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How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/5/2006 8:51:15 AM   
mysteryshopper


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Status: offline 		I don't have a mistress, but I would like to stop.  I am on day #3 and I am having a difficult time carrying on.  reason for me stopping was that i was starting to see a decrease in size and firmness if i did it a lot!

Is there any tips to stop?  It seems chastitiy is outta the Q cause I have no mistress.
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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/5/2006 9:10:10 AM   
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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/5/2006 10:54:19 AM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		Great suggestion MsKatHouston that would deter most men.I tell my sub no masturbation unless I say so and I trust him to do this as we have a very bonded relationship. He may cheat and do it anyway, but my gut tells me he doesn't and my gut hasn't been wrong to date.

We have a chastity device which we use from time to time when I feel like making him really crazy with the hornies. But its only for occasional use.

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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/5/2006 11:22:24 AM   
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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/5/2006 12:12:00 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		I'd simply say, "I don't want you to masturbate." If he does, he's really not interested in serving me well.

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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/5/2006 12:39:13 PM   
LadyEllen


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Status: offline 		Self castration with a pair of rusty shears should do the trick.

Oh, wait - though this was the really really bad advice thread for a moment there

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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/5/2006 12:52:37 PM   
MstrssScarlet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mysteryshopper

I don't have a mistress, but I would like to stop.  I am on day #3 and I am having a difficult time carrying on.  reason for me stopping was that i was starting to see a decrease in size and firmness if i did it a lot!

Is there any tips to stop?  It seems chastitiy is outta the Q cause I have no mistress.



Why is chastity out of the question simply because you don't have a mistress?  If you are not able to do it now on your own, how much luck do you think you'll have with a mistress in your life telling you to stop?  A mistress is not going to be able to force you to do something if you haven't already developed the willpower.
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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/5/2006 12:55:42 PM   
MstrssScarlet


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Status: offline 		I should probably add that yes, a mistress is going to push your limits.  However, you must already have the desire to serve, including giving up masturbation if she wishes it so.
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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/5/2006 1:07:34 PM   
sissifytoserve


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Status: offline 		Do what males have done before male chastity devices ever came into being...

Take a cold shower.

If that doesn't work....there is always Depo-Provera...or go see a shrink.

But if you find a Mistress...im sure she will helpyou with that...and then some.

My former Mistress told me not to masturbate....and If i did so..I would feel guilty out of having betrayed her trust.

The more i thought about it..the more i wanted to save that cosmic energy for her.

After all...as far as i'm concerned...you can have much better orgasm when combined with another you
are tuned in with anyway.




< Message edited by sissifytoserve -- 11/5/2006 1:10:59 PM >

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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/5/2006 2:12:35 PM   
damia


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Status: offline 		i'm not a dominant female, and i beg pardons if my opinion is not welcome.

i don't think chasity devices are out of the question...in fact, if you are interested in that, and want that, go for it. If you don't think you have the will power, you could put the key somewhere you wouldn't go after it except if you -had- to. i've read about some Doms doing this. For example, if a sub is caged, a few i've read put the key in a balloon, perhaps even filled with something (one said her pee), and so the sub would not pop the balloon to get the key unless s/he -had- to. you could do something similar, such as put the key in a breakable container and seal it (like a piggy bank), so that you'd have to break the container to get the key.

Another option might be to decide that every time you think of masturbating, you will do something else pre-determined that you don't like but that is constructive. For example, you could decide to do housework until you stop thinking of masturbating, or maybe make a repair that's been waiting. It seems distraction helps some men. And if there's something that really turns you off, think of that when you feel the urge, and maybe you'll not be turned on anymore.

i apologize again if my opinion is not welcome; just thought i'd offer what i might.

damia the Kat

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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/5/2006 3:29:40 PM   
stockingluvr54


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mysteryshopper

I don't have a mistress, but I would like to stop.  I am on day #3 and I am having a difficult time carrying on.  reason for me stopping was that i was starting to see a decrease in size and firmness if i did it a lot!

Is there any tips to stop?  It seems chastitiy is outta the Q cause I have no mistress.



When I want to stop for awhile ....I just tie it in a knot until I want to start whackin off again.....then I simply untie it and proceed again as usual.....

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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/5/2006 4:07:29 PM   
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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/5/2006 4:33:20 PM   
nikaa


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Status: offline 		A few suggestions.
 
1.Everytime you begin to masterbate take out a picture of your mother or simply picture her. If that doesn't put a damper on your desire to get off well that is a different issue.
 
2.Wear a chasity belt. You do not have to be owned to use these devices simply capable of putting them on and taking them off.
 
3. Avoid things such as porn or adult magazines if they give you the desire to masterbate.
 
I would suggest that you not being able to do this on your own does not mean that if you where owned that you could not stop if your owner required it from you. For many slaves and submissives they expect and want their boundaries pushed. They do things for their owners that they typically would not do on their own simply to please their owner.

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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/5/2006 4:53:35 PM   
MistressDolly


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TimeLock's  a windows based program designed to encrypt a file for a specified amount of time. During this time the original file will be totally unavailable. At the end of the time the file will be decrypted for you to view.

If you DO have a keyholder (particularly one who is long distance) then TimeLock has a remote keyholder function.

Check it out  

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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/5/2006 4:57:08 PM   
Amazon201918


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Status: offline 		Put BenGay or IcyHot on your hands everytime you get the urge to masturbate.

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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/5/2006 4:59:13 PM   
nastybitch1


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Status: offline 		My MISTRESS would apply a chasity device to the slaves gentials and only MISTRESS WOULD BE ABLE TO UNLOCK IT

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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/6/2006 8:54:17 AM   
shamedmale


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Status: offline 		self castration hmm i m glad im not serving you you seem extreme Lady Ellen in your ideas anyway im surprised by you

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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/6/2006 9:06:45 AM   
MsKatHouston


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My serious response, though is if I were the OP I would concentrate on learning self control with no other preventative measures.  If and when you do have a Mistress it will be a benefit to you if she can use a chastity device if wanted but to know that it is not needed.  Try not to masturbate for an increasing number of days until it becomes easier for you. 

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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/6/2006 9:39:00 AM   
shamedmale


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Status: offline 		No One MsKatHouston
1. I do NOT masturbate
2. I dont have a mistress nor do I want one. I will soon be getting in contact with a lady with a view to her taking me back in the summer of 07 but as of now i am not seeking anyone and prefer to remain that way. All jokes taken in the right spirit, you seem a bubbly  character and thats good.
regards
shamedmale

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RE: How would you mistresses stop a guy from masturbating? - 11/6/2006 9:41:46 AM   
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