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BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Question About Humiliation (4/23/2005 11:15:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sting516 the humiliation acts i remember the most are the ones that truly mortified me at the time...looking back at them now, i remember them with a smile on my face...sting This is the reason much more experienced people intimidate me a bit... M

APhacetoSit -> RE: Question About Humiliation (4/24/2005 2:54:47 AM)
I don't think that it is strange at all. It is much more humiliating do do something that one would not normally do than something one secretly. or openly desires, and simply craves direction or permission to do it.

diaperedbaby -> RE: Question About Humiliation (4/24/2005 6:36:28 AM)
Any ideas are appreciated I have tried a few with limited success quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika quote: For whatever reason, when I am at work in a suit, I can't get my mind to that submissive place. There are ways around this... <WEG> - LA

MHOO314 -> RE: Question About Humiliation (4/24/2005 7:11:58 AM)
I assume you are shaved, thats a subtle reminder-- one way is not to stand at the urinal anymore, sitting to pee is a sign of submission--each time you go into the stall its a reminder with out giving up your identity to others---

LadyAngelika -> RE: Question About Humiliation (4/25/2005 4:49:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: diaperedbaby Any ideas are appreciated I have tried a few with limited success quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika quote: For whatever reason, when I am at work in a suit, I can't get my mind to that submissive place. There are ways around this... <WEG> - LA Well for one, try being dominanted with your suit on, tied up with your tie, role play that involves female boss/male employee... that should get you started. Then again, it's up to you to decide whether you want to walk around the office all day with the urge to fall to your knees and beg... <weg> - LA

diaperedbaby -> RE: Question About Humiliation (4/26/2005 6:08:56 AM)
That could be kinda fun. Keep the ideas coming. You are right, I am shaved

AAkasha -> RE: Question About Humiliation (4/26/2005 10:16:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: diaperedbaby That could be kinda fun. Keep the ideas coming. You are right, I am shaved The imagination and passion for domination that comes from your femdom partner is key to this. I've had many corporates "sluts" and had no problem turning them to jello at work through emails, voice mails or short phone calls. She can make you wear panties under your suit She can make you wear a butt plug for a certain period of time She can control when you are allowed to piss, make you call for permission She can make you jerk off in the bathroom at certain times of the day She can make you go shopping for lingerie and walk in with a Victoria's Secret bag She can call you at work and make you jerk off or perform anal with your doors closed The list goes on. There's a real thrill from the femdom side knowing your corporate honey is there sweating and squirming in a tight thong and thigh high stockings while at work. There's an entire series on my web site of these kinds of situations. It's called "The Corporate Slut" series. I update it every monday. www.akashaweb.com Akasha

LadyAngelika -> RE: Question About Humiliation (4/26/2005 3:45:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha There's an entire series on my web site of these kinds of situations. It's called "The Corporate Slut" series. I update it every monday. www.akashaweb.com Akasha I love it! - LA

diaperedbaby -> RE: Question About Humiliation (4/27/2005 5:26:22 AM)
very cool, I will check out your site. I don't currently have a SO, but am slowly starting to search

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Question About Humiliation (4/27/2005 11:36:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha quote: ORIGINAL: diaperedbaby You are right, I am shaved She can make you wear panties under your suit She can make you wear a butt plug for a certain period of time She can control when you are allowed to piss, make you call for permission She can make you jerk off in the bathroom at certain times of the day She can make you go shopping for lingerie and walk in with a Victoria's Secret bag There's an entire series on my web site of these kinds of situations. It's called "The Corporate Slut" series. I update it every monday. www.akashaweb.com Akasha Hey Now, this Humiliation thing is getting to look a lot more fun than I initially thought before expanding the scope... Thanks All Participants.. M

sf-Sub -> RE: Question About Humiliation (8/30/2005 7:34:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig I have a Dilemma... I like men... Love men... Prefer my men dressed well or casual, but always as men. I like it when a man presents himself that way to me, but I get a huge rise out of humiliating a man who's not big on Feminization by making him wear lingerie/panties, etc... I'm turned off when subs email me and they are in full "ridiculous looking (frilly)" female gear or have a strong feminization fetish, because to me he looks like a woman and that is not sexually exciting to me, plus is it really humiliation if he loves it? Is this contradictory? Am I strange (yes, I know I am) in wanting things this way? Is it unreasonable that I like it kind of is forced this way... M It depends on the situation… if a man likes it… play with him or just enjoy it and expand on it … If he does it for your pleasure then have fun with it. If he hates it then require it. If he only wears xdess underneath tell him you want him to wear nothing, then boxers, then briefs and if he is good he can xdress… or tell him to wear something really old fashioned like those funny red underwear with opening in the back… ...Who knows it is really how you open your mind up to ideas and play with it or just enjoy it for what it is. I think that underwear is just that. It is the connotation that matters and what you do with that. As for humiliation with little effort well the internet is full of ideas....

