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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 10/30/2006 7:19:33 PM

LadyJulieAnn

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I was fascinated with bondage and seeing people helpless from around age 7. I used to tie up my dolls and started writing stories involving kidnapping at age 10. I went a LONG time before I accepted my fantasies and incorporated them into my relationships, but life was good when I finally did.

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I did this with my Barbie dolls. That Barbie had all the others waiting on her hand and foot, tying them up, beating them, bossing them around, it was great.

I had one of those big Barbie heads that you could dress up in make-up and do her hair. I used to gag her.

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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 10/30/2006 7:28:42 PM

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Not really sure if this a fantasy? I used to tie Barbie to a stick stuck into the ground. Action Man used to drive along in his Jeep, cut the rope, stick her in the Jeep and drive her to the saftey of the bottom of the garden. When he got her there all nice and safe, he used to strip her off and force sex on her! Naughty Action Man.

(Did I just say that 'he' did these things? Daz, 'he' is an innaminate toy that YOU controlled!)

((Am I pyschoanylysing myself on a BDSM forum???)))

Arrrggghhh! Where are my tablets? lol

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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 10/31/2006 11:45:24 AM

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i find it interesting that others mention being able to write sexual stories at a young age, and before ever having sex personally. i also wrote erotica before ever having sex.

i am curious how many people were having BDSM fantasies before puberty. In my way of thinking puberty brings sexuality to the forefront of our lives. But for me (and i suspect a significant number of others) fantasies occured years before puberty,

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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 10/31/2006 11:57:35 AM

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At 5 I used to tie the girls up while playing doctor ,at 6 my 12 year old babysitter used to come by to play docter when she wasnt siting me.That was great cause she had all the OPTIONS!!

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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 10/31/2006 11:58:51 AM

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i had sexual fantasies way before puberty, starting about age five with a "game" some boys played with me at school, they were mad scientist who would change me into things, or make me behave in a certain way, i had to do what i was told at all times. i remember enjoying this and fantasising about it afterwards, about the sort of this they would make me do...
these fantasies got more and more sexual into my early teens
almost always involved beng restrained and having to obey
quite often became rape fantasies
no, i've never been abused
*shrug* i discovered masturbation early too

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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 10/31/2006 12:02:26 PM

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ORIGINAL: MasterNdorei

i find it interesting that others mention being able to write sexual stories at a young age, and before ever having sex personally. i also wrote erotica before ever having sex.

i am curious how many people were having BDSM fantasies before puberty. In my way of thinking puberty brings sexuality to the forefront of our lives. But for me (and i suspect a significant number of others) fantasies occured years before puberty,

Thanks to everyone who has responded~*
Master's dorei

Mine go back as far as age five or six. i had an imaginary one in my head telling me what to do, and i craved to be punished, and i loved to obey the one within. i did self bondage, etc, and liked to hump on things to get that feeling that would creep over me satisfied. Didn't understand it, and at the time never questoined it, just went with it, and to this day i always have. We used to play a game in the hood called free the slaves, i was always being held hostage along with a few other girls, up in the local tree fort. The boys used to love to tie up the girls. i often wonder about how many of the kids i grew up with playing those games, have discovered within themselves, and have found this way of life to be their way also.

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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 10/31/2006 1:40:16 PM

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I've had bondage fantisies that were from 1st grade or earlier, centered around Superboy comic books, Astro boy animation and the Prometheus legend. The Superboy fantasies I saw in panel form (just like a comic book). They involved Superboy being captured by Lex Luther and tied to a spanking machine w/ kryptonite paddles. Really.

To the best of my knowledge I have never been molested.

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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 11/1/2006 1:19:07 AM

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I have had fantasies about being restrained and helpless since, literally, as far back as I can remember. WELL before puberty, for certain. If I had to put an age on it, I'd say six years old, but I'm not positive, as, at the time, it wasn't anything remarkable to me. You know how kids are able to just accept things..."suspend disbelief"...so it wasn't worth noting at the time.

In any event, my fantasies were often of the Indian Maiden/Damsel in Distress sort, with me tied to a post and tortured. I also used to so enjoy feeling tightly bound that I would roll myself up in my bedsheets as tightly as I could, which sometimes ended with my mom having to come in and unravel me...she never did understand how I got so tightly wrapped "in my sleep."

I also used to practice self-genital torture, using hot water or hot rocks...man, I was an f'd up kid! I also discovered masturbation very early on...surprise, surprise. The thing that really gets me, though, is that I never connected any of the bondage/pain stuff to my sexuality until I was 16, and even then only through a couple of fortuitous coincidences. And it's been 15 long years I've lived without any regular outlet for these desires...I'm so glad to have finally found my beloved!

As far as the origins of all this...I don't recall ever having been abused. The only thing I do remember is experiencing pain in my genital region as a result of some procedure a doctor performed on me when I had a bladder infection as a very young child.

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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 11/1/2006 3:07:09 AM

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greetings

mines are strange for sure i had a doll house my father was a nightmare i thought of making him small and tying him up or eating him i beat him up and that strange i know but tis what i thougth i have doll house now these are the ones that are bulid by aritants and they run up to a $1000 dollars and some of the picece are as much as 100 dollars or more . but one thing i do not have in my collections i ihave two house is people i will not put people in them. i do have in one of my house an old woman who watches the three minature babies.

these houses are a joy to me they are a hobbie i love the nest thing i will do is paint, and wall paper and add electria lights with one more house i will get fun but i wonder is anyone a therispt here and tellme why i do not put people in these house?

thanks for the good post

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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 11/1/2006 3:51:55 AM

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i had a fantasy when a smal child that my mother would remarry. Her new husband would have a dying daugther that was both mean and spoiled. i was forced to give up all my good toys to her and go live in the basement. i would also be forced to serve her, bring her stuff and always play what she wanted. And she would reive all the toys and stuff i had always wished for by her rich father, but i got nothing, and i felt i had to do what she said becouse she was dying and i had to make her last years comfortable.

Another fantasy i had, witch i often played out whit my dolls was that a princess from another planet would end up on Earth, and she ended up in my care. Now if she was not treated perfectly, her pepole might punish Earth, so i had to be handmaiden to this cruel, spoiled royal child.

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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 11/1/2006 7:46:54 AM

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Some folks are talking about how their play reflected fantasies so I thought I'd add mine.

In grade school the group I hung out with had two scenarios: superheroes and spaceship.

In the super heroes scenario I was either Wonder Woman and was tying up others or I was Jungle Jane who rescued folks who were tied up. Note both were pretty much loners overall.

In the spaceship scenario I was either the chief security officer (got to lock folks up) or the chief medical officer which I prefered because if the captain didn't do what I thought was best, I declared him ill and confined him to sick bay.

As I got older in my writing and play I took on the chief roles in the group. I think I didn't do that earlier because I didn't have role models of women in control of entire groups so I found other roles where I didn't have to answer to others much and could exercise control.

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