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What's your favorite punishment? - 11/4/2006 7:00:10 AM

MrrPete

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I don't think it necessary to repeat this in the Ask a Mistress forum.

So Master or Mistress jion in with your favs please indicate the gender
of the submissive on the receiving end.

Personally I don't have a favorite because I design a punishment
unique to that submissive woman.

I don't think, for example, corporal punishment on a pain slut is rather
ineffective. Especially if they're topping from the bottom.

I'd rather have them do something they don't like to do. This is where
the "dislikes" list helps.

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RE: What's your favorite punishment? - 11/4/2006 7:11:28 AM

DianeB269

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Make my sub wear a spiked leather jock strap (spikes on the inside) while I use a HUGE strapon on him.

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RE: What's your favorite punishment? - 11/4/2006 7:18:01 AM

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Almost forgot

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RE: What's your favorite punishment? - 11/4/2006 7:59:03 AM

juliaoceania

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I think the best punishment is the one that never has to be given. I can imagine there are many dominant type people that do not enjoy giving out punishments, at least that is the type of dynamic I inhabit.

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RE: What's your favorite punishment? - 11/4/2006 8:01:17 AM

Kalira

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MrrPete

I don't think it necessary to repeat this in the Ask a Mistress forum.

So Master or Mistress jion in with your favs please indicate the gender
of the submissive on the receiving end.

Personally I don't have a favorite because I design a punishment
unique to that submissive woman.

I don't think, for example, corporal punishment on a pain slut is rather
ineffective. Especially if they're topping from the bottom.

I'd rather have them do something they don't like to do. This is where
the "dislikes" list helps.

Master does not enjoy administering punishment in any regard; however, when asked, he is quick to point out that when it IS needed, he uses a belt.

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RE: What's your favorite punishment? - 11/4/2006 8:02:14 AM

ExtremeOwnerIL

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MrrPete
So Master or Mistress jion in with your favs please indicate the gender
of the submissive on the receiving end.

Personally I don't have a favorite because I design a punishment
unique to that submissive woman.

If we're speaking of "punishments" as the corrective discipline, then I fit the punishment to what will make an effective deterrent/reminder/correction for the situation.

If we're speaking of purely S/m activities for enjoyment, then as long as I can let the energy flow the way I want it to, I don't have a specific one thing I fetishize on as punishment - I like to think of myself as an equal opportunity sadist. I prefer sexual sadism or genital sadism above others, but that still leaves me a wide area for choices.

Regards,
EO

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RE: What's your favorite punishment? - 11/4/2006 9:57:49 AM

MagiksSlave

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ExtremeOwnerIL

quote:

ORIGINAL: MrrPete
So Master or Mistress jion in with your favs please indicate the gender
of the submissive on the receiving end.

Personally I don't have a favorite because I design a punishment
unique to that submissive woman.

If we're speaking of "punishments" as the corrective discipline, then I fit the punishment to what will make an effective deterrent/reminder/correction for the situation.

If we're speaking of purely S/m activities for enjoyment, then as long as I can let the energy flow the way I want it to, I don't have a specific one thing I fetishize on as punishment - I like to think of myself as an equal opportunity sadist. I prefer sexual sadism or genital sadism above others, but that still leaves me a wide area for choices.

Regards,
EO

OK Im rather afraid to ask but sexual sadism?? genital sadism?? Im not fumiliar with these terms... I want to know but at the same time I dont think I really want to know... LOL this is why Master says my curiasity is my own worst enamy.

Magik's curiously afraid slave

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RE: What's your favorite punishment? - 11/4/2006 12:24:58 PM

MasterFireMaam

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I don't have a favorite punishment. Punishing someone is not a pleasant experience for me. Unless you are asking about a "punishment scene" in which case the "bad slave" is being punished for some imaginary infraction. In that case, a belt or a cane.

