Dominant side

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

Dominant side

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> Dominant side

Page: [1]

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

Dominant side - 11/13/2006 2:53:15 AM

leatherzack

Posts: 59
Joined: 7/13/2005
Status: offline

Greetings to All,

i would like to know how and when You have discovered Your Dominant side.

Thank you in advance for Your replies.

Profile

Post #: 1

RE: Dominant side - 11/13/2006 4:54:31 AM

Lashra

Posts: 4900
Joined: 2/9/2006
Status: offline

I've always been this way, it is just my nature. I was always competitive and a more aggressive than alot of my female friends. When I was 19 years old and with my very first boyfriend, I didn't hestitate to push him up against the wall and kiss him hard on the lips. I didn't care that he was bigger and stronger than I was, that didn't even come into my mind. I just knew I wanted him and I wanted sex my way. Tearing off his shirt or otherwise being aggressive in the bedroom way was just natural to me. Then I started tying him up and it just progressed from there. As far as leading the relationship that was natural to me as well and I know that I couldn't have it any other way.

~Lashra

_____________________________

“We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation. It's one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it's another to think that yours is the only path.”

(in reply to leatherzack)

Profile

Post #: 2

RE: Dominant side - 11/13/2006 4:57:41 AM

Mistrix

Posts: 186
Joined: 2/14/2006
Status: offline

I have been this way all My life too. I am the oldest of all My siblings and lost a childhood into child care. I babysat from an early age, learned to cook and clean and pay bills even from a young age. Always was a leader in my life and relationships. I have tried the sub side way and found I was extremly UNHAPPY. I prefer to wear the pants, panties and suit too.....

_____________________________

I am a Woman, above everything else.

One is too many and a thousand is never enough.

(in reply to Lashra)

Profile

Post #: 3

RE: Dominant side - 11/13/2006 10:11:41 AM

KaramelGoddess

Posts: 404
Joined: 6/20/2006
Status: offline

I discovered my Dominant side at a very young age. I was always the leader with my girlfriends/playmates as a child. During my teen years I lost a bit of that as along with puberty changing my body and mind, my self-esteem plummeted. As I got older and let myself be a more sexual being I gained more confidence and found I had "alternative" interests in the bedroom. I researched and found there is a whole alternative world out there to explore. I examined myself and read and read and read a whole lot, then focused my attention on becoming a good Dominant. Through both online and real time play I am still learning, and I am happiest in that role of Domina.

_____________________________

"Never eat more than you can lift." ~ Miss Piggy

(in reply to Mistrix)

Profile

Post #: 4

RE: Dominant side - 11/13/2006 10:14:56 AM

DianeB269

Posts: 1596
Joined: 10/30/2006
Status: offline

I knew I was Dominant at the age of 16 but, I didn't start to really show it 'til I
was about 40

(in reply to leatherzack)

Profile

Post #: 5

RE: Dominant side - 11/13/2006 10:46:24 AM

rainn

Posts: 24
Joined: 10/15/2006
Status: offline

She looks she would be very good at it . Mistrix I am sure that you are very good at what you put your hands on, and do a good job of it.

(in reply to Mistrix)

Profile

Post #: 6

RE: Dominant side - 11/13/2006 4:51:59 PM

PsyVamp

Posts: 1026
Joined: 10/30/2006
Status: offline

I think I was born that way. I can't remember the exact moment, there was no revelation. I did, however, try to deny my nature for a few years. It did nothing but make everyone miserable and I forgot myself, like I was living in a permanent fog . Then my boy used the "D" word and it hit me like a bolt of lightning. I have been so much happier since that day.
Damn Vampyre

(in reply to leatherzack)

Profile

Post #: 7

RE: Dominant side - 11/13/2006 11:08:46 PM

leatherzack

Posts: 59
Joined: 7/13/2005
Status: offline