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Level -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 2:38:44 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sissifytoserve

No...THAT...slim pickens.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uK4s9gwgUvs


[:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D]


lol, it does not surprise me that you had that clip at the ready. [:D] Damn good movie.



Spitfiregrrl -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 2:42:17 PM)

Your quick with your comebacks...but I'm going to let it go. I do tend to take things personally..thats why they call me a Spitfire :).



sissifytoserve -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 2:44:40 PM)

"The prescious body fluids!!!!!"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CXWpHru08kY


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sissifytoserve -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 2:46:52 PM)

Stick around.

I am positive you will find the sub female you are looking for.

There are so many profiles here that say...

Women only...no men

women only...no men

women only...no men


Its only a matter of time.



Noah -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 2:47:17 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Spitfiregrrl

Warning this will be a ranting session:

Doesn't it seem like the caliber of people out there in the dating pool just isn't that great anymore? I'm not out of the closet but in the gay scene I am quite out. Maybe its just the gay scene? Or maybe just society in general. Not to be concieted but I do have a lot to offer..looks, financial stablity, brains, humor, the whole works. I just can't seem to find someone who clicks anymore. Is it because I'm looking in the wrong places? I'm not even really looking anymore. I went out to an establishment last night and there was no one I found attractive at all. Even my friend I was tagging along with who is also single agreed. I just don't get it. Where have all the good people gone? I know that bars aren't exactly the best places to meet people. I've done some online stuff and its been both good and bad. It's just frustrating is all. I've been in relationships or have dated frequently and finally I've hit the single slump. I can be single but would eventually like to find someone to share things with and compare notes someone to laugh and cry with perphaps a cuddle session here and there. Am I being unrealistic or just purely a hopeless romantic taking it too seriously? What are your takes on this? Love to hear what people have to say about the dating world out there.


There's all kinds of high grade gash around here. I won't even complain about the onerousness of the sorting process.

One of the things you have to offer evaded inclusion on your inventory: Negative Outlook. Here's hoping that is temporary.

I'm curious as to how you can tell the caliber of a person by looking at them across a barroom. I've heard GLBT friends complain that that kind of shallowness is endemic to their dating pool too but I had rather hoped it was an exagerrated claim.

I've got some stuff you could maybe borrow if you were to survive the onerous sorting process. In the mean while keep in mind the ancient wisdom: "We see the world not as it is but as we are."

I'm not concluding that you are of low caliber, by the way. Read that old expression as if it referred explicitly to how you are rather than what you are. Cultivate the ability to suck all the good juices out of even the slumps, to recognize and appreciate high caliber in all of its manifestations and enjoy them for what they are. The odds may then improve of your latching on to some other preferred juice outlets.



Spitfiregrrl -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 2:53:49 PM)

Thanks sissy for the vote of confidence :).



Aileen68 -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 2:54:26 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Spitfiregrrl

Your quick with your comebacks...but I'm going to let it go. I do tend to take things personally..thats why they call me a Spitfire :).

You words say a lot in an online dating forum.
In fact, all you are are words until you meet.
Maybe others see something negative?
But then again, unless you've had another profile, you haven't been here all that long.



Spitfiregrrl -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 3:08:30 PM)

I'm not a negative person. I am emotional though and tend to express my thoughts on things. I see it as a freeing thing some may see it as a negative thing. I like to reflect and think about things. I have been on here enough to know the ropes. Everyone is entitled to there opinion. What you see or read isn't always the case, that's why its always good to be critical. Thanks for your opinion though.



Sinergy -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 3:09:56 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Spitfiregrrl

I understand the patience factor. I'm not by nature a patient person but can be and realize its needed in this circumstance and I have been picky. I do not back down on my high standards. No I'm not in a local kink group. I have thought about joining but feel indifferent about it.


Hello,

About two years ago I was in a relationship slump.  I had a nightmare job which had me basically on call 24x7x365.  When I wasnt working, I was sitting home on the internet browsing personals ads, and having really poor luck finding somebody I was even interested in meeting.

I have never been to a singles bar.  I dont know what the protocol is.  I couldnt even point to one in a phone book.

I got to thinking, where would people I would want to spend time with and hang out?

I considered taking classes at the local JC or college.  Night school.  Learn something.  Meet people.  But my nightmare job made this problematic.

I thought about going to museums and the like, but this seemed like it might be an expensive and unworkable solution.

I had been to a few kink clubs and munches, and I must say I found most of them cliquish and the people were not really my taste.

Then I thought about what I enjoy doing.  I enjoy fishing.  But that seemed like a poor way to meet women.  But a love of mine from when I was a kid was dancing.  So I looked around for dancing possibilities.  One that struck me was a local dance studio that has a east coast swing dance party every Friday night.  I went.  I was hooked.  At one point I was dancing six nights a week.

