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LadyOunce -> RE: Panties (10/30/2006 10:58:00 PM)
I don't see it as humiliating though I do adore a sub in panties. I see it as an expression of himself as well as a pretty framing for his ass and package. I think a lot of it relates to the sub and their turn ons. Sissy boys aren't going to see it as humiliating as a sub that sees it as feminine and completely see themselves as masculine.

ineedotk -> RE: Panties (11/1/2006 10:38:21 PM)
I so agree with you Lashra about a man looking sexy dressed in certain female items. I love it myself.

LadyOunce -> RE: Panties (11/1/2006 11:20:09 PM)
I've had a couple of subs that wore panties for me and in no case was it ever for humilation. I find it a delicious affirmation that can be hidden while serving in one's vanilla life. Princess lacey panties under more mundane clothes and no one has to know.

kittencurious -> RE: Panties (11/1/2006 11:44:13 PM)
panties can make me squirmy

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Panties (11/1/2006 11:50:43 PM)
I personally love my boy in panties. It isnt for humiliation, never has been. He is far more submissive when he is dressed as my baby girl than he is as my little boy, and I prefer the look by far. The only time I have ever used panties as humiliation had more to do with the TYPE of panty than it did the act of wearing them. It was a thong, bright red and made to be worn under loose jeans so that it showed, assuming the long teeshirt on the top was lifted. The mere idea that I could show them off whenever I wanted to kept the boy on edge all night. DV

MistressSassy66 -> RE: Panties (11/2/2006 12:00:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wearingpanties4U How many Dommes here think putting a man in panties is humiliating? How much control would you really gain over the sub? For some of the guys it can be a absolutely humiliating thing and those same guys hate that I give them a girly name. I dont think it's the making them wear panties that gives Me the control. It does perhaps in a way secure the Upperhand if you will with some submissives and its absolutely useless on a cross dressing submissive unless your doing some type of public play like light colored shirt with a dark bra underneath.

pixelslave -> RE: Panties (11/2/2006 9:10:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Morrigel I like putting them on a man who has never worn them before and having them on under his normal working clothes--especially if he wears a business suit. It's fun to pick a pair with a nice distracting feminine texture, silky-satin smooth, to caress him all day long...constantly reminding him that his best parts belong to me. [;)] --M Indeed that is truly the best part of wearing women's panties when in the service of a Mistress. My personal favorites were ones made of lace in the front. The extra sensation they provide against my smoothly shaved equipment always made me feel as though I was constantly being teased and tormented while wearing them in addition to having them be a mental and physical reminder of the woman that I belonged to. On the days that I'd dress my former Mistress in the morning, often she'd have us wear matching panties, which is something that I thought was very special and that added extra meaning to the pair she had me wearing on that particular day.

FavoriteGuy -> RE: Panties (11/3/2006 8:28:41 AM)
It is a multi-faceted thing and often depends on the panties themselves as well as the occasion when they are worn. For example - my wife digs this pair that I have with a waffle back as it leaves little of my backside to the imagination. In this situation its just a case of men's undies being in general less creative whereas some women's undies being a little more "wild & crazy". So there are no real femine overtones when wearing this style, just a case of women having the sexy options here. On the other hand, put me in a pair of lacy panties with little pink duckies on them or something - and you can bet that would be a humilating experience as they set an entirely different tone. Likewise, toss me in a thong under my running shorts and let me hit the streets and it will certainly be a humiliating experience as I figure that everyone will be acutely aware of what I am wearing (although 99% of that will probably just be in my mind) So I figure that like so many sexual experiences, it boils down to the details to really define what the experience is all about.

iwearpanties -> RE: Panties (11/4/2006 4:25:11 AM)
makes you wonder why panty wearing for all males isnt enforced too control them

MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: Panties (11/4/2006 4:40:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: iwearpanties makes you wonder why panty wearing for all males isnt enforced too control them Because, fortunately, all men are unique and don't fit into the same mold; besides, not all women find men in panties attractive.

