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RE: Race important? - 11/5/2006 1:50:45 AM   
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ORIGINAL: texancutie

I am open minded....but find myself attracted to Caucasian men for some odd reason.  That does not mean that I didn't find a young Denzel Washington hot as hell.  I am Chippewa/Ojibwe and a tribal member.  My dad was Ukrainian and my native side of my family could not stand him.  But then again the white side of my family could not deal with the fact that I am half Native.  But being mixed...that is how it goes sometimes.  Funny because I now am able to pass for being white.  Not to mention I now live in Houston and Hispanic people sometimes do come up to me and try to talk to me in Spanish.  Back in the 60s and 70s I had a hard time passing though, due to the neighborhood I was raised in.  I hated all the war whoops and things like that of course.  When I got to be a teen I got lighter as far as skin color and started looking a bit more like my dad's side of the family....so I went with it and passed.  Was just easier at that time.  There were no other Natives anywhere near me.  I try to keep an open mind, but for some strange reason....I go for the white guys.  My uncle who is full blood goes for blondes...lol.

For all the diverse ethnic ancestry, the second half of your nic says it all.
 
"White guy" here, btw....  
 
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RE: Race important? - 11/5/2006 1:54:20 AM   
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It's pretty obvious that you are totally smokin' as far as the human race goes~ and from my home town also!

I am a midwestern french english cajun mutt who finds herself again and again with nice New York Jewish Doms.  I am not generally physically attracted to men outside my race, although I find women of non white and mixed races especially beautiful and interesting.

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RE: Race important? - 11/5/2006 2:21:25 AM   
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RE: Race important? - 11/5/2006 2:45:33 AM   
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i find white males to my taste the skin the eyes there just paleness agaisnt my skin is excting beyond beleif to me i like blue eyes very dark eye and grey which is rare i adore i am a black woman so yes white is my taste in a submissive
 
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RE: Race important? - 11/5/2006 3:16:00 AM   
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Status: offline 		Hello Mons im a very pale blue eyes brn haired wht boy for you

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RE: Race important? - 11/5/2006 6:45:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		I know that this will get me blasted by some people, but race does matter to me.
It's not a superiority / inferiority thing, but for reasons that I can't explain, I'ts just simple aesthetics.
I'm caucasion ... I like caucasion women.
Having said that, there are some sexy eurasion women out there.

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RE: Race important? - 11/5/2006 8:00:44 AM   
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i agree with you;  its obvious culture and conditioning and sometimes just bad experiences;vs good ones;but as a slave i can see the total sexiness of any one individual ;all tho i start out with preferences of my own ;it's up ,to my top ;diva ;goddess  ;and who ever she deems worth respecting or who her family is ;ect ;....same ,as vanilla cremes i guess

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RE: Race important? - 11/5/2006 9:51:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		Thank you, GabrielleSalome!!    Go KC..lol.

I am going to add a few things:

Looking back on all the men I was involved with, if I had stayed within my race, I would have missed out on so many wonderful men and experiences.

While I am proud to be me, I am not really proud to be black....Yes, I was born blessed with this rockin' chocolate color but it does not make me.

Plus, if I shake my family tree some white folk and some Native Americans would fall out so the whole race thing is kinda pointless anyway.

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RE: Race important? - 11/5/2006 1:27:09 PM   
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Are you selective with regards to race? 
nope, my first boyfriend was hispanic(i'm black), and my daddy is white. i look at what attracts me phsycially and personality wise regardless as race.
Are you only interested in certain races?
nope
What about mixed race?
if i find the person attractive, feel like we can actually go somewhere as a couple, and they feel so to why not?
Or does it just depend upon the situation?
not really.

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RE: Race important? - 11/5/2006 4:42:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Morrigel

An an anthropologist I have some serious issues with the use of the word "race" being applied to human beings.

The person who summed it up the most accurately was the one who said:  "I'm only attracted to the human race."

My mileage varies on individuals.

--M


Okay, that's fair enough. Would the term "Breed" of people be more perfered? I'm sure we can get something going to make Breed the politicaly correct term over race.

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RE: Race important? - 11/6/2006 11:01:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		Dear Leakylee,
 
Pasty Irish pale mess?!! I happen to be a majority mix of Gael and a little Cymru, (Irish and Welsh) which actually renders me dark of hair, eyes and complexion (perhaps a neolithic native breed). We call it 'Dark Irish' here as its more predominant in the south and west of the Ireland. Just a little info on the dynamics of 'Irish' appearance. We don't all look the same! lol. Respectfully,
a.


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RE: Race important? - 11/6/2006 11:06:14 AM   
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Status: offline 		See, originally all elves were the same, but then the Darkening took place, and a cohort of elves fled underground, there to further their nefarious purposes.  Now the world of elves is divided into the gay silver elves and the brooding dark elves.  The next time you meet an elf, it's important to know which kind you're dealing with.

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RE: Race important? - 11/6/2006 11:08:31 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

See, originally all elves were the same, but then the Darkening took place, and a cohort of elves fled underground, there to further their nefarious purposes.  Now the world of elves is divided into the gay silver elves and the brooding dark elves.  The next time you meet an elf, it's important to know which kind you're dealing with.


Are you confusing elves with leprechauns?

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RE: Race important? - 11/6/2006 11:15:57 AM   
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RE: Race important? - 11/6/2006 11:19:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		No, he is referring to the elvish that are based in Norse Mythology ---

Albion (to you english was the king of the white Elves)
I forget the name of the king of the Black Elves in SvartAlfHeim...........

Before this gets out of hand----
Black elves were phonecian and middle easterners--

Real African people were referred to as Blaumen (Blue People, in regards to the deep purple tan that those of darkest skin can show) and had nothing to do with elvish sagas--------------

Wasn't about racism, it was about explaining the difference in general people before the days of Caucasiod, Mongliod and Negroid.......

Ho!!!! Look!!!! There goes Elvish!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Hey, Little King, right here......


LOL
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RE: Race important? - 11/6/2006 11:20:36 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster
No, there are no evil leprechauns.


You only say that because you never had the experience of picking me up for a date and meeting my father!!!

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RE: Race important? - 11/6/2006 11:28:07 AM   
Lordandmaster


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

I forget the name of the king of the Black Elves in SvartAlfHeim...........

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RE: Race important? - 11/6/2006 11:40:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		Man, how do you remember this off the top of your head........

Mine is packed with so much trivial shit, I have ceased to deal in the realm of intelligent discourse aeons ago...........

You do amaze me, Lam.

Ron

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RE: Race important? - 11/6/2006 12:18:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		The really horrid part of this is what had previously been only a mild inclination turned into a out and out preference that i have to catch myself following.

Since i was young (5+) i was drawn to either vary raced neighbors or children.  Had nothing to do with home training or influence from parents or friends since mum's side of the family is as mixed as dad's.  It was just an inclination. 

However my first husband and lover was a black man and needless to say, 10 years, some seriously heinous treatment and one pending divorce later, i find myself with an open distaste for the thought of getting involved with another one.  Which i know mentally is unfair but something i have to catch myself on.

Friendship, yes.  Romance, not so much.  Other races hold a neutral status for me.  Though i know because of what i went through in my marriage, a  Black Dom would find a seriously rebellious and flippant pet on His hands.  A Domme, not so much and frankly, that isn't fair to anyone until i work this out in my own heart and head.

^_^;;

At least i'm honest.


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RE: Race important? - 11/6/2006 12:34:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail


Wasn't about racism, it was about explaining the difference in general people before the days of Caucasiod, Mongliod and Negroid.......
Ron


You come down here to the hood and try calling me a caucasiod.

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