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Spitfiregrrl -> Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 2:02:52 PM)
Warning this will be a ranting session: Doesn't it seem like the caliber of people out there in the dating pool just isn't that great anymore? I'm not out of the closet but in the gay scene I am quite out. Maybe its just the gay scene? Or maybe just society in general. Not to be concieted but I do have a lot to offer..looks, financial stablity, brains, humor, the whole works. I just can't seem to find someone who clicks anymore. Is it because I'm looking in the wrong places? I'm not even really looking anymore. I went out to an establishment last night and there was no one I found attractive at all. Even my friend I was tagging along with who is also single agreed. I just don't get it. Where have all the good people gone? I know that bars aren't exactly the best places to meet people. I've done some online stuff and its been both good and bad. It's just frustrating is all. I've been in relationships or have dated frequently and finally I've hit the single slump. I can be single but would eventually like to find someone to share things with and compare notes someone to laugh and cry with perphaps a cuddle session here and there. Am I being unrealistic or just purely a hopeless romantic taking it too seriously? What are your takes on this? Love to hear what people have to say about the dating world out there.

Level -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 2:12:47 PM)
Sounds like you're just in a slump. Love and finding a great parter can't be rushed, so be patient. Do you belong to a local kink group, maybe check out a munch?

sissifytoserve -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 2:18:07 PM)
Welcome. Ive been having the same problem. You aren't alone in that respect. I tend to think it has a lot to do with society actually. But many people here say its my "bad attitude". Other people say I should put up a "male vanilla" picture of myself. If I resorted to that...mabye i should just go to vanilla dating site... [8\|][8\|][8\|]

Spitfiregrrl -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 2:20:17 PM)
I understand the patience factor. I'm not by nature a patient person but can be and realize its needed in this circumstance and I have been picky. I do not back down on my high standards. No I'm not in a local kink group. I have thought about joining but feel indifferent about it.

Level -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 2:20:59 PM)
It could be that dommes shy away from you due to not wanting to be "hit" when the government finally comes for you. [8\|] Just kidding.

Level -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 2:22:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Spitfiregrrl I understand the patience factor. I'm not by nature a patient person but can be and realize its needed in this circumstance and I have been picky. I do not back down on my high standards. No I'm not in a local kink group. I have thought about joining but feel indifferent about it. Yes, stick to your standards if it would make you unhappy otherwise. Of course that lessens the pool of potential partners, but hey, it's better to know what you want.

Spitfiregrrl -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 2:22:47 PM)
It could be both. It is definetly society I think as well. So why do they say you have a "bad attitude"? lol

sissifytoserve -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 2:23:35 PM)
".....and they finally came for the crossdressers...and I did nothing because i wasn't a crossdresser." [:D]

sissifytoserve -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 2:25:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Spitfiregrrl It could be both. It is definetly society I think as well. So why do they say you have a "bad attitude"? lol For disagreeing with them or daring to question things. Unless I'm locked in a relationship with a domme and engaged in serious play time....damn right i will question and talk about whatever the heck i choose to.

Spitfiregrrl -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 2:27:27 PM)
You have every right to. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. snaps fingers

Aileen68 -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 2:28:31 PM)
Part of your problem might be that Slim Pickens died way back in 1983. I don't think he's dating anyone anymore.

Level -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 2:29:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sissifytoserve ".....and they finally came for the crossdressers...and I did nothing because i wasn't a crossdresser." [:D] lol sissify.

sissifytoserve -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 2:30:20 PM)
I try not to. Sometimes I think its just for some reason that have some kind of weird unfounded hate towards me....but some people won't like you no matter what you do.

Level -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 2:30:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen68 Part of your problem might be that Slim Pickens died way back in 1983. I don't think he's dating anyone anymore. Wasn't he related to Slim Whitman?

Spitfiregrrl -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 2:32:38 PM)
I used that term to be condescending. Don't take everything literally jeez. I have a sort of dry sense of humor. Plus I don't date men :). So Slim Pickens would be a woman :).

sissifytoserve -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 2:33:25 PM)
No...THAT...slim pickens. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uK4s9gwgUvs [:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D]

thompsonx -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 2:34:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen68 Part of your problem might be that Slim Pickens died way back in 1983. I don't think he's dating anyone anymore. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- perhaps a bit of necrophilia??? thompson

Aileen68 -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 2:35:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Spitfiregrrl I used that term to be condescending. Don't take everything literally jeez. I have a sort of dry sense of humor. Plus I don't date men :). So Slim Pickens would be a woman :). Ummm....it was a joke on my part. Maybe you should follow your own advice. [:)]

mnottertail -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 2:36:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level quote: ORIGINAL: sissifytoserve ".....and they finally came for the crossdressers...and I did nothing because i wasn't a crossdresser." [:D] lol sissify. I never got that out of my first reading of european history.......... I am glad this was re-visited. This is the type of thing that makes me proud to be a vet, where you can see a culmination to your actions of many years ago, and some have prospered by it.......... Ron

sissifytoserve -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 2:37:04 PM)
Iused to not be picky....I can't count how many women I have lost relationships with when i revealed to them there was also a she... along with the he. Hows that for a typical gemini?

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