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What made Him/Her the One? - 11/2/2006 7:00:12 PM   
PiercedDaz


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Status: offline 		When was the very first moment that you realised that They were the One? Did They do something, say something, look at you in a certain way?

What magic took place?

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/2/2006 8:35:41 PM   
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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/2/2006 8:42:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		 How i knew my Ryan was the one is when we watched a romantic movie after three months of knowing each other and it was a sad movie. We cried and held each other in each others arms. i knew at that moment that he is the one i am going to spend the rest of my life with him.

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/2/2006 8:47:23 PM   
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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/2/2006 8:53:25 PM   
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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/2/2006 8:56:23 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: PiercedDaz

When was the very first moment that you realised that They were the One? Did They do something, say something, look at you in a certain way?

What magic took place?


my mother realized he was the one before our first date. She heard me on the phone with him before we met and the way my laughter sounded and she said she had never heard me laugh like that... She said that he was going to end up being important to me before we even made plans to meet and I was still talking with others.

I realized it when I sat across from him for the first time and looked into his eyes. I literally broke out into a sweat and had to go to the bathroom to freshen up... Those darn Scorpian men and their hypnotic gazes.

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/2/2006 9:11:58 PM   
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At the beginning, we had a conversation...

I told Him... that I wish I could allow myself to be submissive and let go just once in my life, but I was too strong to be a weak woman like that.  He quickly brought my face to look at His and He said, "some of the strongest and most beautiful women I know are submissive."  At that moment, I knew He meant what He said and that there was no belittling or taunting to it.  I never felt that with anyone before.  I knew He could be trusted with every single part of me.

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/2/2006 9:23:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: PiercedDaz

When was the very first moment that you realised that They were the One? Did They do something, say something, look at you in a certain way?

What magic took place?

Angel has told me this, and I enjoy hearing it every time.
The moment he knew he was mine and I was his One was after our first meeting. We had split, becasue he was trying ti find himself and he wasnt sure the lifestyle was for him. I gave him his space, we had decided to stay friends regardless of the outcome of his decision. I hadnt spoken to him for several days after I arrived back home to make sure I didnt influence his decision making.
I got a IM from him nearly 2 weeks after my visit. He asked me to call when I had the time to do so, he wanted to talk to me. What he wanted was to know if I would take him back. He had not been able to get me off his mind, even though he wasnt sure what he wanted.  He was thankful I hadnt called, ut now that he made up hismind and he knew he wanted to be mine, he wanted nothing more than to hear my voice.  He told me he wa scared, of how he felt when he was with me and how attaced he had become so quickly.  He also said that there was one thing scarier, he was afraid I wouldnt want him back.
We have been together since that day.  He recieved his collar on September 13 and I am moving (cross fingers and knock on wood) in January. I knew he was my one from our first meeting, but becaue I respected him, I was willing to give him teh time and space to make sure that he realy and truly did want the life we were setting out on, and not just falling victim to th eexctiement of the moment.  AS I am fond of saying. If you love something, let it go and when it comes back to you, you know it was meant to be.

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/3/2006 1:21:48 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: PiercedDaz

When was the very first moment that you realised that They were the One? Did They do something, say something, look at you in a certain way?

What magic took place?

At first, it was just certain things he said; after we met, it was the look on his face along with certain things he said and did.

The first moment I absolutly knew though was the first day we met; as soon as we said hello.

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/3/2006 4:46:31 AM   
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Status: offline 		I didn't know at first, at least not in a way I would admit to myself.  We had what can only be described as a whirlwind romance - the Air Forceand hurricane Katrina brough him to me and he proposed a week after we met, hours before his plane departed to halfway across the country.  We married a month later.

What it came down to for me was the fact that how I feel for him wasn't something that was scary or overwhelming.  I didn't doubt myself, or him.  It's a sort of simple truth that is very profound for me.  Suffice to say I just knew. 

Or maybe it's because the sex is amazing. 


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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/3/2006 5:53:14 AM   
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Status: offline 		When I realized that I couldn't imagine my life without him in it. Maybe that sounds sappy but that is how I feel. People always post posts about the "one" but I think some have too high expectations and unrealistic ones sometimes. I spent two years looking for my current Master. I plan on keeping him a long time.

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/3/2006 6:46:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		We were talking on our first meting and the Stabucks was noisy, i leaned toward him to say something he turned his head and our lips met and i just knew. 

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/3/2006 8:07:05 AM   
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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

my mother realized he was the one before our first date. She heard me on the phone with him before we met and the way my laughter sounded and she said she had never heard me laugh like that... She said that he was going to end up being important to me before we even made plans to meet and I was still talking with others.



Aren't Moms good at that. I am not even in close to he is the "one" stage and my Mom just from phone conversations without me even telling her that I am seeing someone knew I was and that I like him more then normal.

My the one moment was realizing I was no longer thinking about what to do but just reacting with him and all my thoughts had we in them and not me while thinking of him.


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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/3/2006 8:40:00 AM   
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I quit looking for Mr. Right and am now on a quest for "Mr Somewhat Adequate"...

I dont know if there is a "ONE" for me but thats ok..my life still has purpose and meaning.

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/3/2006 9:02:11 AM   
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When I first layed my eyes upon her for the first time, I had no idea that she would be the one. What I did know from seeing her in person for the first time, and knowing her from speaking to her prior, in my heart I wanted so badly for her to be the one. Now being with her and being loved and cherished by her I know definitively without question that she is the one. She is the one because I wake up each morning not knowing how I could ever wake up without her by my side. I go to work each day knowing that although she is not with me she is always close to me in my heart and in my mind. I go to sleep each night hoping that if this is all a dream I may never awaken. I love her for so much more than the lifestyle, I love her for her beauty and grace that makes her an angel in not only my eyes though all those that lay their eyes upon her. I could live a thousand lifetimes and never be as blessed as this one when God truly has sent me an absolute Angel to love , cherish, serve and give every ounce of my love to for eternity. Aside from all of that, she is my biggest fan, as I am her's. Life is not always full of absolute happiness, though in my heart with her by my side I know she will light even my darkest day. I know I only need to call out her name and she will be their to love and protect me. This is reason enough for me to truly know..............that she is the ONE !

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/3/2006 9:40:07 AM   
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jason fell into step behind me, guarding and protecting me, without me saying a word.
moe came to visit despite her fear and the fact I'd screwed up.

With each, there was a spiritual connection.

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/3/2006 12:03:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		It has been coming on so gradually, that I hardly know when it began. But I believe I must date it from my first seeing his beautiful grounds at Pemberley.

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/3/2006 12:26:25 PM   
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I love you - marry me!  lol

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/3/2006 12:38:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		I was getting mayo from the fridge while we were on the phone... he told me something witty in our standard dynamic which is totally unique.... and I just remember laughing and thinking "God I love him!" and I was startled at that... LOVE.... Our on again off again relationship has lasted over 8 years and I can never get him off my mind 100%. If anyone is "the one" its probably him.

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RE: What made Him/Her the One? - 11/3/2006 12:53:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		We where best friends before we where M/s, however;the first time he wrapped his arms around me I knew I was where I belonged.

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