I seldom asked people out, but when I did, I found that I met a lot of nice people.  Eventually, I ended up finding people in other walks of life as well.  I guess for me I lost that desperate look on my face and in my interactions.

Just me, could be wrong, but there you go.

Sinergy



Noah -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 3:13:02 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: sissifytoserve

I try not to. Sometimes I think its just for some reason that have some kind of weird unfounded hate
towards me....but some people won't like you no matter what you do.




"Hate" is such a strong word.

So is "unfounded."

I sure don't hate you, sissify, but you consistently give a certain sort of impression and

piss
moan
argue
piss
moan
argue
piss
moan
argue
piss
moan
argue
piss
moan
argue
piss
moan
argue
complain about being lonely
repeat

...is an alternative lifestyle much better suited to our amusement than yours, I think. By no means should you change who you are. Nevertheless, being who we are we have options as to what we do.







sissifytoserve -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 3:18:12 PM)

I just flat out disgree with you.

I have every right to be here as much as you do.

You call it "Pissing and Moaning".

I call it giving my 2 cents.

If you don't like it....piss off.



meatcleaver -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 3:19:29 PM)

People who are picky and see the rest in the dating pool as poor quality tend to think they have much more to offer than they usually have in my experience. Sometimes its worth taking a look in the mirror and having a good look at your assets, you might find that the type of person who you consider right for you might not be seeing what you are seeing.



DiurnalVampire -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 3:25:51 PM)

My 2 cents, the harder you look, the less you find. When you arent looking quite as hard, and not thinking so far ahead as to what youd want, where you might find it... you meet som of the best people.  I found angel when I had given up and decided to take a break from the dating scene all together. 

DV



Spitfiregrrl -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 3:29:47 PM)

"Eventually, I ended up finding people in other walks of life as well.  I guess for me I lost that desperate look on my face and in my interactions."

That is very well said. I agree with that totally. People do see your insecurities no matter how much you try to hide them such as desperation. I'm not desperate just impatient. So patience is the key then.



Sinergy -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 3:34:18 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Spitfiregrrl

"Eventually, I ended up finding people in other walks of life as well.  I guess for me I lost that desperate look on my face and in my interactions."

That is very well said. I agree with that totally. People do see your insecurities no matter how much you try to hide them such as desperation. I'm not desperate just impatient. So patience is the key then.


Well, as DiurnalVampire stated, "The harder you look, the less you find."

My point was more that rather than spend my time looking, I made the conscious decision to change my own life and stop desperately and impatiently looking for somebody to bring into it.

Sinergy



Spitfiregrrl -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 3:40:18 PM)

I agree with that totally. I  just think its inate to want to meet that soul mate or someone you just mesh with but then again it can be quite the contrary for some. I'm not actively looking per se and am immersing myself in bettering myself right now. If it comes along I wouldn't turn it away thats for sure.



Noah -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 3:50:28 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: sissifytoserve

I just flat out disgree with you.

I have every right to be here as much as you do.

You call it "Pissing and Moaning".

I call it giving my 2 cents.

If you don't like it....piss off.


Thank you. That was absolutely precious.

Yes you have every right to be here, miss, and every right to continue doing exactly that which is resulting in your ongoing misery. Maybe even do it harder and twice on Sundays. Now I wonder what results that will produce.

Just curious ... when you socialize, if you socialize, do you make a point of shitting on everyone's houseplants and call it fertilizing?

Cause, you know, you have just as much right as anyone else to do that. And no one else has any right to form or express opinions about your behavior which differ from your own, no matter how unanimously they may try.

Have 2 cents worth of a day, sunshine.



sissifytoserve -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 3:57:12 PM)

I'm not going to live up to your social standards.....thanks..and i could give a rats ass what you think about me.

Seems like all you want to do is point the finger instead of pointing at yourself.

Glad I made your day.

Hope to do it again sometime.







windchymes -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 4:05:11 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Noah


There's all kinds of high grade gash around here. I won't even complain about the onerousness of the sorting process.

One of the things you have to offer evaded inclusion on your inventory: Negative Outlook. Here's hoping that is temporary.

I'm curious as to how you can tell the caliber of a person by looking at them across a barroom. I've heard GLBT friends complain that that kind of shallowness is endemic to their dating pool too but I had rather hoped it was an exagerrated claim.

I've got some stuff you could maybe borrow if you were to survive the onerous sorting process. In the mean while keep in mind the ancient wisdom: "We see the world not as it is but as we are."

I'm not concluding that you are of low caliber, by the way. Read that old expression as if it referred explicitly to how you are rather than what you are. Cultivate the ability to suck all the good juices out of even the slumps, to recognize and appreciate high caliber in all of its manifestations and enjoy them for what they are. The odds may then improve of your latching on to some other preferred juice outlets.




Did you just refer to the females here as "high grade gash"???






Aileen68 -> RE: Slim pickens.... (11/11/2006 4:06:37 PM)

Better than being low grade Gash.



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