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RE: Room Moderators - 2/5/2005 2:01:37 PM

stef

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Personally, I don't spend time in chatrooms because with rare exception, they are generally filled with the lowest common denominator of human behavior.

If you don't like the way the chatrooms are run here, there are only a million or so others out there that you can spend your time in. You can even set up your own IRC server and run your own, but then we're back to the whole "whining being easier than actually doing something about it" scenario, and we all know how that one will turn out.

Good luck with whatever you decide to do.

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RE: Room Moderators - 2/5/2005 3:07:00 PM

LdyAuburn

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Frankly what any of you think is of no concern to me because as usual you whine so well without me giving you ammo.

Then why did you post?
You are talking about a chat room. Put the person on ignore. If the submissive you have collared worries about unknown people messaging him/her tell him/her to put them on ignore.
It is chat.

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RE: Room Moderators - 2/5/2005 5:03:14 PM

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Dear Pain

You have made a few posts here upon the forum. Whilst You may be dissatisfied with what you may have encountered, it does not stand for the majority here. The Mods do a thankless yet fabulous job here.

If You have a problem, then send the Mods or support a mail.

If Your problem is not solved to Your liking, then You have the ability to leave.

I have made mistakes... printed something that was possibly illegal discussion... others have placed words down that are plagristic and their words are removed. There is no favouritism. The Mods do their best to keep this site safe, sane, and legal.
The most ungentlemanly response is to continue on a journey that is neither fruitful or consensual for all parties.

I am asking that You stop this thread, please. Out of respect for the people on this board who come to read and discuss, not to witness arguments.

I thank You for taking the time to read these humble words.

Peace and Love

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RE: Room Moderators - 2/5/2005 5:23:44 PM

EStrict

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My guess is it is the same reason my two year old stamps his foot and says *say so say so say so* when he is mad and over tired. Temper tantrums is the usual response of those that come to this side of the board to whine or get others to agree with them and instead find people who will tell it like it is. Honestly, I personally avoid chat rooms because they tend to be full of (with few exceptions who I apologize to in advance):

a) The DOM --- that almighty creature who since he (or she) is dominant with in their own normal REAL LIFE dealings expect every person on the world wide web to automatically give the *respect* they believe to be their due.

b) The SUBBY -- (Insert brat, tease, whatever)... who behave with such sweet sick fawing to those that they *think* may be *The DOM*, they actually give validity to *THE DOM*,, but worse yet, feed///

c) The SNERT -- those Sexually Needy Egoticstical Runny-nosed Twits who are there to poach on the the subbies,, expecially since even those who are not just online subs seem to often lose all sense of adult speech in a chat room.

The first thing that OP seem to difficuly comprehending is that this side of the board and the chat rooms are not linked. But, if they bothered to read the TOS they agreed to, and even more, the chat room rules, they will find:

*Collarme.com does not have a policy about users needing anyone's permission to send private messages. They are always allowed. This is a personals site and we encourage private chat, it is no one else's business who is/is not messaging who. If a user does not wish to speak with a certain person, they should politely let them know that they do not care to chat. If the unwanted messages continue, please use the ignore option. If you feel that you are being harassed, please notify a chat operator and if applicable, supply logs.*

Just because you find it in poor taste does not mean the person did anything wrong, so if the moderators of the chat room (who are not the moderators of this side to my knowledge) didn't support you, it is because YOU are the one in error. But, if you are worried about your sub, teach her the most powerful tool to deal with those who may not have the same beliefs and protocol as you do. It's on the computer and known as a power button. It's even more powerful than ignore.

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RE: Room Moderators - 2/5/2005 5:29:53 PM

proudsub

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When YOU get a real collar then you can answer my comments on here.

So do you only listen to those who have a "real collar"?

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RE: Room Moderators - 2/5/2005 5:42:23 PM

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First of all WE are real time unlike alot of you. My chief complaint was and still is how the mods play favorites in the rooms. When YOU get a real collar then you can answer my comments on here. If i offend you then as you all have told put me on IGNORE because trust me i will you. Frankly what any of you think is of no concern to me because as usual you whine so well without me giving you ammo.

10 points of advice/relavent information your repeated posts on this thread have inspired me to offer (even though I do not currently have anyone collared lol):

1) At least try to comprehend the difference between a chat room and a forum, and the different purposes each serve the community.

2) Moderators on the forum do not police the chatrooms; that is the job of the chatroom operators and the CM administrators.

3) This is a free site, though privately held, and as such the moderators (in forums) the chat operators (in chatrooms) and the site administrators have the final say in what flies and what doesn't. You, fortunately, do not have that power. Sorry.

4) There is a Terms of Service agreement in effect on CollarMe, I suggest you read it.

5) I am not aware of anyone who volunteers for this site who plays favorites. Our volunteering is a time consuming labor of love for us. Yes we are human, but for you to presume that any moderator or chatroom operator is playing favorites simply because you are dissatisfied smacks of extreme self-centeredness to me.

6) When you post to these forums, anyone CAN and most likley will reply to you. They do not need to have a "real collar" (whatever that means), nor do they need to have R/T experience, or meet any other arbitrary requirements that YOU think they must in order to reply to you. They simply need to choose to reply and follow the TOS and guidelines in doing so.

7) When you start posting rude and obnoxious posts to others here, don't expect to have your ego gently stroked in return.

8) If you are truly unconcerned with what others think of you or your slave, as you claim, then why get so bent out of shape regarding the perceived transgressions in said chatroom? More importantly, why bring it here to the forums?

9) If you don't like other people whining then ignore it, and out of fairness, please refrain from doing so yourself. Pretty simple.

10) Lastly, if all of this is too much for you, might I suggest that you start your own site where you can be the arbiter and judge of people's behavior? Hope you have alot of spare time. :)

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RE: Room Moderators - 2/5/2005 9:20:23 PM

jillwfsub4blkdom

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If you are concerned about the Chatroom ops playing favorites and i know they do, why not start your own room? You have that capability even within Collarme? Also, as others have suggested, there are numerous other chatrooms you can spend time in. 99% of the people in the chatrooms don't even bother checking the messageboard so i think you are complaining to the wrong source.

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RE: Room Moderators - 2/5/2005 11:43:08 PM

DiamondDiva

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PainMaster4358

Frankly what any of you think is of no concern to me because as usual you whine so well without me giving you ammo.

You know Pain, I find it very hard to believe that what we think is of no concern to you because if it was't you would not have posted your unhappiness from the start to get everyone else's opinion. At times things do not go the way we would like them to and the best way to deal with situations as such is to inquire, examine and educate. If you were having an issue you could have inquired about the situation to any one of the Mods that would have settled the problem.

I agree with everyone here and I know that according to you it doesn't make a difference but in this community the best way to get results is not by being indignent to someone trying to help but by expressing your concerns to the "RIGHT" people.

Just my $ 1.00

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RE: Room Moderators - 2/6/2005 1:21:13 AM

ShadeDiva

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Last I checked, you could make your own room on CM.

So why not just make your own room, and ask to be made a mod of your room?

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