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I am a new Mistress - 11/8/2006 7:26:19 AM

MisstressTina

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Hello,
I am a new Mistress and I need to know where(online) I might
be able to find some appropriate dress in my size...I am a plus size
domme....
If anyone has an suggestions I would like to hear them..
Thank you

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RE: I am a new Mistress - 11/8/2006 7:37:54 AM

Lashra

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Hello and welcome.

If your looking for something in leather, I purchase from this company on ebay. They have proven very reliable.

http://stores.ebay.com/ALTER-EGO-EROTICS

She has all kinds of corsets, skirts and dresses in leather.

If your looking for something more along the lines of lingerie I have used this company several times and have been very happy.

http://www.hipsandcurves.com/

Good luck,
~Lashra

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RE: I am a new Mistress - 11/8/2006 9:22:38 AM

LadyJulieAnn

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I suppose you first need to determine what you feel is "appropriate" and what you find comfortable. In many cases it's not always leather/pvc and heels. Here are some links I have used in the past:

http://www.biggalslingerie.com/
www.ladybwear.com

I also like Alter Ego Erotics and Hips and Curves.

Be well,
Julie

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RE: I am a new Mistress - 11/9/2006 7:42:17 AM

MisstressTina

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Thank you ladies...
You have been very helpful...
I'm sure I will find what I am looking for on
either of your suggestions..
Thank you again.

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RE: I am a new Mistress - 11/9/2006 5:19:42 PM

Sissypinky

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http://www.pluslingerie4you.com

Shadowline.com for panties

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RE: I am a new Mistress - 11/9/2006 6:28:16 PM

ladylexington

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Also try Torrid for comfortable, flattering corsets, thigh highs, and garters: www.torrid.com

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RE: I am a new Mistress - 11/25/2006 11:41:55 AM

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I'm the same way and for me it's hard to just go into a fetish clothing store here in CO and find clothes that fit me correctly. I shop online pretty much anywhere there are fetish clothing there's bound to be plus sizes. I go on www.extremerestraints.com for most of my clothing. There are many other websites as well, of which I can't remember all of them :). Or I like to also shop online at www.hottopic.com, which has a nice selection of plus sizes corsets. Best luck finding what your looking for.

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RE: I am a new Mistress - 11/25/2006 11:27:44 PM

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I really, really don't mean to sound like an ass. But I have admit, this post made me burst out laughing.

I suppose it's a male thing, but I rarely, if ever, think about clothing. I consider my manner of dressing to be in no way related to my Master status.

Don't worry, I'm not saying it's a bad question. It's just two things I would've never put together personally.

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RE: I am a new Mistress - 11/26/2006 9:02:57 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: reofbl

I really, really don't mean to sound like an ass. But I have admit, this post made me burst out laughing.

I suppose it's a male thing, but I rarely, if ever, think about clothing. I consider my manner of dressing to be in no way related to my Master status.

Don't worry, I'm not saying it's a bad question. It's just two things I would've never put together personally.

I'm going to venture a guess on this based on experience, since I do maintain relationships with both male and female subs. These are generalizations, but feel to me to be fairly consistent:

Male submissives seem far more VISUALLY stimulated and often have an "image" of the dominatrix in their minds. Capturing that image and recreating it for them is key to recreating their fantasies and hooking into their thinking.

Female submissives present as more ethereal about their submission. They are often emo based/driven and respond to questioning about their feelings moreso than the appearance of something. (Although fetishes still come into play, as does environment, but not so nitty-gritty as the males seem to be.)

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