BossySSBBW -> RE: Panties (11/4/2006 7:51:05 AM)
I have found that the sub/slaves that contact me seem to bring up the panty wearing first. According to them, they feel it is humiliating, or just plain feels good. I do tell them if they shave their pubic area completely smooth that the feeling will intensify.

iwearpanties -> RE: Panties (11/4/2006 3:37:37 PM)
Miss Bossy your so rite it dose tease you more when your shaved and in panties the silky fabrics against smooth skin is a feeling that so intence for this submissive .... may i ask you all how many of you have ever pantied a sub for the frist time in his/her life?

kirkzhom -> RE: Panties (11/5/2006 6:18:54 PM)
I agree totally that it is about context. First of all they make male underwear that is of the same material as almost all of the "barely there" and similar lines - though they are oddly more expensive ... must be making up for that drying cleaning disparity ... anyway, for me, it is in the potential for disclosure that humiliation or the titilating fear thereof arises, as someone else suggested about the thong or the dark bra and the light shirt. It is taking the shy submissive female out in public in the rain in a tight tee-shirt with no bra. The Dom/me has the umbrella, I would think she is constantly on edge. Send a male sub out with simply a sports bra on under a lighter colored shirt in the same circumstances. I would be screaming inside. So I guess, in my continuing rambling non-sensical way, I am suggesting that the humiliation comes from the actual or implied threat of public disclosure, not because I like silky underthings ... assuming I did of course.

LadyKmtl -> RE: Panties (11/5/2006 8:09:18 PM)
I once got a really manly, muscley, hairy, homophobic sub to put on his first pair of panties...sigh the look of shame in his eyes...I still swoon when I think about that moment...[:D]

iwearpanties -> RE: Panties (11/9/2006 3:48:19 PM)
i can under stand how he felt .. i was made too bya Mistress too show a Male Dom friend of her i was her panty wearing male subby of coures i had on more then panties per her wanting me too but too have too show anther male that was humiliateing

Sissypinky -> RE: Panties (11/9/2006 5:08:34 PM)
Panties never make me feel humiliated. I have felt like a Woman in a Mans body ever since I can remember and my first Mistress decided to help me explore this and took me shopping for panties. I was real excited about this opportunity. When we got home I shaved my legs saying my leg hair was ruining my Nylons and have been in panties ever since. I even shop by myself now. At my usual store the middle-aged lady who was runs the department helps me find sizes and also advises me on future sales. One day she even offered me a Panty Club card! I love wearing panties! No one at work would ever guess (I work as a real estate agent).

AAkasha -> RE: Panties (11/10/2006 4:27:19 PM)
I love putting a man in panties when it truly is embarassing, humiliating and uncomfortable for him. I get off on seeing him squirm. I love making him suffer through that all throughout the day, or in the presence of other women so he is even more self conscious. But if he's just into wearing panties all the time, or steals panties, or buys them on his own, I'm not that interested. Akasha

sissifytoserve -> RE: Panties (11/10/2006 4:35:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha But if he's just into wearing panties all the time, or steals panties, or buys them on his own, I'm not that interested. Akasha Sounds ike the majority of women. ah well...such is life.

AAkasha -> RE: Panties (11/10/2006 4:59:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sissifytoserve quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha But if he's just into wearing panties all the time, or steals panties, or buys them on his own, I'm not that interested. Akasha Sounds ike the majority of women. ah well...such is life. Ever consider trying to compromise a little or accommodate the needs/desires of the femdoms rather than cry like a baby all the time that you are single? You are the poster child for the oppressed "sissy" and seem to champion the notion that being a sissy means impersonating a woman on a bad period all the time. Get over it! Akasha

sissifytoserve -> RE: Panties (11/10/2006 5:03:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha Ever consider trying to compromise a little or accommodate the needs/desires of the femdoms rather than cry like a baby all the time that you are single? You are the poster child for the oppressed "sissy" and seem to champion the notion that being a sissy means impersonating a woman on a bad period all the time. Get over it! Akasha Oh what a buch of CRAP. I have done nothing BUT compromised in my relationships when it comes to my crossdressing self....and I'm sure I am not alone. Mabye YOU should compromise....OH wait....YOu have a much greater pool to choose from than I do....so sorry...you don't have to. No....All I ever hear from "Dominants" on this site is the LIE that crossdressers don't compromise, are only interested in their appearance, ..or my favorite "aren't true subs." Care to perpetrate more falsehoods? No...I WON'T get over it.

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