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thetammyjo -> RE: Guys still being Subs after they ejaculate (11/6/2006 6:29:41 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Morrigel
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ORIGINAL: pixelslave
Instead, it is more like fighting a sedative that is kicking-in as it is trying to shut down my brain so my body can recuperate from the intensity of having just then experienced a sexual release.
It isn't just men who experience this effect, either. It doesn't always happen, but I was often mocked by my ex-lover for my tendency to roll over, curl up and fall deeply asleep after a good hard orgasm. "No snuggling, no talking, no afterplay? Women are such pigs!"
--M
Every now and then my mother told me things that were unexpected from her.
One of them was that when the sex is really good, when you are with the right person, you should both feel tired and satisfied after sex and you should both need a tiny nap. In my experience this is very true.
A few minutes post orgasm to relax and refocuses seems a rather silly thing to complain about, I don't think this is what doms mean when they say their male sub/slaves loses interest post orgasm. I think they are talking about no interest for hours or maybe even days or maybe a serious change in attitude that lasts for some time.
I think this is why some folks practice orgasm denial and use chastity devices (not all folks) but I personally think that just sends the wrong message that Ds is really just about orgasms.
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