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RE: What's your favorite punishment? - 11/4/2006 1:16:23 PM

slavejali

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If there is a need for punishment, Master says that just means that I am failing in my role within the relationship, this isn't an enjoyable moment for either of us.

I rarely get "punished". If I do its usually something like not being able to use "ebay" cause I overspent, or had done so without asking him or whatever (punishment to fit the crime".

Another "punishment" Master has for me, is not to punish me at all. How this works is, as I need to be punished this means I am not living up to my submissive/slave role within the relationship, so he withdraws his "dominance" and "does nothing."..or he might go start doing things I would normally do...like go and make his own coffee or put a load of clothes in the laundry.....fits the crime too hey? Makes me accutely aware of where I want my place to be in the relationship and modifies my actions and thoughts quickly....ugh......this punishment too, is not enjoyable to either of us.

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RE: What's your favorite punishment? - 11/4/2006 1:49:04 PM

slaveaurora

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Wow... major lightbulb moment here.
My Master does this exact same thing to me too.    It used to make me angry, and I thought He was just acting like a jerk, when He would fix his own dinner, or do His own laundry.   Then it made me feel bad. I would often ask Him why He was acting like that, and He wouldn't tell me.

After reading your post, a light bulb came on in my head, and i told Him about this post and asked if that was the method behind His madness.   He grinned at me and said, He wasn't telling me, that i didn't need to know.

I also hate this, and it is not pleasurable for me at all, and probably not for Him either..... but at least I have some insight as to why He does it.   ughghgh..

~aurora~

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RE: What's your favorite punishment? - 11/5/2006 4:59:36 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave
OK Im rather afraid to ask but sexual sadism?? genital sadism?? Im not fumiliar with these terms... I want to know but at the same time I dont think I really want to know... LOL this is why Master says my curiasity is my own worst enamy.
Magik's curiously afraid slave

No need to be curious, I can't bite over the computer and if I did, my screen would have funny looking teethmarks.

Sexual sadism and genital sadism are ways that I describe what I do. With sexual sadism, I mix in S/m with sex - so perhaps denying her orgasms when applying so much stimuli that it's extremely painful for her to resist; or perhaps mixing the pleasure of sex with pain. Genital sadism, or genitorture, is exactly what it sounds like - S/m directed at the genitals. If you've had your clit or labia clipped, you've experienced genitorture. There are various other ways of doing that, but I'll leave that to your curiosity to discover. *smile*

Regards,
EO

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RE: What's your favorite punishment? - 11/5/2006 5:51:55 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ExtremeOwnerIL

quote:

ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave
OK Im rather afraid to ask but sexual sadism??

Sexual sadism and genital sadism are ways that I describe what I do. With sexual sadism, I mix in S/m with sex - so perhaps denying her orgasms when applying so much stimuli that it's extremely painful for her to resist; or perhaps mixing the pleasure of sex with pain.

Sexual sadism is also the term used in the DSM - IV to identify a person who gets sexual gratification from inflicting humiliation or physical suffering on another person.

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RE: What's your favorite punishment? - 11/5/2006 11:15:12 AM

akisha

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MrrPete

I don't think it necessary to repeat this in the Ask a Mistress forum.

So Master or Mistress jion in with your favs please indicate the gender
of the submissive on the receiving end.

Personally I don't have a favorite because I design a punishment
unique to that submissive woman.

I don't think, for example, corporal punishment on a pain slut is rather
ineffective. Especially if they're topping from the bottom.

I'd rather have them do something they don't like to do. This is where
the "dislikes" list helps.

I hate to be punished for it means I have failed Him in some way. So no punishment is good punishment in my opinion. What he wields to punish me really means very little. Just the fact that i've dissappointed Him or let Him down in someway is worse then the beating.

Now if you mean punishment play then pretty much anything but the damn cane *shudders*

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RE: What's your favorite punishment? - 11/5/2006 11:49:35 AM

MagiksSlave

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Ummm

Yeah thanks I guess.. me and Master havent gotten that far..... Ill make sure to keep him away from the forums though... LOL he has this habit of takeing other peoples ideas and then running with them.... fast and far!!!!

