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arkansasheather -> Is it okay if..? (11/11/2006 12:28:05 PM)
Well I was kinda fighting my Master ( I know stupid on my part) but He was holding me down, and well He was holding my wrist and it left a bruise....do you think I shouldn't worry about it? Because I'm not sure if it is or not.

mnottertail -> RE: Is it okay if..? (11/11/2006 12:32:18 PM)
A bruise? A worry? A Master? Need to work on them communication skills....LOL Some women bruise pretty easy.................shrugs Do what you can afford to do, young soul. Ron

arkansasheather -> RE: Is it okay if..? (11/11/2006 12:41:19 PM)
I didn't figure I should, but my friends are starting to ask questions. They know that I am submissive and that He is my master. I guess your right and I shouldn't worry about it.

mnottertail -> RE: Is it okay if..? (11/11/2006 12:54:28 PM)
Well, tell them the absolute truth, you were playing around, wrestling, and you bruise easy............. That ain't no big gig.......... You are going to have to deal with this in time, you know......it ain't all gonna be shit that maybelline is gonna fix. Ron

arkansasheather -> RE: Is it okay if..? (11/11/2006 1:07:04 PM)
What do you mean "it ain't all gonna be shit that maybelline is gonna fix"??

mnottertail -> RE: Is it okay if..? (11/11/2006 1:15:13 PM)
Makeup is not going to cover a multitude of sins. Women are stupid that way, they go into the bathroom together.....you whip down your little diapers and you got bruises all over your ass, and your girlfreind is going.........OH, HONEY!!!??!! What did THAT MAN DO to you? I am saying you had better start working on the conversation in your mind, when the time comes you are a little roughed up from play or from cause and the nosy drama of teenage angst and perhaps parental begins to rear its ugly head. I thought maybelline was a popular make-up? Am I that fuckin' ancient? JAY-sus!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ja, I guess to you; I am........... LOL, Ron

Aileen68 -> RE: Is it okay if..? (11/11/2006 1:19:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail Makeup is not going to cover a multitude of sins. Women are stupid that way, they go into the bathroom together.....you whip down your little diapers and you got bruises all over your ass, and your girlfreind is going.........OH, HONEY!!!??!! What did THAT MAN DO to you? I am saying you had better start working on the conversation in your mind, when the time comes you are a little roughed up from play or from cause and the nosy drama of teenage angst and perhaps parental begins to rear its ugly head. I thought maybelline was a popular make-up? Am I that fuckin' ancient? JAY-sus!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ja, I guess to you; I am........... LOL, Ron Translation: If you're worried about what others will say about a small bruise on your wrist, then you better figure out how you will explain the large bruises that will most likely occur if you are in a bdsm relationship. Makeup doesn't always cover them up.

justheather -> RE: Is it okay if..? (11/11/2006 1:21:36 PM)
Aileen, you should get a job translating for the UN. You're good, girl.

arkansasheather -> RE: Is it okay if..? (11/11/2006 1:22:04 PM)
Thanks for the advice.

Aileen68 -> RE: Is it okay if..? (11/11/2006 1:24:41 PM)
Well we all know that Ron can be a hard mother to figure out, especially if one is new to the boards.

mnottertail -> RE: Is it okay if..? (11/11/2006 1:25:39 PM)
LOLOLOL, Thanks Aileen........ (garbled......unintelligible) You are a sweetheart........... XO, Ron

Aileen68 -> RE: Is it okay if..? (11/11/2006 1:49:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail LOLOLOL, Thanks Aileen........ (garbled......unintelligible) You are a sweetheart........... XO, Ron Translation: Laughter. Now suck my dick.

mnottertail -> RE: Is it okay if..? (11/11/2006 2:40:06 PM)
Oh, darling...... Are we finally in negotiations? Curiously, Ron

Bearlee -> RE: Is it okay if..? (11/11/2006 2:42:21 PM)
<~~~~~ falls off chair laffin

Aileen68 -> RE: Is it okay if..? (11/11/2006 2:48:39 PM)
Ron...I'm off the market for the time being. I'm only allowed to have one evil motherfucker in my life. [:(]

mnottertail -> RE: Is it okay if..? (11/11/2006 2:50:58 PM)
Goddammit!!! That is cause enough for erectile dysfunction right there....... Luckily I am a resilient sort. Sorrowfully, Ron

empresschaos -> RE: Is it okay if..? (11/11/2006 3:28:50 PM)
I didn't get the impression you guys were wrestling from your original post. If you were actually fighting, as in I'm mad at you, and you were trying to hit him or something, then there's not a whole lot of room to complain about being held down. If you were arguing, and it turned physical, and he tried to restrain you--even though you weren't being physically aggressive toward him, then you may have a problem. Hitting someone, or restraining someone, out of anger isn't okay, and being in a d/s relationship doesn't change that fact. If the above posters were accurate, and it was a tickle fight or jovial wrestling, then yeah, sometimes bruises happen. And I've had two black eyes from face-slapping in a scene, which led to many questions which I delicately addressed by assuring friends that I had been a consenting party.

CreativeDominant -> RE: Is it okay if..? (11/11/2006 3:56:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: empresschaos I didn't get the impression you guys were wrestling from your original post. If you were actually fighting, as in I'm mad at you, and you were trying to hit him or something, then there's not a whole lot of room to complain about being held down. If you were arguing, and it turned physical, and he tried to restrain you--even though you weren't being physically aggressive toward him, then you may have a problem. Hitting someone, or restraining someone, out of anger isn't okay, and being in a d/s relationship doesn't change that fact. If the above posters were accurate, and it was a tickle fight or jovial wrestling, then yeah, sometimes bruises happen. And I've had two black eyes from face-slapping in a scene, which led to many questions which I delicately addressed by assuring friends that I had been a consenting party. Did they then try to "save" you?

Masterbat -> RE: Is it okay if..? (11/11/2006 3:56:14 PM)
One bruise ok, but you need a safe word to break away if you feel that he or you are going farther then what you want to do or feel comfortable doing

Aileen68 -> RE: Is it okay if..? (11/11/2006 3:58:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail Goddammit!!! That is cause enough for erectile dysfunction right there....... Luckily I am a resilient sort. Sorrowfully, Ron Translation: Say hello to Mr. Hand.

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