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RE: Master in Pain - 11/19/2006 9:17:15 PM

raiken

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ORIGINAL: babysburnin

Littleone, I'm sorry He is in pain, but it won't kill Him :) It's not pleasant to see someone you care about in pain. Don't wish the pain upon yourself ... being a marter is not what it once was ... I'm sure He was prescribed some effective pain medication. We all know many men are a bit wimpy when sick ... (Let him milk the situation and play nurse to him ;) )

Being a martyr is certainly not as popular. i wouldn't have wanted anyone to take my pain for me caused by injury after an auto accident. i needed to find the courage, endurance and stamina to handle it myself, so that i would find strength to move past it, and master myself in that area. i found out what i was made of during that time of rehabilitation. i believe that without ever having to deal with, and experience pain, in that context, (clarity for i am a masochist) i would not have the same inner strength, and empathy to help teach and guide those in my charge through those same areas of life. i would not want anyone elses pain, for my own pain is sufficient for me, but i would be there for them while they were going through it. Something happened to me while dealing with intense physical pain. i gained more control over my emotions, my thoughts, and my body. Now, the painful sensations that felt so big and unmanageable before my accident, are child's play now. Different and more powerful filters were developed in me, because of that intense experience. Just a thought.

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RE: Master in Pain - 11/22/2006 2:59:02 AM

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ORIGINAL: littleone35

My Master recently had a tooth extracted and there was an infection and his mouth is very sore and he has some swelling. I hate seeing him in pain and even though i hate pain i would take this pain from him if i could.

Do any other subs/slaves wish they could take any pain their Dom/mes has as ther own to take it off them?

Matt's littleone

For sure i would take his pain if i could. I deeply care for Master.

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RE: Master in Pain - 5/8/2007 6:47:03 AM

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as for pain .well i wouldnt want to take the pain*it is a learning lesson for each of us to handle pain *toothacks *WOW* there the worst..i have to admit i feel sorry for them ,try poisoning them with medicine..but my doctor says im the worst person to have around when ill..i feel sorry for myself when haveing a toothack..but i wouldnt want to share it ..id rather give it away lol..just like colds ..

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RE: Master in Pain - 5/8/2007 6:57:46 AM

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Nope. I could see myself caring for him, bringing ice packs and scotch (or whatever it is you do to ease the discomfort). But I don't want his pain.

LOL---I love your honesty.

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RE: Master in Pain - 5/8/2007 7:03:00 AM

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Nope.

Master is a sadist. When his pain is great enough, he will share it with me without me having to wish for it.

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RE: Master in Pain - 5/8/2007 1:04:50 PM

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Dental pain? Hell no. Went through that myself last year and I wouldn't take it on for anyone. I'll fetch and carry and grit my teeth when they snipe at me but I have limits and that's one.

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RE: Master in Pain - 5/8/2007 1:06:14 PM

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I think that if I was ever in a situation where my Dom was unhappy or in pain and I could not fix it, I would wish to take it on so he would not feel so badly.

As a suggestion about mouth surgery care, I would advise him to take about 400-600 mg of Ibuprofen and gargle three times a day with warm salt water. It worked like a charm when I had some oral surgery done last year.

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RE: Master in Pain - 5/8/2007 11:10:30 PM

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I was cursed with the gift of empathy so to speak. Often, I can feel when He is in pain. We hold a very intimate, close relationship he and I. We learn to read each other like open books, perhaps him more than I.. I am more along the lines of thinking that any two people with such a great companionship as those in D/s lifestyles hold would want to take pain away from the person they hold close. Master/slave, Dom/sub, Top/bottom, BF/GF, Best Buddies, siblings... you name it, when you're bound by companionship in some fashion you hate to see the other suffer unneccessarily.

Master and I are going through a hard time right now, and seeing his mental anguish is enough to send my stomach convoluting into intricate knots! If ONLY there were something I could do to take away some of his suffering! Alas, this is wishful thinking.

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