LeatherRose -> RE: Question About Humiliation (8/30/2005 9:38:59 PM)
Nope, sounds just like me. I want my man to be a MAN not a sissy boy unless specifically being punished and/or humiliated. If I want to get all hot and bothered seeing someone dressed as a woman it'll be a woman in the clothes. As to whether it is really humiliating to him if he loves it? That all depends on the sub himself and his levels of humiliation I would think. If he is getting a boner from it, I personally would not give him the satisfaction (but again for me it is a punishment). Is it contradictory? Yup, but I'm bi and prefer the genders to look like their genders. LeatherRose

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Question About Humiliation (8/30/2005 11:26:08 PM)
quote: As for humiliation with little effort well the internet is full of ideas.... Thanks for the reply. Got any links you want to point me towards? M

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Question About Humiliation (8/30/2005 11:30:56 PM)
quote: I want my man to be a MAN not a sissy boy unless specifically being punished and/or humiliated. If I want to get all hot and bothered seeing someone dressed as a woman it'll be a woman in the clothes. Thanks for the reply and thoughts; I am in complete agreement, but sometimes it's difficult to gauge how much someone is into/not into something; often I'll get emails from people with interest lists which include things I'm not at all interested in, and I'll tell them we aren't compatible based on those things (I'm not interested in having an unhappy servant because he never or very rarely gets what he wants), and often they come back with "I'm open to those things but don't need them." What to think in those instances?? M

sf-Sub -> RE: Question About Humiliation (8/31/2005 4:39:32 AM)
quote: Got any links you want to point me towards? M Sure, a huge list of humiliation ideas: http://bdsmrealm.net/modules.php?name=4nForum&file=viewthread&tid=463 A breif essay of ideas: http://bdsmrealm.net/modules.php?name=Magazine&file=article&sid=148 Finally a whole section devoted to humiliation ideas: http://bdsmrealm.net/modules.php?name=4nForum&file=forumdisplay&fid=15

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Question About Humiliation (8/31/2005 6:12:15 AM)
Thanks sf-sub, I like what I've already seen. M

FelinePersuasion -> RE: Question About Humiliation (12/25/2006 10:04:43 AM)
Now not all adult babies like diapers. I am sure most do, but you can not state with utmost assurity that ALL adult babies like diapers. I started out as an adult baby and it was absolutely embarrasing, for me to say I needed changed. It was embarrasing and I tried to get him to come out of the room with our other ab friend to talk privatley and he wouldn't get the hint so fnally I was forced to come into the room and say I am wet, I need changed. quote: ORIGINAL: MissCrystalBlade Putting an adult baby into a diaper wouldnt be humiliation for them, it would be fantasy.

DreamyLadySnow -> RE: Question About Humiliation (12/25/2006 10:45:53 AM)
BlkTallFullfig, I totally agree with you - I like MEN! If a man is a crossdresser, I'd let him dress as a reward, not an everyday occurance. I want guys who look and act like guys. LS

LotusSong -> RE: Question About Humiliation (12/25/2006 12:07:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig I have a Dilemma... I like men... Love men... Prefer my men dressed well or casual, but always as men. I like it when a man presents himself that way to me, but I get a huge rise out of humiliating a man who's not big on Feminization by making him wear lingerie/panties, etc... I'm turned off when subs email me and they are in full "ridiculous looking (frilly)" female gear or have a strong feminization fetish, because to me he looks like a woman and that is not sexually exciting to me, plus is it really humiliation if he loves it? Is this contradictory? Am I strange (yes, I know I am) in wanting things this way? Is it unreasonable that I like it kind of is forced this way... M I'm the same. What really gripes my ass is.. THAT is how they see women???? And anything feminine is humiliation to them? I think they should approach a Male DOM in this attire if they REALLY want humliation. Either they present as a ridiculous little girl or a slut. Gee guys, thanks for the complement. (..if imitation is the sincerest form of flattery) - sarcasm.

LTRsubNW -> RE: Question About Humiliation (12/25/2006 2:55:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissCrystalBlade I dont think this is contradictory or strange. Humiliation doesnt work if you are having the person do or wear something that they are really into. Putting an adult baby into a diaper wouldnt be humiliation for them, it would be fantasy. If you want to use feminization for humiliation you will get better results with a man who isnt into crossdressing. Au Contraire.... Just because a man enjoys a thing (such as wearing heels or some such), indeed, prefers it, doesn't at ALL mean that because of this preference he wouldn't find it humiliating. In fact, it's almost entirely due to the whole societal issue that these things are humiliating. What makes it humiliating isn't his or her interest or lack therein....it's "what other people might think". The whole cuckold thing is an entirely humiliating thing for a man, I enjoy it tremendously and it is still at every turn not only humiliating...but sexual rocket fuel :)

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