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RE: What's your favorite punishment? - 11/5/2006 1:20:12 PM

krzykay

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Very tight bondage...Very tight......and bring the slave to the point of coming...as the slave goes into the point of no return....apply pain to the nipples.....works everytime...

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RE: What's your favorite punishment? - 11/5/2006 6:43:55 PM

LuckyAlbatross

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quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I think the best punishment is the one that never has to be given. I can imagine there are many dominant type people that do not enjoy giving out punishments, at least that is the type of dynamic I inhabit.

Yes yes yes! That would be the best ever! If I never made a mistake in training, if they never faltered in their obedience and the authority dynamic always led to happiness and never having to concern myself with enacting a punishment...that would be the best ever!!!!!

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RE: What's your favorite punishment? - 11/5/2006 8:18:01 PM

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Punishment, in my opinion ought not to exist within a relationship, or even within a family. Disappointment alone ought to be enough, were one to caue hurt to another. There is the baggage theory. In any relationship, be it d/s or vanilla; be it between master and slave, dom and sub, or mother and child--punishment is negativity. It is baggage. According to the theory this baggage piles up infinitely and quickly, but it is removed ever so slowly. Pile enough and the relationship breaks and ends, or worse, becomes oppressive.<br><br> If "punishment" is a desirable, and erotic, or even cathartic part of the contractual agreement between two people, then good--as long as negative restimulation does not occur. If the dominant knows her stuff, the "punishment" can be cathartic to both parties, in a positive way. You can tell if this sort of "punisment" or "discipline" works. The sub/bottom might say "wow, you were harsh!" But when asked: "did you get off on it?" The answer, even though bahsfully given ought to be affirmative. <br><br> What is my favorite? It would be that which gets my partner off, for therein lies the root of my pleasure. Krzykay puts it nicely... "Very tight bondage...very tight....and bring the slave close to the point of cumming...as the slave goes into the poit of no return...apply pain to the nipples...works everytime." I might disagree withe every time, but I suspect that her partner or "victim" goes through the "pain mixed with pleasure," mentioned by ExtremeOwnerIl, and I'll bet that both of these people are able to sense that delicate balance between "more....no....yes....no, please, no,...yes. Tsk, tsk--that's nasty you two, keep that up and you'll create a budding painslut. Ok, <br> doesn't work...how does one insert page breaks for post structure? And btw why can't I write in word and copy it to here? (Firefox?)

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RE: What's your favorite punishment? - 11/5/2006 8:37:35 PM

DiurnalVampire

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I dont have a favorite punishment. I have one that is effective, but I dont enjoy having to punish at all. The few times I have, it has been a combination ot talking often about what I would have expected of him, and often finishing the tasks on my own. I allow his own sense of disappointment to grow, and I wil not let him apologize for quite a while, to amke sure he has to think about what he has doen and how upset I was. Being long distance, its easy to make him take time to think about the mistakes, and then call him when I believe he has had enough time.

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RE: What's your favorite punishment? - 11/5/2006 9:08:29 PM

Archer

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LOL was thinking about all the posts on punishment I see online and my twisted mind had to pervert one of the standard punishments you see discussed both here on CM and other online venues.
Kneeling on rice X minutes
Of course my twisted mind had to go off into the relms few seem to dare go.
Kneeling on cooked soggy rice. EEEEWWWWWWWWWWWWW

LOL

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RE: What's your favorite punishment? - 11/5/2006 9:43:09 PM

shadevarr

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The one punishment that I let any potential of mine aware of, I tell them as an incentive to not be punished. Being left alone and tied up. Not knowing when I will come by to remove the bondage, sometimes leaving them like that for hours in a locked dark room. Even worse is if they can hear me having a grand ol' time with my friends. Did I mention that I really hate punishment/discipline but it is something that at times, needs to be done.

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