First off, the topic of discussion is about our feelings about submissives that possesses a doormat mentality. So I won't go into generalities about my personal preferences in this thread. My taste are varied and extensive, but they don't include wanting a man, sub/slave or otherwise that has not a mind of his own.

Rosa




ProtagonistLily -> RE: Doormat or Not? (2/1/2005 9:15:02 AM)

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quote:

what else is there?
uponmyknees

You're chitting me right?

First off, the topic of discussion is about our feelings about submissives that possesses a doormat mentality. So I won't go into generalities about my personal preferences in this thread. My taste are varied and extensive, but they don't include wanting a man, sub/slave or otherwise that has not a mind of his own.

Rosa


I'm with you sister, High Five!!!

Lily




RosaB -> RE: Doormat or Not? (2/1/2005 12:53:36 PM)

High Five! Back at ya Lily. : )

Rosa




natasha66 -> RE: Doormat or Not? (1/9/2007 2:48:33 PM)

NO WAY




LadyIce -> RE: Doormat or Not? (1/9/2007 2:58:14 PM)

I want a doormat, they seem hard to find.  If you know of any in the NYC area, let me know.




MzMia -> RE: Doormat or Not? (1/9/2007 8:10:27 PM)

I am with you on that.  I always hear, "I am no doormat" and "I don't want a doormat".
My question is, "Where the hell are the damn doormats?"  Cause I rarely, and I do mean
rarely meet any.  A doormat would be a step up for me, I could work with him and teach him
to have a little pride.  The way things have gone for me so far, I would take my chances with a
doormat.  If you know of any cute ones, in the MD/DC/VA area, tell them to contact me.
Peace[:D]




LadyHugs -> RE: Doormat or Not? (1/9/2007 9:25:05 PM)

Dear houseslut, Ladies and Gentlemen;

I do enjoy doormats.  Some have 'welcome' and some have pictures that says so much.  Some doormats have names.  Some doormats have artistic works and are indeed a work of art.  Some doormats are rough but they clean one's feet so well; keeping dirt out of your castle or home.  Some doormats are soft and cushion your tired and achey feet.  Most doormats lay humble at your feet, never complaining at their task or no matter how much you walk all over them or who.  Most doormats take a beating and really don't complain but they seemingly are cleaner, brighter and remain humble at one's feet.  Most doormats love your feet--and your shoes and boots too!  Most doormats wear very thin over time of being walked all over so many months, so many years ...or decades.  Some doormats find themselves rolled up into themselves and kept to themselves.  Some begin their journey that way, as do they find their final journey, when they are dismissed or find their way to the trash bin.  Some doormats find themselves useful when long past use; as we see them lay on the snow and or ice, at times mud; as to provide traction to tires and give us a chance to be on our way.  Some doormats lay on snow or ice as to allow their owners or guests some safety from falls or injuries.  Some doormats wrap themselves around trees to keep them from harm.  Some doormats are given to critters to give them comfort when they are moved from door's threshholds to Fido's dog house or some horse's stall and or in trailers when they are hauled.   Doormats come in different sizes and shapes, just like us humans.  Doormats come in different colors, some solid and pure and some mixed, just like humans of today.  Doormats are made for their tasks you know.  Some work hard, some graceful and some are doing more than what was designed.  Some doormats are changed from original intentions to do different things.  Some are given handles and carry a cord of wood.
Some are linked together to provide more coverage.  Doormats do provide a service when all is said and done. 

In my mind's eyes I see; a slave, submissive or servant--I see some wonderful qualities that are shared by doormats.  My slaves, submissives and or servants will learn what qualities of doormats.  However, I wish them to go beyond the lessons of what doormats mean to me and be at my feet and learn what it means to be a slave, a submissive and or servant to me.

Just some thoughts.

Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs




MzMia -> RE: Doormat or Not? (1/9/2007 9:32:51 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHugs
Dear houseslut, Ladies and Gentlemen;

I do enjoy doormats.  Some have 'welcome' and some have pictures that says so much.  Some doormats have names.  Some doormats have artistic works and are indeed a work of art.  Some doormats are rough but they clean one's feet so well; keeping dirt out of your castle or home.  Some doormats are soft and cushion your tired and achey feet.  Most doormats lay humble at your feet, never complaining at their task or no matter how much you walk all over them or who.  Most doormats take a beating and really don't complain but they seemingly are cleaner, brighter and remain humble at one's feet.  Most doormats love your feet--and your shoes and boots too!  Most doormats wear very thin over time of being walked all over so many months, so many years ...or decades.  Some doormats find themselves rolled up into themselves and kept to themselves.  Some begin their journey that way, as do they find their final journey, when they are dismissed or find their way to the trash bin.  Some doormats find themselves useful when long past use; as we see them lay on the snow and or ice, at times mud; as to provide traction to tires and give us a chance to be on our way.  Some doormats lay on snow or ice as to allow their owners or guests some safety from falls or injuries.  Some doormats wrap themselves around trees to keep them from harm.  Some doormats are given to critters to give them comfort when they are moved from door's threshholds to Fido's dog house or some horse's stall and or in trailers when they are hauled.   Doormats come in different sizes and shapes, just like us humans.  Doormats come in different colors, some solid and pure and some mixed, just like humans of today.  Doormats are made for their tasks you know.  Some work hard, some graceful and some are doing more than what was designed.  Some doormats are changed from original intentions to do different things.  Some are given handles and carry a cord of wood.
Some are linked together to provide more coverage.  Doormats do provide a service when all is said and done. 

In my mind's eyes I see; a slave, submissive or servant--I see some wonderful qualities that are shared by doormats.  My slaves, submissives and or servants will learn what qualities of doormats.  However, I wish them to go beyond the lessons of what doormats mean to me and be at my feet and learn what it means to be a slave, a submissive and or servant to me.

