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NightWindWhisper -> RE: What's your favorite punishment? (11/5/2006 8:18:01 PM)
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Punishment, in my opinion ought not to exist within a relationship, or even within a family. Disappointment alone ought to be enough, were one to caue hurt to another. There is the baggage theory. In any relationship, be it d/s or vanilla; be it between master and slave, dom and sub, or mother and child--punishment is negativity. It is baggage. According to the theory this baggage piles up infinitely and quickly, but it is removed ever so slowly. Pile enough and the relationship breaks and ends, or worse, becomes oppressive.<br><br> If "punishment" is a desirable, and erotic, or even cathartic part of the contractual agreement between two people, then good--as long as negative restimulation does not occur. If the dominant knows her stuff, the "punishment" can be cathartic to both parties, in a positive way. You can tell if this sort of "punisment" or "discipline" works. The sub/bottom might say "wow, you were harsh!" But when asked: "did you get off on it?" The answer, even though bahsfully given ought to be affirmative. <br><br> What is my favorite? It would be that which gets my partner off, for therein lies the root of my pleasure. Krzykay puts it nicely... "Very tight bondage...very tight....and bring the slave close to the point of cumming...as the slave goes into the poit of no return...apply pain to the nipples...works everytime." I might disagree withe every time, but I suspect that her partner or "victim" goes through the "pain mixed with pleasure," mentioned by ExtremeOwnerIl, and I'll bet that both of these people are able to sense that delicate balance between "more....no....yes....no, please, no,...yes. Tsk, tsk--that's nasty you two, keep that up and you'll create a budding painslut. Ok, <br> doesn't work...how does one insert page breaks for post structure? And btw why can't I write in word and copy it to here? (Firefox?)
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