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RE: when the body wont do what the mind wants it too - 11/13/2006 4:39:06 PM

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I have flat nipples, so I understand the problem, nothing so funny as watching a nipple clamp do the slow slid off a flat surface. Anyway something you might want to try, a breast pump, might take a wee bit, but they will be a little more stand up.

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RE: when the body wont do what the mind wants it too - 11/13/2006 9:54:29 PM

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I have the same problem and my nipples are what is called inverted they slide back inside themselves. I have heard that using a suction tool on them like a breast pump might help I have never tried it though. Hope this helps.

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RE: when the body wont do what the mind wants it too - 11/14/2006 10:13:48 AM

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Oh Man Now Master is gunna have me shopping for breast pumps LOL

No but all kidding aside thanks, these are really great ideas and I will talk to Master about them...

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RE: when the body wont do what the mind wants it too - 11/24/2006 10:13:55 AM

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Had the same problem w/ my slave.....had her nips pierced and now...no problem....even if they're not hard I can still get the desired effect

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RE: when the body wont do what the mind wants it too - 11/24/2006 10:43:55 AM

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instead of clamps and such cause i have the same issues sometimes. Daddy makes littles little slip loops out of bootlaces and they can really capture the whole areola..... more of a nipple bondage i guess but sure is fun anyway!!

Im not sure I completly understand how that would work...

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It takes more flesh than just the nipples, and tightens around it enough that it doesn't slip.

Cattle castration rings (basically, rubber o-rings) work better than clamps too - same principle as the bootlaces, on a smaller area.

The pressure of the ring/tie keeps the flesh within it - erect or no.

My nipples get erect, but never stay that way. Tying them, or using o-rings, keeps them captured. Doesn't help with the erectnes, but allows additional clamps, or just gives enough sensitization by themselves.

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RE: when the body wont do what the mind wants it too - 11/24/2006 3:18:38 PM

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Hmm ideas, other than just letting it go...In addition to the wonderful ideas listed. Going to try the dust off sometime. I was just warned to never turn the can upside-down while spraying. If the liquid sprays, it can be cold enough to frostbite....Played with it a touch just now...the gas isn't that cold...but the can is ICY! Not wet, very very cold. Could be good.

Well, no matter what you do about it, relax and have fun. If you try a bunch of stuff that doesn't work, it might end up with you even more frustrated.

I've found intense nipple stimulation, other types of nipple torture, usually tend to make them stand up. Biting, sucking, whipping with those shock cord whips(thousands of tiny rubber strands...stings like blazes), Wartenburg wheel...

Clothespins, if you can handle it, but they have to be monitored carefully. If they start to slip, they can pinch badly. Not a good idea to whack them off the nipples(with crop, whip or flogger), despite what you may have seen. They tend to grip better than most commercial clamps though. I found by accident that painting the pins sometimes leaves them permanently tacky, so they stick to the skin. Pulling them off is then even more intense.

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RE: when the body wont do what the mind wants it too - 11/24/2006 9:28:06 PM

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Couple of things, very small rubber hair bands aroung the nipple itself... BE CAREFUL or you will get your circulation cut off, and getting your nipples pierced. Both should help to keep them erect.

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RE: when the body wont do what the mind wants it too - 11/24/2006 9:46:10 PM

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"dust-off"

HUH??

Dust-Off is canned air. It's for cleaning computers and such. It's air that is forced (hard) out of a can and quite cold:
http://shopping.yahoo.com/search?p=dust-off

There are nipple suction devices that work (yet oh so painful). Trust me, you'll be poppin' balloons with 'em after that, lol.

Be careful. You can give yourself frost bite with that such and frost bitten nipples are not going to be happy nipples!

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RE: when the body wont do what the mind wants it too - 11/25/2006 12:33:50 AM

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"I had to first find 1000 ways that did not work" Tomas Edison (I think) when asked why it took over a thousand tries to get an invention right.

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RE: when the body wont do what the mind wants it too - 11/25/2006 3:19:29 AM

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Maybe a small dab of bengay/icy hot would help. even if it didnt help them stay erect it would certainly add something to the games. I think you can also buy gels that are supposed to make the nipples erect, not got any experience with them though.

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RE: when the body wont do what the mind wants it too - 11/25/2006 3:47:08 AM

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Less than $10.00 for a yellow rubber snake bite kit. Supplies two sides that create suction, one for each nipple. For best effect, keep adjusting each side. Interesting to also just pull off and see the results and put back on. Don't leave unattended for too long, that's alot of suction.

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RE: when the body wont do what the mind wants it too - 11/25/2006 10:14:17 AM

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Suction cups do work. Mine used to be inverted, but with a regular session with nipple cups they are down right perky now.
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I have the same problem and my nipples are what is called inverted they slide back inside themselves. I have heard that using a suction tool on them like a breast pump might help I have never tried it though. Hope this helps.

Patina

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RE: when the body wont do what the mind wants it too - 11/25/2006 10:18:42 AM

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Those things are mild, not too sucky imo. The ones we used were the type you see in bdsm porn clips. I wish I could remember what they are called.

and I really wish someone had not stolen my bag of toys last year!!!
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Less than $10.00 for a yellow rubber snake bite kit. Supplies two sides that create suction, one for each nipple. For best effect, keep adjusting each side. Interesting to also just pull off and see the results and put back on. Don't leave unattended for too long, that's alot of suction.

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RE: when the body wont do what the mind wants it too - 11/25/2006 2:51:50 PM

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