Just some thoughts.

Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs


Thank you! Thank you and thank you!
I get tired of Mistresses/Domme's, etc. whining and complaining about

submissives that treat them like dirt, yet they abhor a doormat? WTF?
I think many need a reality check.

Thank you LadyHugs and all you cute doormats? Feel free to email me.
Peace




EnglishPortia -> RE: Doormat or Not? (1/10/2007 10:49:09 AM)

If anyone emails me and says "you can do anything you want" I always suggest cutting both their arms off... they tend to disappear pretty quickly after that...




MistressMelissa -> RE: Doormat or Not? (1/10/2007 2:17:07 PM)

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ORIGINAL: EnglishPortia

If anyone emails me and says "you can do anything you want" I always suggest cutting both their arms off... they tend to disappear pretty quickly after that...


While reading that a slave has no limits makes me shutter, I'm at the point with no shows I'd just be happy to have one show up. I know I'm safe and given time I could teach them that they actually do have limits and to know the difference between reality and what you read in chat rooms. There is a fine line between the "doormat" and a loyal servant/slave but trying to put it in writing might be near impossible. 
 
So to answer the original question, I just want a slave honest enough to actually get out from behind a monitor and show up. You read all these profiles of people claiming to want this and that and then they never get out from behind their monitor and actually take the opportunity offered.
 
It might feel safe behind the monitor but it's not very satisfying.
 




LadyIce -> RE: Doormat or Not? (1/10/2007 3:13:30 PM)

I don't think a doormat means that you have NO limits.
I don't get the connection here.




MzMia -> RE: Doormat or Not? (1/10/2007 7:30:02 PM)

Still looking for some cute local doormats!
[sm=mrpuffy.gif]




BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Doormat or Not? (1/10/2007 9:50:51 PM)

Sometimes I feel like a doormat and sometimes I don't...  So I hope to find one who will be at my leisure, lol.    M




MistressDolly -> RE: Doormat or Not? (1/11/2007 2:22:32 PM)

A like a good mix.  Each have their own pluses.




MistressDolly -> RE: Doormat or Not? (1/11/2007 2:23:48 PM)

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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

Sometimes I feel like a doormat and sometimes I don't...  So I hope to find one who will be at my leisure, lol.    M


I hear Ya. :)




MistressDolly -> RE: Doormat or Not? (1/11/2007 2:30:54 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MzMia

Thank you! Thank you and thank you!
I get tired of Mistresses/Domme's, etc. whining and complaining about

submissives that treat them like dirt, yet they abhor a doormat? WTF?
I think many need a reality check.



These "Mistresses/Dommes"  actually allow themselves to be repeatedly treated like dirt and still call themselves dominant?  That makes no sense.




ToGiveDivine -> RE: Doormat or Not? (1/11/2007 2:36:16 PM)

I guess I just don't understand the whole doormat concept.  If the guy was into you as much as you would deserve, he could serve as a doormat when they whim hit you.

Some of the emails I've gotten and some forum posts makes me think more women want doormats than are willing to admit - or they just do not like men at all.  There are alot of jerks out there, but not every man is.

All these weird terms of being macho or metro-sexual, etc.  I consider myself a gentleman - you can still have the macho aspect, but you are sensitive to feelings and are respectful to others.  If someone has to force me to wear women's clothing for their amusement, then there is something wrong with the relationship.  If the relationship is good, there would be no need to force me to do it - I just would because I'd want to please her (and be very humiliated as well)

I want a Domme to see me as a man no matter what she may have in mind for me.  If I do things because I feel I'm of little worth instead of doing it because I think very highly of her worth, then she ended up with a loser.




BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Doormat or Not? (1/11/2007 2:52:22 PM)

Very well said ToGiveDivine... 
Speaking purely from a female dominant/male submissive perspective, I guess most of us want to be seen as the bad word named lady who will only dominate a man who doesn't give us any grief???   And certainly none of us want to be seen as weaklings who will only dominate someone who submits without resistance??    This is all subjective/relative, but I agree with you that in a proper partnership, a submissive is her doormat when the whim hits her, and otherwise he is whatever he is as a human being and she deems is his role.    So count me among the types who want to be obeyed regardless if his friends say you are being her doormat, because to me, he'll simply be my man/submissive/lover.    M




pixelslave -> RE: Doormat or Not? (1/11/2007 3:09:15 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ToGiveDivine

Some of the emails I've gotten and some forum posts makes me think more women want doormats than are willing to admit - or they just do not like men at all.  There are alot of jerks out there, but not every man is.



Sadly, I often get the same impression as well. [&o]

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I want a Domme to see me as a man no matter what she may have in mind for me.  If I do things because I feel I'm of little worth instead of doing it because I think very highly of her worth, then she ended up with a loser.



Agreed!  I don't understand at all why a Domme would want a man who had no sense of value nor the ability to think on his own.  Is it not submitting a man's will to a woman to do that which he is cabable of determining or doing for himself, a large part of the definition of submission itself?  To my way of thinking, a doormat can not really submit, it was designed to be walked on and have its decisions made for it to begin with!  I don't see what sense of power or control is to be gained from having one that (sic) submits to a Domme. [8|]
 
 - pixel




MzMia -> RE: Doormat or Not? (1/11/2007 3:20:42 PM)

I agree with you M, I want "my" doormat/submissive/slave/lover/partner."  He is not just
a doormat for anyone!  It takes strength to be able to totally surrender.  I don't seek someone
I must "force" or "tame" or anything remotely related.  Give me the sweet, pussycats, and
yes I will also take and love my little doormat.
Like the expression goes, "If momma ain't happy, no one is happy!"  If he makes Mia
happy, Mia will make sure her lil doormat is happy. [:D]




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