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Kalira -> RE: TRAVELLING BDSM PERSONALS (11/4/2006 2:58:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHajar And this is supposed to be the 'open minded' community?? The original post stated nothing as per 'booty calls' and that seems to be a MAJOR leap made from the original post. Oh and by the way My husband happens to be one of those 'OUTSIDERS.' Though I prefer the term 'a Moroccan born man.' We/I also travel a great deal and I just returned to the US after 7 years living and traveling abroad. I am not happy to be back here involved in the American psyche as I watch it everywhere including within this community, though I am absolutely thrilled to be leaving again in 2 years! Please do not bother to attack what I have said unless you have lived abroad in several countries on several continents as then you would realize how socially inept we Americans are. No I am not new to CM, simply an ID change due to an asshole who would not leave me alone after a meet for friendship ONLY purposes who lives in my state. I have met many wonderful people who have come to town on business and ask for assistance on where to eat, get a coffee and still be able to smoke inside the place (yes, one left in Maine legally), or want simply to have that coffee with exchange of ideas only in mind. We in the community are not all nymphomaniacs and/or disease carrying mosquitos! Regards, Hajar edited to say the hell with it, not worth the waste in pixels

DiurnalVampire -> RE: TRAVELLING BDSM PERSONALS (11/4/2006 3:03:04 PM)
LadyHajar, I dont know that we can be considered socially inept. However, specifiying that lifestylers would want to connect and should have a specific place to put ads implies to me at least that the interest in meeting might have something to actually do with the lifestyle. I have met friends traveling through my state for coffee, lunch, gambling... scads of reasons. However, anyone that contacts me out of the blue becasue they are in the area raises an eyebrow. Someone I ahad build a relationship online with is one thing, but just someone passing through is a bit different. Not to mention the inherent safety issues with meeting people you dont know offline right away, unless you do so in a public place and with the proper safety measures in place. Whe someone is coming through and only goingto be in town a day or so, those safety practices tend to be overlooked for schedules sake as b eing inconveient and could open the door to a potentially risky sitaution. DV

Quivver -> RE: TRAVELLING BDSM PERSONALS (11/4/2006 5:26:35 PM)
To take a more politically correct stance, I'd suggest rather then ask for a new section that ~could~ be misused, let those poor travelers use Google instead.

dsamethyst -> RE: TRAVELLING BDSM PERSONALS (11/4/2006 6:17:44 PM)
I honestly would hav eno problem recieving these type sof emails...i do and i pass them on to people that i know to be open and ito meetin g people of different cultures...Becausse i do not get out all that much to the assorted lifestyle events I do not feel able to be a "tourguide" I do not live in the greater Ny area...I live all the way ou tin suffolk county and well unless someone wants to go to the local mall...or the tuesday night leather and roses meeting or the once a month munch...well there really isnt much to be offered out here... As a single woman I am not likely to play tourguide to a couple or a man....periodically i am able to do it for a single woman...but as i said since i really am not very out and about in the lifestyle i am kind of useless. I suppose if I didnt have a housefull of unmentionables and was ac tiv e in the community i would actually love to get to know new people and perhaps have h eopportunity to be able to reciprocate the adventure....but for today nope i just can't do it. little red

LadyHajar -> RE: TRAVELLING BDSM PERSONALS (11/4/2006 6:26:56 PM)
I certainly agree that this sort of proposed section could indeed be misused as anything such as that can. I didn't meet those that I did through a forum section. I think if such a section appears then normal and usual safety practices should always be followed as with any meeting. Public place, check in with someone etc....A few times I simply had someone who wanted to give me a call to get information on the area and what to do, where to go etc. I just don't think that we, should as a community, blanketly (is that a word? If not, it is a 'Hajar word' now!) refuse to deal with folks in the life who travel and just want some assistance or to meet in a public place to exchange new ideas. I do not think it should be called 'PERSONALS' though. That word just gives the wrong impression all round. People are also free to ignore that sort of section and leave it to those who are interested. Best, Hajar

BDSM05478 -> RE: TRAVELLING BDSM PERSONALS (11/4/2006 6:33:53 PM)
I think the OP intentions were pretty clear once you take into account the profile ~rhi~

Dtesmoac -> RE: TRAVELLING BDSM PERSONALS (11/4/2006 6:43:36 PM)
I routinely travel to a number of countries and various US states. On the whole it takes a number of trips to a single destination before you know which bars, resteraunts "borders book shops" etc are good places to go. Sometimes you get talking to people but on the whole you stay in hotels, eat meals, work, watch telly and can go days without a non work related conversation. If you use the CM discussion forums etc then perhaps you would also like to pick the brains of locals about where to go whilst in a particular location, it may or may not be "scene" related but the occasional conversation about the best method of suspending your favourite sub from the branches of an oak tree can make an interesting change from talking about the weather or local sports results with the local drunks. If someone travels and wants physical one nighters then there are plenty of options to pay for it in most countries and a more souless existance I can not imagine......well perhaps political adviser to Bush would come close......LOL

DiurnalVampire -> RE: TRAVELLING BDSM PERSONALS (11/4/2006 8:47:30 PM)
Oh, Chatt22nooga, you had better reign yourself in there boy. Even if we do not al agree with one another, throwing things like that around is NOT going to get you any fans. Hajar, I think what we caught on was the idea of "personals", as you said. If someone is simply loking for advice, or for a tour guide, then thats one thing. However, reading the profile and noting how things were worded, we didnt get that impression. If you really are interested in a "travelers meet" section,maybe a suggestion to the mods would work. If not necessarily a section to post profiles, maybe another forum subset? We have he professional services and the sought for sale stuff, I could see a travel section in there. Discussions about what to do in different cities, heads up on lifestyle events and munches and the like. And if that existed, then people who DID wish t hook up could takeit upon themselves to do so through there. Its a valid idea if its an innocent one. People relocating could benefit from it as much as tose traveling and visiting. DV

Chatt22nooga -> RE: TRAVELLING BDSM PERSONALS (11/4/2006 9:02:06 PM)
NOT LOOKING 4 FANS....VAMPIRES MAKE SOCIAL LIFE A HUM DRUM...ANYONE WHO SLEEPS UPSIDE DOWN MIST HAVE A FREEKING HEADACHE...ME I SLEEP IN THE COMFORT OF MY SLAVES LABOR.....

DiurnalVampire -> RE: TRAVELLING BDSM PERSONALS (11/4/2006 9:05:27 PM)
I sleep upside down? Um, OK. Sure. Dont make this personal. We are trying to discuss something, take your hate and go elsewhere. Thanks. DV

mnottertail -> RE: TRAVELLING BDSM PERSONALS (11/4/2006 9:08:26 PM)
I am kinda new here, and forgive me if I ask a question outta line, but how the fuck does she sleep with you HOLLERING LIKE THAT, is she deaf or what? Ron

ModeratorEleven -> RE: TRAVELLING BDSM PERSONALS (11/4/2006 9:09:14 PM)
Folks, lets keep the namecalling out of this discussion please. XI

DiurnalVampire -> RE: TRAVELLING BDSM PERSONALS (11/4/2006 9:11:48 PM)
Thank you Mod 11. Now that I am thiking about this, would anyone actually use a travelers meet if we did have a forum for it?

letmecollaryou -> RE: TRAVELLING BDSM PERSONALS (11/4/2006 9:36:27 PM)
Does my original intent indicate one night stands? If it does,i am sorry i never meant that. I never meant that a S/D or M/S relation can come up with an unknown traveller.What i actually wanted to communicate has been ignored.It was all about a little space in CM where BDSM interested travellers could post their quiries about places they intend to travel .On reaching to those places ,they could interact with local group members and could exchange ideas.Dont you think some freash creative ideas can come up this way? They can watch the scenes if concerned masters allow them.Sex has nothing to do with it.Certainly there are other means for it in all countries.Will this not be helpfull to community as a whole?It is just an idea.May be it may not be workable at the moment.Yes,i am not a poster here.I have joined CM a few days back but i am into it from last couple of years.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: TRAVELLING BDSM PERSONALS (11/4/2006 9:41:36 PM)
I have agreed, a place for local information might be helpful. A forum, maybe, not profiles and posts. I certainly hope you aret making up stories about me, Chatt, I might object to such ridiculousness. You kow full wel youve never had anything to do with me. (and it will stay that way) We are getting close to hitting the ignore button, though I am afraid i might miss something amusing. DV

mnottertail -> RE: TRAVELLING BDSM PERSONALS (11/4/2006 9:46:54 PM)
Nice suit and needs a drycleaning (them socks are beyond any known detergent on earth, I think you need to visit walmart and spring for a pack) ........but how can I stand in the light of such wisdom, I am betting the knick knacks get you allota girls.......but goddamn, you are a snappy dresser, kiddo...... LOL, Ron

LadyHajar -> RE: TRAVELLING BDSM PERSONALS (11/4/2006 9:49:21 PM)
I don't know what Chattynooga has said as it seems a post was deleted and I just received the most hateful message from IT that I have received in 3 years on CM and reported it along with blocking. This is not the behavior of a Switch or a Dominant but of a hate filled insecure one. I have said my peace and will not return to this thread. I do not know this being though personal attacks are not ok. By the way DV your idea is an excellent one! All the Best, Hajar

Chatt22nooga -> RE: TRAVELLING BDSM PERSONALS (11/4/2006 9:51:06 PM)
CALL ME BOY? you must have seen me in the shower with the water running cold. call me BOY !..Give you a title and theWORLD is supposed to stand still..Well forget it BABE,Bite the bullet and just roll with the flow..The Beast

Aileen68 -> RE: TRAVELLING BDSM PERSONALS (11/4/2006 9:56:10 PM)
I have Twilight Zone music running through my head from this thread. I'm pretty sure I can say anything I want at this point because it won't be long before this one is pulled.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: TRAVELLING BDSM PERSONALS (11/4/2006 9:57:47 PM)
snicker cute. Boy is not a put down, especialy for someone that cals themself Beast. I, to am done with this banter. I dont particularly care to indulge your ranting when its unfounded and useless. DV

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